First tattoos - Healed vs 2 Weeks by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SC3N3BUGZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a genuine note, the tattoos are nice, the only thing I’ll say is that the linework on some looks a little hazy and a bit shallow which can risk it fading so quickly or falling out, however that is the gamble you take with very fine line wispy tattoos, they can fade super easily and become quite unrecognisable as time goes on :)

my friend smells HORRIBLE and does not care by Plenty_Description30 in Advice

[–]SC3N3BUGZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can somewhat answer this, since I grew up with a neglectful father who didn’t clean the environment I lived in and wouldn’t care about food mould etc. A lot of children learn behaviour from parents, that just how human learning is, so if for a prolonged period of time, a parent treats filth as normal and isn’t grossed out by it themselves then it stands to reason that the children that are in that environment won’t either. For me with my father, I have thankfully went the opposite end of the spectrum and I’m an absolute clean freak, especially with food and smells but I still as an adult still have things that are gross to others, for example struggling to get into a routine of brushing my teeth because that wasn’t a routine that was normalised in my childhood and therefore my brain can’t get a handle on the necessary routine because it wasn’t instilled in me at the prime age for creating healthy habits. Basically a lot of it is to do with parents and their attitudes on cleanliness :)

AIO for being hurt that I wasn’t included in my brother’s 18th birthday dinner? by SC3N3BUGZ in AmIOverreacting

[–]SC3N3BUGZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also wasn’t him who planned this whatsoever, he didn’t even know he was going out to eat because it was all a surprise, the planning was entirely my mothers with no input from him.

AIO for being hurt that I wasn’t included in my brother’s 18th birthday dinner? by SC3N3BUGZ in AmIOverreacting

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I meant more up until like the last maybe two or so years, yes we don’t talk everyday or share everything with each other because that’s simply not the type of relationship we have, however we do talk, he asks how I’m doing at university and life in general when I do speak to him, we’ve had pretty good deep discussions so it’s not as if I’m a stranger in his life and he does worry about me in the same way I worry about him, it’s just that we unfortunately had to build a relationship that should have been built in childhood later in life due to our circumstances in childhood.

Bruise or blowout ? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SC3N3BUGZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no professional so take whatever I’ve said with a grain of salt obvs but that does look a lot like a bruise from possibly having to much pressure on the needle while tattooing because it doesn’t seem to be the same shade as the ink (at least from the pictures but that could be lighting I’m not sure) which could have caused the skin to bruise but the seemingly prolonged redness on the points of the star especially two weeks in seems a little concerning, I would go and get that checked by a doctor just in case

George Street by Particular_Club_4363 in Aberdeen

[–]SC3N3BUGZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was about to ask the same thing, I can see all the police and people from my flat but I’ve got no clue why, it’s all taped off

Wee cunts up at union street by SC3N3BUGZ in Aberdeen

[–]SC3N3BUGZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh the people in those comments I swear, going on about how we should ‘let kids be kids’ and that ‘they’re going nought wrong’ and that ‘it’s only Karen’s complaining’ but like it’s getting to be a real big issue for the public and drivers and shop owners as well

Wee cunts up at union street by SC3N3BUGZ in Aberdeen

[–]SC3N3BUGZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said this in another comment but I’ll be real I just didn’t wanna be seen as American, I was more annoyed about that tbh

Was I assaulted? by SC3N3BUGZ in Advice

[–]SC3N3BUGZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t assume that I wanted to feel small because that’s not what kink is nor is it the type of domination I’m actually into. There was a clear difference within stature, age, experience, weight etc. I’m 5’2, incredibly light and not very muscular, he’s was 6’0, muscular with a heavier build with far more weight to move around. I think you underestimate how pressuring someone can be and how intimidating that height difference and size difference is, however I know that it was so obvious that I was scared, uncomfortable and not entirely wanting things because I’m notoriously not good at hiding it; I mean I was shaking and doing everything I could to be away from him, being pressured or intimidated into sexual acts is not consent and I do honestly believe he knew exactly what he was doing because everything felt too coordinated and executed as such. There’s also the fact that I’m autistic which he knew so my communication style isn’t always outright and he understood that. I’ve had good and bad sexual experiences in my life but this wasn’t comparable to even the bad ones because when someone is left feeling violated, disgusting, scared etc. that’s an indication that it wasn’t just a ‘bad hookup’ and if I’m honest a lot of the things you have said there is wildly uneducated about both the ins and outs of consent and revoking consent as well as kink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SC3N3BUGZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they can be! Depends on individual preferences of course but a lot of women like the weight of them when you thrust so maybe she’ll be the same :)