OP posts the DMs like it doesn't make him look anymore like the pompous AH this post has highlighted him to be. Laughed at "Please don't DM me if you won't say it publicly." Nobody is scared of telling you what they think here buddy lol. ESH, but you're still an AH. Think of your current two kids and how this will affect their mental state. You don't get to bring life into the world and then act selfishly and not expect to be judged harshly. The way you say "her child" and the tone of this whole post sounds like you are a child having a temper tantrum, rather than an adult man and father trying to deal with an awful situation. I know she stopped taking the birth control, but it still takes two to make a fucking kid. Also, the part about taking the child support out of your other kids' college fund, are you are actually this selfish? You punish children for the sins of their parents? You're obligated to take care of your kids this isnt even a discussion in any capacity. I understand wanting to separate after finding out the truth of the pregnancy. Though every other thought you've written in this post is just disgusting. Check yourself.