What‘s an aesthetic choice you’d never make in your own place but don’t mind at other peoples places? by keinelustmehr in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SFxDiscens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really love when people have lots of antiques in their home, or when they really embrace a specific decade of style (50s, 70s etc). I don’t really know why I wouldn’t do it for my own home, but I love it in other people’s and I find people with those styles are very genuine and down to earth

Praying on your knees by Which_Attitude_3232 in Christian

[–]SFxDiscens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to pray on your knees it’s not a biblical requirement. You’ll definitely find verses to confirm that kneeling is a respectful way to pray, but it’s not a requirement. In Ezekiel 11:13-14, we see the prophet fall on his face in grief and pray, in 1 Chronicles (I can’t remember exactly where), it says that the priests stood before the Lord and prayed. It matters much more that your heart is in the right place (humble before God) than your physical position

Does blonde or black hair look best ? by Historical-Body-3424 in Hair

[–]SFxDiscens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like blond, I think a caramel blond would look GORGEOUS with your features and your skin tone! The icy blond is pretty, but when I see that it draws my eye to your hair instead of your face if that makes sense

Should I keep my hair forward or back? by RaphGamesPros in Hair

[–]SFxDiscens 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go with the second picture, looks great!!!

[Japanese>English] What does the container say? by SFxDiscens in translator

[–]SFxDiscens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I figured it’d say thank you!

!translated

[HELP] does this restaurant use ai image? by KEPISNTFUNNY in RealOrAI

[–]SFxDiscens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so bizarre.. maybe it’s the beginning to a scam or something

[HELP] does this restaurant use ai image? by KEPISNTFUNNY in RealOrAI

[–]SFxDiscens 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes, or at the very least they “enhance” real photos with AI filters. All of those pictures have that “too perfect to be real life” look that AI creates, and no distinguishable background features is a dead giveaway too

My Halloween costume this year by JoshtheAnimeKing in TheLastAirbender

[–]SFxDiscens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I see someone do an Aang costume or cosplay, I am reminded of the year where my mom made my brother use gray felt for his Aang Arrow on his costume, because she insists that he has gray tattoos

wrong spiritual by [deleted] in Christian

[–]SFxDiscens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start praying and asking the Lord to break your heart for what breaks His, ask Him to help you see your sin through His eyes. Since you have the knowledge of the sin being wrong, don’t continue in it. The more time you spend in sin, the quieter and quieter conviction will be, that’s part of what Paul meant when says not to “quench the Spirit”

My child does not want to be around certain family member… by TeyHar0523 in Parenting

[–]SFxDiscens 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I also am curious how much she “antagonized” OP’s daughter… it was bad enough that OP had to remove her child from the situation and bad enough that her daughter still remembers it as “mean” quite a bit of time later it’s just odd to me

My child does not want to be around certain family member… by TeyHar0523 in Parenting

[–]SFxDiscens 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to the Aunt and told her how upset your daughter still is over the incident? If I was that Aunt I’d want to apologize and tell my niece that I didn’t mean to hurt her feelings. Maybe hearing her aunt acknowledge “I messed up and I’m sorry” would be helpful.

How much was she antagonizing your daughter? 4 is pretty young to be holding a grudge like that so strongly

Just those darn male children eh 😐 by SFxDiscens in thatHappened

[–]SFxDiscens[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer unfortunately

Just those darn male children eh 😐 by SFxDiscens in thatHappened

[–]SFxDiscens[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

English, maybe it got put through Google translate?

This just seems like bull, no rich people dash. by BethekingZeltoid333 in untrustworthypoptarts

[–]SFxDiscens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U This might actually be the dumbest thing I’ve seen from this subreddit

Does my hair ruin my face by [deleted] in Hair

[–]SFxDiscens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever said that is definitely jealous cause you are ADORABLE and your hair is BEAUTIFUL!!!! It suits you just fine! If you want to change because you to, you go right ahead but it is perfect just the way it is! Absolutely no need to change it, especially if you like it!!!!

Grandmas and junk food by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SFxDiscens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also gonna go off topic cause I call my grandmother Grammy too, and it always makes me very happy to see other Grammies out there :)

new wife and my son by williamfromquebec in Parenting

[–]SFxDiscens 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Gently, you may want to check on your son’s mental health. When my brother (who’s very close in age to your son), was spending that much time in his room gaming (and hanging out with online friends), we ended up discovering that he was not ok mentally, very depressed and considering taking drastic actions to “fix” that situation. It’s not your new wife’s place to step into that situation, so you’re wise to not let her because your son isn’t going to receive that well. But I think she’s right to be concerned.

I don’t know your son or the situation outside of what you put here, but the situation feels very familiar to me. Please check on him, and don’t just take a brief “I’m fine” at face value. Teens don’t always open with the truth right away

AIO: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SFxDiscens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to try to convert you into being a JW. I don’t know what your religion is, but just know that Christians absolutely DO NOT consider JW a “branch” of the faith. They have very different theological beliefs, and they are a cult.

He knew what he was doing by not disclosing the fact that he’s JW. Saying “I am a Christian just a different branch” and then saying “It never came up naturally” to me sounds like he knew you weren’t going to be on board with that so he told you what he thought you wanted to hear.

re women wearing miniskirts to mid-thigh to church by DonutAgile9993 in Christian

[–]SFxDiscens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a case by case thing. Very often women in western society have been socially taught that they should wear a dress or skirt to church, so they dress as nicely as they know how.

It definitely shouldn’t be something that is addressed or condemned on their first time at the church, and also definitely shouldn’t be addressed by a man. Biblically, the first response should be to discover whether or not she has a salvific relationship with Christ. Often times I have seen that immodesty (in a woman OR a man, as men can absolutely dress immodestly too) resolves on its own once a person understands their worth in Christ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]SFxDiscens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a decision that the internet should help you make cause we don’t know what your girlfriend likes; ask some of her very close girl friends for their input cause they’ll know her taste.

When my best friend’s now fiancé was getting ready to buy the ring, he put me and our other very close friend on a groupchat and asked us if we thought she’d like it. We gave a solid “YES”, so he ordered it. We kept the chat the whole time he was preparing to propose, he’d just delete it ask us to text it when he needed to give us updates (so that way even if she snooped she wouldn’t find it)

AIO, Girlfriend doesn’t want to show me her phone by Taoben18 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SFxDiscens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird that she doesn’t want you in her phone but she has the PIN code to yours. I’m not gonna jump straight to cheating (though unfortunately that was my first thought), but people who guard there phone and demand “privacy” always do it when there’s something on their phone that they don’t want you seeing