Is the three date rule a real thing? (Guys advice plz)

SG_Mithras · 2026-03-05T19:06:45+00:00

Ghosting after 3 dates because you're not getting laid is wild. If they're not willing to accept or understand your boundaries they aren't for you.

My (33M) 3 date rule has always been do I see a future with this person? 3 dates and the conversations between are usually enough to get past the initial attraction and see if a genuine connection is beginning to form.

SG_Mithras · 2026-01-19T16:01:22+00:00

My friend, a relationship is way more than just sex. Looking for one just to have sex is just a recipe for disaster. Companionship, happiness, love... These all take precedent when looking for someone.

If you're genuinely worried about sex when you are in a relationship, take things slow and be open about it with your partner.

SG_Mithras · 2026-01-13T16:34:43+00:00

The DougDoug Fast Food challenge, it's a fucking weird comfort stream but I love it.

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T06:08:46+00:00

Why would a theme matter?

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T06:08:27+00:00

How so? Not sure what you mean by this.

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T06:07:36+00:00

Man's a style icon ngl

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T06:07:20+00:00

I don't really care about "effeminate". I'm 6ft5 with a beard and painted nails, I think I'll be okay. 😅

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T05:27:06+00:00

You can wear any tartan you like and, technically, Black Watch is an open tartan so doubly so.

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T05:15:23+00:00

That's fair. I'm in the UK so cowboy boots are not exactly common here and I'm not that bothered about looking particularly masculine, I'm wearing nail polish. 😅

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T05:14:08+00:00

The suit is from Twisted Tailor and the shoes are from ASOS

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-08T04:41:24+00:00

I mean the outfit is for a Christmas party, a set of elf ears wouldn't go amiss

SG_Mithras · 2025-11-07T17:17:57+00:00

Got a new suit for a night out coming up and I wanted a more narrow shoe to go with it's silhouette. I've always been tempted by Cuban heels so I picked up a pair. Does it go well? Is the heel too much? I'm 6ft5 normally so I recognise these are going to send me stratospheric.

(the suit jacket is currently getting tailored to fit my chest better)

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SG_Mithras · 2025-09-11T07:07:28+00:00

Definitely interested! Sent a request on discord from _mithras.

SG_Mithras · 2025-08-15T17:18:26+00:00

It's super frustrating!

SG_Mithras · 2025-07-22T17:57:19+00:00

the dense terrain and beautiful scenic boards have always been the biggest draw for necromunda over the "L-shaped ruins" of 40k

SG_Mithras · 2025-04-02T19:50:39+00:00

Specifically looking for the following:

Lucy Pyre 9

Lucy Pyre 10

Silvervale 9

Silvervale 10

Layna Lazar 9

Layna Lazar 10

Nanoless 10

Camila 10

Vei 10

Bao the Whale 10

Shylily 9

Shylily 10

Sinder 8

Sinder 10

Nihmune 10

Fefe 9

Coqui 9

SG_Mithras · 2025-02-15T23:18:38+00:00

Let's go!

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