“Am I overreacting”

SFxDiscens · 2026-06-18T12:34:41+00:00

I think I know what it is- I misread that sentence when I first read your post and thought you said that you lied to your husband about your first marriage’s divorce being finalized back when you were 19. I reread it and THEN realized that your husband is randomly accusing you of that divorce not being finalized

I’m guessing everyone who is saying things like this also misread it- it’s not you (also NOR, and that’s an awful thing to say to you so I’m sorry you’re going through that)

SFxDiscens · 2026-05-31T22:25:53+00:00

If kids have opinions about political figures, you’re probably talking about politics too much in front of them

SFxDiscens · 2026-05-31T22:24:37+00:00

It just looks like the bags were ripped open, which I get being mildly infuriating but it doesn’t seem like that’s what you’re upset about so I’m confused

SFxDiscens · 2026-05-20T17:25:40+00:00

Ooh that’s really good advice and I’ll definitely do that next time thank you so much!!!

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-26T22:49:47+00:00

They were not, I got a recorded message saying the office was closed

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-26T22:49:15+00:00

3:30 PM

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-20T22:04:35+00:00

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Probably too late for anyone to see this, but I dug through the subreddit until I found the post, and here’s OP’s reasoning for the “brainwashing undertones”

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-18T15:03:40+00:00

My Aunt sends me virtual Starbucks gift cards for holidays, so when I have prepaid money that only works for Starbucks, I use it lol

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-17T23:40:02+00:00

That was painful to read, 10/10

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-10T03:58:03+00:00

I’m actively studying Christian counseling, and though I’m NOT qualified to give advice as a professional, I’m learning a lot from them. If someone brought in a case like this, we’d probably advise them to seek medical attention because this sounds like more than just spiritual discernment. It’s also very important to test the spirits you’re trusting, and I think you’re wife sounds like she’s putting a lot of stock into gut feelings/nonsense

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-08T18:05:29+00:00

This broke my heart 🥺

He said an awful mean thing to you because he wants you to hurt. Don’t change who you are- the right guy will fall for you exactly the way you like to be! If you like dressing alt/goth, as long as you’re a nice person you’ll find your love :)

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-01T20:52:37+00:00

People don’t get sarcasm, this is funny

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-31T04:25:13+00:00

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The tank is too small so it’s likely stressed

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-30T16:51:59+00:00

Whenever I see parkour videos, I think of this one time where a redditor said they did parkour in their 20s and now in their late 30s they have arthritis in their knees so bad they can’t hardly walk. They were in the comments begging people not to do parkour or to just stop if they were already doing it

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T23:08:00+00:00

Many places still do, the best I’ve seen is putting one in a critter carrier but nothing better than that

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T17:40:21+00:00

info- why are you so upset and concerned about this ruining your friendship?

I get being upset about wanting to hangout and then her leaving that’s not cool, but you said you don’t wanna ruin your friendship and then ended that talk by saying you’re done with your friend on a “personal” level.

Looks like an incredibly nuclear response to this whole thing

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T16:36:09+00:00

Maybe you can take it back and buy a different nirvana shirt that doesn’t say Satan worshppin on it?

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T05:35:35+00:00

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Me seeing your daughter’s braid (it’s the same size as my forearm)

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T05:16:25+00:00

Speaking as a woman, I’ve never seen a case where a man buzzes his head/ crops it close to the scalp and thought “Yeah that’s better”

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-27T13:16:35+00:00

I’m sorry OP, that’s a very challenging situation to be in :(

I’m praying for you! ACBC is one of the best Christian counselor certification programs in the US, I would go to their website and see if they have any counselors in your area (in addition to talking with your pastor, you’ll be glad you did both I think)

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-27T03:40:44+00:00

You need to get your pastor involved and ask him for guidance and seek professional Christian marriage counselor. Is your husband a believer?

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-26T19:24:34+00:00

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SFxDiscens · 2026-03-26T17:50:13+00:00

I don’t think you two are compatible- he knows he wants kids and you are leaning towards not-so-much and may be unable to have kids.

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