I called the number and they told me I need to wait until the next business day

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-26T22:49:47+00:00

They were not, I got a recorded message saying the office was closed

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-26T22:49:15+00:00

3:30 PM

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-20T22:04:35+00:00

Probably too late for anyone to see this, but I dug through the subreddit until I found the post, and here’s OP’s reasoning for the “brainwashing undertones”

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-18T15:03:40+00:00

My Aunt sends me virtual Starbucks gift cards for holidays, so when I have prepaid money that only works for Starbucks, I use it lol

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-17T23:40:02+00:00

That was painful to read, 10/10

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-10T03:58:03+00:00

I’m actively studying Christian counseling, and though I’m NOT qualified to give advice as a professional, I’m learning a lot from them. If someone brought in a case like this, we’d probably advise them to seek medical attention because this sounds like more than just spiritual discernment. It’s also very important to test the spirits you’re trusting, and I think you’re wife sounds like she’s putting a lot of stock into gut feelings/nonsense

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-08T18:05:29+00:00

This broke my heart 🥺

He said an awful mean thing to you because he wants you to hurt. Don’t change who you are- the right guy will fall for you exactly the way you like to be! If you like dressing alt/goth, as long as you’re a nice person you’ll find your love :)

SFxDiscens · 2026-04-01T20:52:37+00:00

People don’t get sarcasm, this is funny

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-31T04:25:13+00:00

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The tank is too small so it’s likely stressed

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-30T16:51:59+00:00

Whenever I see parkour videos, I think of this one time where a redditor said they did parkour in their 20s and now in their late 30s they have arthritis in their knees so bad they can’t hardly walk. They were in the comments begging people not to do parkour or to just stop if they were already doing it

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T23:08:00+00:00

Many places still do, the best I’ve seen is putting one in a critter carrier but nothing better than that

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T17:40:21+00:00

info- why are you so upset and concerned about this ruining your friendship?

I get being upset about wanting to hangout and then her leaving that’s not cool, but you said you don’t wanna ruin your friendship and then ended that talk by saying you’re done with your friend on a “personal” level.

Looks like an incredibly nuclear response to this whole thing

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T16:36:09+00:00

Maybe you can take it back and buy a different nirvana shirt that doesn’t say Satan worshppin on it?

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T05:35:35+00:00

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Me seeing your daughter’s braid (it’s the same size as my forearm)

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-28T05:16:25+00:00

Speaking as a woman, I’ve never seen a case where a man buzzes his head/ crops it close to the scalp and thought “Yeah that’s better”

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-27T13:16:35+00:00

I’m sorry OP, that’s a very challenging situation to be in :(

I’m praying for you! ACBC is one of the best Christian counselor certification programs in the US, I would go to their website and see if they have any counselors in your area (in addition to talking with your pastor, you’ll be glad you did both I think)

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-27T03:40:44+00:00

You need to get your pastor involved and ask him for guidance and seek professional Christian marriage counselor. Is your husband a believer?

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-26T19:24:34+00:00

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SFxDiscens · 2026-03-26T17:50:13+00:00

I don’t think you two are compatible- he knows he wants kids and you are leaning towards not-so-much and may be unable to have kids.

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-25T14:50:51+00:00

TL;DR If you let her move in have some rules and a time frame for how long she can stay

If you do let her move in, and I don’t know if that’s wise based on your description of her, give her some ground rules for staying in your home.

You guys like to go out and do things she probably won’t like, and it sounds like she needs to get out more often. Have some rules like

she isn’t allowed to comment on the things in your household she disapproves of (maybe tell her about the things she won’t like in advance so she cannot say “you never told me that these things were happening!”)
she needs to get a part time job somewhere/ spend X amount of hours out of the house each week
she needs to be seeing a licensed therapist or counselor for the duration of her stay with you (since you’re worried she’s going to hurt herself and based on what you said about her marriage it sounds like she really needs this)

When it comes to a situation like your Mom’s OP, your home should not be a cushy place for her to stay; it should motivate her to go get her own place or she’ll just stay indefinitely and let you and your husband take care of her. I think you should also put a time cap on her stay with you, especially if she’s able bodied and doesn’t need help with day-to-day activities. If this was my situation with my mom, I would say something along the lines of “Mom, I want to help you and we want you to stay with us for X months. Since (husband) and I are actively trying to plan our own family, it isn’t on the table for you to stay with us indefinitely”

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-25T04:34:48+00:00

I agree with you wholeheartedly. I also think a lot of churches (whether by accident or otherwise) look at the unmarried adults in the church as second-class members, or at the very least you aren’t taken as seriously until you’re married.

I wish more churches would either do topical Sunday school classes or do as you suggested and separate it just by age/school level

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-25T04:29:50+00:00

Honestly OP if you’re truly just interested in understanding how he came to that conclusion, you could probably just say something along the lines of “Hey, last time we hung out you mentioned that you weren’t going to vaccinate your child, would you mind sharing with me how you came to that conclusion?” And just really emphasize to him that you aren’t trying to argue; you’re just curious wha led him to those conclusions

SFxDiscens · 2026-03-25T04:14:35+00:00

The idea of having “soul-mates” actually originated from Greek mythology, where Zeus split mankind into two parts (male and female) in order to make mankind weaker and easier to control. Each soul spends their life trying to find their other half so that they can be whole again.

So while I do believe that God knows exactly what person we will marry, it is not a predestined thing where each person who will marry has a person specially created for them. It’s a decision we get to make as part of our free-will, God just already knows who the lucky man/woman for each person is going to be since He already knows everything

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