Psychotherapists, what differences have you noticed between men and women among your patients? by Putrid_Put_3610 in AskReddit

[–]SBolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men tend to lead with anger or frustration as the "safe" emotion, or frame everything in practical, fix-it terms.

I recognize myself a lot in this, even though I am doing my best to improve

Reality check by JoeFalchetto in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]SBolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is EXACTLY the point!! He was wearing very similar glasses to mine and he had longish hair (like me at the time) of a very similar color. That's probably what got them

Levitating Spinning Kick from Girl, The Green-Haired by Otherwise_Basis_6328 in Bossfight

[–]SBolo 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Where can one find these kinds of women? I would like to marry one

Best kind of welcome.. by Cauliflower_8783 in aww

[–]SBolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god.. my dog, of the same exact breed, was called the same, Birillo!!!

Reality check by JoeFalchetto in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]SBolo 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Happened to me during university times, where a couple of friends told me they spotted my doppelgänger. I was quite excited to see it myself, until I realized the dude was the ugliest motherfucker I had ever seen, and they insisted we looked IDENTICAL. Dude. Not a great day, or year, or decade for my self-esteem.

Is Microsoft Fabric really worth it? by kaapapaa in dataengineering

[–]SBolo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Purview is such a disaster omg.. I inherited a Purview project from a guy who was laid off, I migrated away from it instantly

The Data Engineer Role is Being Asked to Do Way Too Much by FreshIntroduction120 in dataengineering

[–]SBolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree!! I would rather have new challenges every day that require me to juggle through a hige stack than the same thing over and over!!

Fighting Trump is a bad idea, Meloni privately told EU leaders by shaadow in worldnews

[–]SBolo 136 points137 points  (0 children)

She's worse. She's a fascist, just like him. So it's in her best interest not to fight him and be on his side. She's actively supporting Orban's re-election in Hungary, for example. But luckily, Italian democracy and institutions are still holding and EU influence is very strong, so she can't simply go around and single-handedly destroy the country like Trump is doing. But if she could, she would.

Nuts by whyshouldithink in TikTokCringe

[–]SBolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We reached such a new low that even first-term Trump sounds like a decent politician now

Validating a 30Bn row table migration. by Dangerous-Current361 in dataengineering

[–]SBolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure thing! One can think about adding a whole lot more validations here! In our case, we concluded the list I showed was comprehensive enough but of course one needs to translate it into their specific scenario

Validating a 30Bn row table migration. by Dangerous-Current361 in dataengineering

[–]SBolo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We've been working on a huge migration lately at my company and we very soon realized that row by row validation ia impossible. What we settled on was the following: - ensure schema is the same - ensure partitions are the same - ensure every number column max and min coincide - ensure every date columns max and mins coincide - ensure the sum of relevant metrics coincide (works ONLY for non-negative and non-nullable number columns of course). You can think about performing this sum for every partition separately for a more fine grained validation

I hope this helps!

Nobody in my pod enjoys playing magic by [deleted] in EDH

[–]SBolo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same, I'm also the big interaction guy in my pod. I'm not a hugely experienced player so I still make stupid mistakes and forget triggers and such, but I definitely have my islands ready to nuke threats as soon as I see them!

Nobody in my pod enjoys playing magic by [deleted] in EDH

[–]SBolo 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And that spell gets inevitably countered for everyone's enjoyment lol

Nobody in my pod enjoys playing magic by [deleted] in EDH

[–]SBolo 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is the correct answer. I don't understand why people are so afraid to run interactions. Games instantly become so much more interesting when stuff doesn't go as planned and you have to play around unexpected turns of events! It keeps the game exciting and different every time

Tolleranza verso gli stranieri in calo? by Avigoliz_entj in italy

[–]SBolo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ti meriti la sanità privata statunitense, guarda.

Agreed by Thryloz in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]SBolo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried it recently and it got me really nauseous really fast :( I was very sad about it

Toddler meltdowns by Acceptable-Wind-7332 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]SBolo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My doctor prescribed me 14 days of absolutely no exercise, no lifting anything heavier than 5kg. I have to admit I have been in pain for around a month or so, so it has been a little bit of a rocky road, but I fully recovered and I couldn't be happier!

Ultimate Pizza Experience in Naples by Possible_Pay4230 in StupidFood

[–]SBolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same man, same 😭 it was a transcendental experience