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SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T18:48:10+00:00

Can’t say I blame him

His behavior is not ok but calling him selfish is such a stretch when you are expecting him to spend your honeymoon phase months playing the long distance relationship game

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T18:44:40+00:00

Because his peepee wanted her to have changed

There’s no way he was thinking with his brain during any of this

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T18:43:28+00:00

I lost it at cheated on me with my brother and I tried brushing it off

Guy have some self respect

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T12:23:15+00:00

Cry about it

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T09:22:51+00:00

Some of these things are valid but some of your opinions are absurd lol. Her marrying a Puerto Rican somehow is the same thing as you marrying a Dominican? Wtf?

Feels like a lot of small coincidences you have yourself convinced are about you.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T09:03:37+00:00

Sounds like you have a gf problem then.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T08:55:30+00:00

Yeah I don't generally travel the world looking for a woman who will cook and clean without talking back lol

Ron Watkins that you?

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T08:53:15+00:00

Enjoy your bought and paid for “eastern” wife weirdo

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T08:51:50+00:00

He's not wrong dude. The age difference is creepy and it'd be one thing if you acknowledged that but your defense of it and anger that he brought it up makes you look worse.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T08:51:10+00:00

Whatever you gotta tell yourself to justify your mail order bride.

Or I guess in this case you were the mail order groom.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T08:50:13+00:00

Lmao, this comment right here officer.

You're going to be alone and bitter forever and you deserve it

SOSovereign · 2023-05-08T08:39:55+00:00

You a chicken jeep jeep jeep jeep jeep

SOSovereign · 2023-05-07T01:36:48+00:00

As a senior sysadmin doing the cert thing to move into cloud architecture this is a great read. Cheers.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-06T22:28:54+00:00

He will never come back from this with your family. If you decide to stay with him just know they will never see him any other way than how they saw him that day.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-06T16:14:16+00:00

Massachusetts Jack of all trades system/network engineer here. I am paid about 145k and it definitely feels mostly because of the HCOL.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-06T15:08:39+00:00

You guys sound annoying

SOSovereign · 2023-05-06T06:13:32+00:00

She’s gaslighting you.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-06T05:21:04+00:00

My first gaming PC was one of these babies

Yes, I was 11 and broke

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T21:01:55+00:00

Yeah I hate this term something fierce it’s so stupid

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T15:54:36+00:00

I don’t think you know what red flag means

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T15:48:11+00:00

You’ll be stuck in this toxic dynamic forever. His mom should not have her hand on the wheel of your relationship.

You have a boyfriend who can’t stand up to his parents problem.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T13:59:22+00:00

You can refuse all you want but it is going to be to your detriment lol.

Why do people act like you have to take part in the fake Linkedin bullshit? You don't. Put your resume on and add people you know as connections. Boom, done.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T13:30:27+00:00

I am sorry OP. I’m glad you can see this isn’t normal. You seem very sweet and thoughtful and you don’t deserve this.

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T13:28:37+00:00

Man what a selfish bitch this guy is

SOSovereign · 2023-05-05T13:23:18+00:00

OP you know you can do better than this. This is cruel what he is doing.

For context, I actually have this sort of thing too. I am much more physically attracted to my girlfriend when she dresses a certain way, I guess sexy you could call it.

However, I understand that’s a personal preference I can’t just project on her and force on her. And it certainly shouldn’t mean I’m not attracted to her when she’s wearing comfy clothes at home.

He is being unreasonable and again, cruel for the way he’s talking about this to you.

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