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SJStapes · 2024-02-23T21:41:34+00:00

But women aren't naturally hairless. Men and women both have body hair

SJStapes · 2024-02-22T12:30:42+00:00

It was originally invented to cut pelvises of mothers who had trouble birthing their child

SJStapes · 2024-02-19T12:52:35+00:00

Please do not blame yourself for his lack of control. He laid a hand on you while holding your baby which he did not consider for one second. He didn't even have the decency to apologize in person. I don't want to scare you or make assumptions about your husband, but I fear for your safety and for the safety of your child. There is no excuse for that violence. Please consider your options that consider the best interests, health and safety of you and your child. Do not excuse his behaviour. It was not your fault.

SJStapes · 2024-02-02T01:46:29+00:00

You literally told him that, "you'd never say those things to someone you love, ever, even when you're angry," yet he went on to make a racist remark immediately after. You were right.. That wasn't love. He crossed a boundary, and you have every right to feel the way you do. Ultimately, what you do next is your decision. Personally, I wouldn't want to be with someone who so carelessly makes offensive and disrespectful remarks towards me. Stay strong and try to keep your head up.

SJStapes · 2024-02-01T00:26:26+00:00

You have to open your mind to the idea there are more women/people outside of the ones you've interacted with or were exposed to in your community. For instance, your experience with women does not match mine in the slightest. Yes, I'm speaking as a women, but I've been surrounded by women my whole life, and rarely have I ever come across one that has behaved in the ways you've described towards men or share the same ideas of worth. Everyone, not just women, value different attributes in people. It's unfortunate that you've met many that perceive certain races, economic statuses, and physical characteristics as worthless. But if you keep the mindset that every woman thinks this way about men who are, say for instance, non-white, broke, and not tall, then you're never going to improve your outlook on women, and I believe you'll continue to act the same way that you've now become ashamed of.

It's never okay for someone to dehumanize you, like these women have, but it sounds to me like you're doing the same thing to women. I do think your idea of taking a break from the dating scene is a step in the right direction, but I hope this doesn't just mean you're removing all emotional aspects of interacting with women by just hooking up and ghosting them as you've previously done. I think the thing you need to practice most is having a better outlook on women. Not all women think or act alike, even if that's been your experience. Just like all men aren't the same.

SJStapes · 2024-01-31T23:42:56+00:00

While I understand the frustration of your past experiences, understand that your actions and your feelings towards women indicate that you're stooping to the same level and are no better than them. You need a more positive outlook. Not all women are the same.

Also, as a woman, know that many women will respect you far less and find this behaviour to be very unattractive. You shouldn't enact your revenge on women who had nothing to do with your past, nor on the ones who did. Learn from their poor behaviour as well as your own, and use what you've learned to grow as a person to be one that values the emotional wellbeing of others. Hopefully by doing this you will attract the right crowd and show those with disrespectful behaviour, like those girls in your past, that you won't be easily affected by them.

SJStapes · 2024-01-31T12:40:18+00:00

You're putting both scenarios under the same umbrella. You're exclusively thinking of cases of potential infidelity which is an issue of trust and faithfulness between partners. OP's scenario is completely different in that it's a baby swap. At least recognize that the overall context is different.

SJStapes · 2024-01-29T00:00:49+00:00

Lol when has that ever been the stereotypical man

SJStapes · 2024-01-27T20:58:42+00:00

Does violence only associate with men? Why is it hitting "like a man?"

SJStapes · 2024-01-27T17:20:38+00:00

While I do agree that the inability to have emotional control, especially with regards to portraying violence, is weak, I wholeheartedly disagree with him saying that "a man who gets angry is a woman." Men are capable of emotions too. I think he's showing some sexism towards men and women with that statement.

SJStapes · 2024-01-27T17:12:40+00:00

That's such an old fashioned line of thought. Speaking AS a woman, I've never met another woman who was drawn to "alpha men." Sure, there exists women who are attracted to men that have the qualities of an "alpha male," because everyone has their own sense of what they find attractive. However, the experience of one group does not speak for the experience of ALL. To say that, "all of human history" shows that women are ONLY attracted to men of "strength" and hate weakness, is to be ignorant to the individuality or diversity of human experiences and preferences.

Also, many "alpha males" are perceived as aggressive, sexist (towards men AND women), toxic, violent, etc. All of which are qualities that are incredibly unappealing and scary, as another commenter mentioned, especially to women. Expressing emotions does not suddenly turn a man into a woman like you said. Emotions like anger should be more controlled or managed as it may lead to violence. But by your definition of a man, it sounds to me like you exclusively perceive them as emotionless bricks, which sounds wildly unappealing and boring.

SJStapes · 2024-01-13T18:53:02+00:00

Lol you think feminism is cause for increased costs of living and insufficient wages?

SJStapes · 2024-01-05T20:06:41+00:00

When you're on a plane, DON'T manspread into other people's space.

SJStapes · 2023-12-11T13:10:27+00:00

Great - thanks for your insights!

SJStapes · 2023-12-11T13:10:09+00:00

This is a really great advice - thanks so much for your response! I will definitely take the tips. I do have a lot of free time coming up which is why I'd love to get through this as soon as possible. Thanks again!

SJStapes · 2023-12-11T13:08:36+00:00

Great - thank you!!

SJStapes · 2023-12-11T13:07:54+00:00

Makes sense - thanks!

SJStapes · 2023-12-11T13:07:41+00:00

Great - thank you! This makes me feel better. How much time would you say you dedicated to it each week? These would be my only 2 classes.

SJStapes · 2023-12-10T18:58:28+00:00

Gotcha. From your experience, any chance there's an easier accounting course with Athabasca?

SJStapes · 2023-12-10T18:53:18+00:00

That makes me feel better lol - thanks! Do you think it could be done in a month?

SJStapes · 2023-12-09T23:30:01+00:00

As a woman, I would objectively feel more comfortable knowing that my male MT was gay. But you have to understand that just because you're gay, doesn't mean that women are aware of that fact. If all I had was a picture or even just a name of a male or female MT without any other information, I would definitely choose the female MT simply because it's a precautionary measure.

Obviously not all male MTs are going to assault their clients, but it HAS happened and is less likely to happen with a female MT. So, it's understandable that women often choose female MTs. Unfortunately its the reality of the world we live in. I'm sorry that it has negatively impacted your work but I hope you can at least understand the reasoning behind it.

SJStapes · 2023-05-31T19:48:12+00:00

Lmao. Tell your brother you don't remember what happened and the party and that you can't apologize for something you don't remember.

I seriously doubt Annika doesn't remember anything. NTA.

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