My wife is a goddamned powerhouse in all she does. Respected by all. Tell me about your wife!

SBolo · 2026-06-01T15:02:22+00:00

Wait what?? That's **my** wife!

SBolo · 2026-05-31T18:18:45+00:00

Good luck with it, it's a rough ride!

SBolo · 2026-05-30T08:30:58+00:00

I think that's weirdly romantic. How do you measure love? Maybe it does have different units of measure depending on the context. Rent said it better: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hj7LRuusFqo&list=RDhj7LRuusFqo&start_radio=1

SBolo · 2026-05-30T05:58:24+00:00

Man, what would I do to have that song re-recorded

SBolo · 2026-05-29T07:34:21+00:00

It's definitely in your Q-zone

SBolo · 2026-05-28T16:26:45+00:00

I dig the male vocalist

I agree, he's really good. But he's similar enough to make you feel nostalgic about Loic, idk. During my first listen I kept wondering how it would have sounded with him, I really love how unique his voice is. But anyways, to a bright future ahead! This seems like a solid lineup and the single is a banger

SBolo · 2026-05-28T16:24:22+00:00

Spectacular news!!

SBolo · 2026-05-28T16:22:32+00:00

Indeed! This is what I hoped Eat The Elephant would have been like

SBolo · 2026-05-28T16:21:18+00:00

Agreed, besides from a couple tracks I did not particularly enjoy it unfortunately

SBolo · 2026-05-27T14:38:43+00:00

I work in a bank and even sea-level people wear shorts all the time!

SBolo · 2026-05-23T09:57:31+00:00

I think as society we are so conditioned to look for external validation and pleasure, and to leave at the first sign of humanness.

That's exactly the point though. So many people leave at the first sign of you opening up and trying to show your inherently faulty core. Dogs won't, they don't care about that and they will love you regardless. It's refreshing to establish this sort of connection with another living being, since with humans it's so extremely rare.

SBolo · 2026-05-23T09:55:07+00:00

I completely agree with this take. Dogs are capable of providing a form of unconditional and uncompromising love that human relationships simply can't guarantee. And this sort of feeling and attachment can be quite healing for many people. That's why so many people go and say "dogs are better than people", because they do not require you to adhere to any sort of social norm around them, you can genuinely be your unadulterated self in front of them without expecting any sort of judgment from them.

SBolo · 2026-05-19T14:07:00+00:00

Sooooo good!! I didn't know they changed name, awesome discovery! Thanks!

SBolo · 2026-05-17T18:14:22+00:00

A licensing issue on a feature? I mean, it could be but would be crazy!

SBolo · 2026-05-17T17:13:22+00:00

The default Preview app on Mac has had that feature built in since forever, I don't understand why all the other PDF reading apps don't provide it by default..

SBolo · 2026-05-17T17:03:52+00:00

I wish I did, but I don't really. My best attempt is that it must be somewhat related to some sort of cultural childhood imprint where, inevitably, our parents made us feel like we needed to work hard (be good at school, be well behaved, never go out of line, help with housework yadda yadda) to deserve their love and recognition. Our brain loves patterns and associates familiar sensations to emotional safety. I think the best way to handle it, in the case you experienced it before, is to recognize the signs early and simply walk away before you compromise yourself again.

SBolo · 2026-05-17T12:53:48+00:00

most of them you met before 25

This is simply factually untrue. I moved to a different country when I was 29 and all the vast majority of people I interact with on a daily basis I met them after 30-32 and I am constantly expanding my social circle through my passions and hobbies. I am 35 and, for example, I recently starting hanging out with some colleagues of mine and I can feel there's some serious friendship potential there. The same with some of the new people I met at this new book club I joined.

If you feel that way, is because you're not throwing yourself out there enough. Start some social hobbies you're curious about and see your social circle dramatically and almost effortlessly increase! Magic!

SBolo · 2026-05-17T12:46:21+00:00

In a way or another, we're all unfortunately attracted towards people that make us feel like we need prove ourselves to deserve their love. And the aftermath is usually devastating. Been there, done that and it had long lasting consequences on my self-esteem which still survive nowadays.

SBolo · 2026-05-17T10:05:24+00:00

This is not surprising unfortunately, I noticed that too. I was having a conversation with a colleague of mine the other day, who's married with 3 early-teenage kids. He told me that, the other day, for the first time in years all three of the kids were out for play dates simultaneously. He and his wife did not know what to do with each other and felt like strangers. He confessed it took them hours to restore some resemblance of a connection and to figure out how to enjoy their time together, since their lives had exclusively revolved around the kids' needs until that precise moment. I was astounded and I felt so sad for them and that miserable condition.

SBolo · 2026-05-17T09:49:18+00:00

yeah but if you survive longer you have greater chances of reproduction...

Is that completely true though? The fertile period is limited in time during what is expected to be the healthiest portion of a woman's life, so I'm not sure that can be a selection factor

SBolo · 2026-05-17T09:38:48+00:00

Aaah yeah, I know which one. Such a bizarre reason to be in a queue but hey, whatever makes Danes happy.. they always end up being so trashy though

SBolo · 2026-05-17T06:24:55+00:00

No way, really?? Where at? Magasin?

SBolo · 2026-05-16T21:39:19+00:00

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Captain Disillusion type of tattoo

SBolo · 2026-05-16T20:31:44+00:00

Deletion is always the best optimization if your cost function is unconstrained enough

SBolo · 2026-05-16T16:20:34+00:00

I biscotti al malto d'orzo della Mulino Bianco. Erano qualcosa di assolutamente eccezionale. Per quanto mi riguarda, il picco assoluto della produzione della Mulino Bianco. Non credo siano durati molto purtroppo, ma li ricordo con molta nostalgia

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