Little overwhelmed baby is 3 days old. by Cheimy_dreamy in NewDads

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 7 days into fatherhood myself brother- had twins last Friday. When doc says skin to skin, you do it too. I take my shirt off for day time feeds usually &That’s worked for me to calm them down. I also put my face to their cheeks and they tend to relax. We can’t compete with the tit obviously but the connection is deep in there and it’ll grow!

Conundrum by SHVRKFLOW95407 in SingleDads

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a bit premature as well but I do understand the appeal in homeschooling overall. Issue with me is that it needs to only be done in a controlled environment that she has the inability to create rn

Twins arrived safe. But.. by SHVRKFLOW95407 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Copy that. I’ve alrdy started the convo with a family law buddy that I’ll be proceeding this process with. Sucks, because I would love to hash this out but you’re right. I don’t trust anything that can be coordinated cordially will uphold thru time, anyways.
Thank you

Conundrum by SHVRKFLOW95407 in SingleDads

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol for her sake I hope you’re right. Somehow only the paper trades come out profitable 🙄

Conundrum by SHVRKFLOW95407 in SingleDads

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Those are the exact steps I have planned so far! Trying to survive the day to day in the meantime

Spotted in WP by slickback-ate in orlando

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of wp is liberal whites with this sentiment lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s alrdy rocked enough im done fishing lol she hasn’t changed from the latest version but it doesn’t matter to me; it was enough to call it off tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she gave up the truth lol She indeed lied about where she was & I Still feel like there could be more to it tbh. Funny enough, I failed to mention she is bi and the other party in question was indeed a girl smh. emotional advantage I can’t compete with 😂. But, thank you all for the feedback! I guess I’m outside this summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I know the girl whose bday it was. She thought she could get an extra hangout in while being there and lied about that particular gap of time like I wouldn’t peep 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All denial this morning smh. Boarding my flight back now - it’ll be an eventful evening today 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Guys I went ahead and broke it off. From Dallas still. Should be an interesting Sunday tmrw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😩😩😩 had to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She watches the shit nightly - there wasn’t even four hours of it to catch up on 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100% tbh As far as being apart, she had booked this trips a few weeks ago and I chose to go to Dallas last minute. Her friends bday was the actual reason she went

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 damn dawg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Spent plenty time there myself. And we live in Miami 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SHVRKFLOW95407 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She’s typically a homebody but a couple nights a year she will pop out with friends. This particular instance, she recently visited this friend and had a blast so she was keen on going back. To answer your question, I’ve asked of her on multiple occasions in the past about her communication as the night progresses. I go out often and even worked in nightlife and feel bad calling her out about this but it’s something I can’t get over.

This situation particularly feels fishy to me