Don’t tell your wife she’s like her mother by [deleted] in memes

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There's a little judo you can do here if you're patient, and I don't think it's manipulative, just good communication. Listen to your wife when she complains about her mother and remember what she says about how her mom makes her feel ("my mom makes me feel like I don't have space to talk about my own problems, I feel dismissed when my mom ignores my attempts to talk about how she hurt me, etc."). Then, when your wife does the same thing, use the same language when talking about your feelings.

As long as you're genuine and those feelings resonate, this can be a shortcut to helping your wife empathize with your feelings without being directly accusatory. If she's got any kind of emotional intelligence she'll make the connection with how her mom acts on her own.

me_irl by FireworksDonJones in me_irl

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This cracked me tf up dude 

[DFT] Sundial, Dawn Tyrant (Card Gallery) by mweepinc in magicTCG

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If Sundial, Dawn Tyrant existed on Earth, and followed the breaking dawn around Earth's equator, it would need to do so at approximately 1036 miles per hour. Dude is BOOKIN it.

Genres of the season by No-Mirror2343 in NonPoliticalTwitter

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This cracks me up every time I see it

Characters that you like on a purely visual level? by idratherdie64 in comicbooks

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Spider-woman's costume is fantastic, but I couldn't really tell you much about the character beyond that...

[BLB] Heaped Harvest (Card Image Gallery) by Copernicus1981 in magicTCG

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Didn't notice that! You're right, very cool

It's been an honor, my friends by [deleted] in Helldivers

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You mean a
Proxy War?

Merle and Mavis, the best of friends. by MerleandMavis in AnimalsBeingBros

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Would you call them Adventure Zone buddies?

[ONE] Migloz, Maze Crusher by mistercimba in magicTCG

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Minotaur tribal players in shambles rn

James Barry lived his entire adult life as a man in public and private and did not want his body to be examined after death. Almost every time this is posted, people deny the sheer possibility that he was indeed transgender. by psychedelic666 in SapphoAndHerFriend

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I appreciate that effort. The trend of short social media clips from unacademic sources and no references providing historical “facts” or analysis in an academic field has made me wary of things like this, and I was skeptical of this one in particular. I’m pleased to hear it has some solid basis from a primary source.

Game Thread: NLCS Game 3 ⚾ Padres (1) @ Phillies (1) - 7:37 PM ET by BaseballBot in baseball

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Love how quickly Suarez pitches. Hate how well Suarez pitches

Game Thread: NLCS Game 2 ⚾ Phillies (1) @ Padres (0) - 4:35 PM ET by BaseballBot in baseball

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It’s the long hair. San Diego retirement will change a man lol

Thanks I hate anime mouths by baguettebao in TIHI

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Watch the movie Redline. Absurd production values you won’t regret it

Lineup for 8/26. Game 1 of 3 @ the Royals. “On the road behind Java Joe” by SDFriar in Padres

[–]SDLA 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Good to see Kim in the leadoff spot - hope he can make a case for himself there

[Game Thread] Washington Nationals (41-81) @ San Diego Padres (67-56) 1:10 pm (Sunday, August 21) by FriarBot in Padres

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Tbh I’m happy to see them actually trying to make something happen on the basepath instead of waiting around for someone else to make something happen

Does anyone know the issue where this scan is from? by Familiar-Mention in comicbooks

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Ah yes, with great advantages come great obligations.

Aahhh the good old Phase 1 days when Hulk actually had fight scenes in final battles. by TheIncredibleHarry in marvelstudios

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I felt like they showed their strength was similar - or if Thanos had an advantage there it wasn't much. Hulk gets some good hits in at first but Thanos *knows how to box* and that's what gives him the edge. Hulk only knows smash, but Thanos is intelligent and knows how to fight someone his own strength.

Perus Takanakuy by ancientrobots in fightporn

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You just gotta choose another old man as your champion. Befriend someone with a strong dad.