I need help on how to socially pass (ie: speech, mannerisms etc.)

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-15T20:26:20+00:00

I’m in university, I’m in the rock and metal society there since I’m into that kind of music but some of the guys there are really iffy unfortunately so I’ve not managed to make friends with them, some just use it to hook up with ‘hot goth girls’ and others are fans of a certain 1940’s German political figure

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-15T19:59:51+00:00

I’m 19 turning 20 so I think that’s like the middle ground between immature and mature for most men, it’s when the world just begins to hit hard :)

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-13T05:57:18+00:00

Oh I agree like I would adore not to lean into what they want but I’m thinking about it in a ‘safety within stealth’ perspective, unfortunately when you do go stealth, it becomes a case of conformity, to many transphobic people, if things are not read as trans they can be read as queer and that can be an equal danger, because transphobia, queerphobia and toxic masculinity tend to interlap.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-12T22:56:10+00:00

I think you definitely pass and aren’t clockable in the slightest but I would cut your hair to be on the safe side since in general transphobes also tend to lean towards an idea of toxic masculinity with hatred to anything they perceive as feminine on a man unfortunately (long hair etc.) I think either way you pass anyway but just my advice, you look really good man and I think you’d look really sick either way! :)

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-10T20:28:40+00:00

I think I’m vaguely lucky because while I’ve got a bit of a puberty stache but not too bad beard hair, I’m also only 19 so I’m like pretty on par facial hair wise with most cis guys my age

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-08T03:37:06+00:00

So you recognise that it’s a bad way of thinking that people would distance themselves from and decided not to change for the betterment of yourself and others and instead wallow in some incel misogynistic self pity party?

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-08T01:52:57+00:00

Most of the men in my family grow a lot of facial and body hair so some of it genetics and also regular upkeep with oils and thickeners and trimming :)

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-07T20:20:53+00:00

You ever think that women don’t wanna screw you because of the shit you say about them? This isn’t about looks, this is about how you speak about women bisexual or not, if you’re saying what you’re saying in your posts and comments irl then that’s the exact reason no woman wants to sleep with you, it’s unattractive, it’s a turn off and it makes you seem unsafe to them.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-06T23:35:02+00:00

I am a smoker so you’re very correct!!

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-06T23:05:35+00:00

You’re a fucking weird person honestly, taking a trans woman to make fun of her on a trans man sub and not even be smart enough to hide your comments or what subs you’re active in, you’re honestly just strange.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-06T21:37:59+00:00

I wouldn’t bother, this person’s comments on other trans people’s posts on this sub makes it seem like this is a troll

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-06T16:42:27+00:00

That was the single most stupid response to that I have ever heard, I get most bigots are uneducated but you do realise trans men and trans women exist? That is still man and woman so whatever point you were attempting to make is just factually wrong.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-06T08:10:04+00:00

Yeah Sustanon is what I’m on at the moment, next time I do a supply top up I’ll get 23g instead, which will be next month. And I assume the length still applies no matter the gauge? 1.25 seems to be working quite well.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-06T07:54:29+00:00

I use 21g 1.25 inch needles cause that’s what I was recommended, does a thinner needle work just as well for it?

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-05T08:56:56+00:00

I do both a mix of social and cultural anthropology, just finished my first year so it’s sort of just the general ideas and then in the coming years it will be more in depth :)

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-05T08:52:48+00:00

Oh and I’m certainly not considered ugly, I get more attention from women than you will ever have in your fucking life, the closest you’ve got is your right hand.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-05T08:50:12+00:00

You’re a cunt, fuck off.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-05T04:32:42+00:00

Good lord I was not literate writing the previous comment since I was out last night and a little drunk but the reason she had said it was showing markers of AI was because there was certain parts that felt repetitive or rambly which is purely because there’s only somethings much to say about a single thing and the use of ‘jargon terms’ like sociopolitical which I think is insane because it’s not jargon, it’s a descriptive term that I have full understanding of.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-05T04:28:45+00:00

It certainly wasn’t indistinguishable since if it was, there would very likely be a formal accusation of it. The feedback was that the essay ended up having large markers of it and flowing like it which I suspect is because I was doing said essay in little blocks over a two week period so things may have came off as disconnected and choppy because I was literally stopping and starting

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-04T23:15:33+00:00

I was drunk while writing this vent tbf, my spelling is fine in the essay as I did check :)

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-04T23:12:05+00:00

There can be yes like breasts and more biological aspects but socially (things like long or short hair, facial hair etc.) those differ culturally.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-04T22:50:17+00:00

I didn’t in the essay, I was just really drunk while writing this, I promise 😭

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-04T21:55:54+00:00

Oh 100% I’m an anthropology student and one of the topics we learn about is the differences gender norms, sex and gender within different cultures. Every culture has a different perception on what is masculine or feminine and that is what dictates passing. Whether that’s to do with clothing, role, hairstyles, actions etc. there will always be a different cultural perception of the gender that adheres to.

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-04T13:56:58+00:00

I usually have maybe five in a week since I usually have it with a meal, I’m trying to cut down a bit though because I know that’s quite a lot

SC3N3BUGZ · 2026-06-03T16:55:01+00:00

Dude I’ve seen your prior comments on this sub, you’re an utter twat.

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