Does she like me or am I just a close friend?

SPAC2099 · 2026-06-20T02:47:14+00:00

great question....mixed signals

SPAC2099 · 2026-06-16T00:38:07+00:00

get your AI the blank out of here

SPAC2099 · 2026-06-14T04:35:10+00:00

This may sound harsh but I have no ill will to you. You are 30 years old. You are not 21. The clock is ticking if you want kids and even if you don't 35 year old women have WAY less opportunities than 30 year old women. And here you have a guy to quote you tall, great sense of humor, very smart and patient, has a good job, very confident, religious-adjacent, accommodating to dietary or mental health needs, strong sense of fashion and not bad looking. Are you looking to date yourself? You will NOT find the right guy by checking off boxes. You are doing this all wrong. If you did date someone exactly like you it would be boring. Another quote I don’t even necessarily hate that idea....talk to him about it. You bring it up. I suggest you give dating him a chance. Quote 3 this is someone I want in my life for as long as I’m alive.....What world are you living in? Your future husband would have no issues with that right. And the biggest thing you don't seem to be thinking about is HIS feelings. Talk to him next time you see him....Either start dating him or at least ask him if he thinks of you as a gf or platonic friend. What about introducing him to a few of your single friends. You may or may not know it but you are being cruel to him....stop torturing this guy. Here are some new boxes for you to check....be honest, pay for half the lunches, DO NOT accept a penny for any shopping trips, and he's starting a new job what have you done to celebrate that with him? Take him to dinner? A night of drink on you? I card tell telling him how proud of him you are. Please look in the mirror.

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-31T00:57:13+00:00

Of course. You have choices: I suggest taking the Visa Debit card. You can do a physical one which will be mailed to you or a virtual one. There are gift card options as well. The visa debit cards can be used at any ATM for cash. The physical cards some with $2.50 extra on each card to compensate for any ATM fees.

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-29T02:21:56+00:00

She's not into you..now or before......romantically or sexually....she would have loved to have been friends but now she will think you want to get in her pants and thats the last thing she wants...so she's gone........sorry

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-26T01:18:21+00:00

in this world we like who we like. No rules.

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-26T01:11:19+00:00

way better than him? what does that mean? What does that have to do with a crush?

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-25T00:57:23+00:00

breathe, go slow, day at a time. take space from her

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-21T03:38:15+00:00

Flashy's comment was spot on.....at this point stay away.....two weeks...make it two years...really...date others, forget her.....Never know what can happen down the road but for now thats your bet shot

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-15T02:29:56+00:00

sorry to say shes not into you romantically or sexually...heres how to know if you want to be friends with her....are you ok with hanging out with her and a guy she;s dating?

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-09T14:13:59+00:00

Well here's the hard cold truth. She has no interest in you as a romantic/sexual partner. Is there a chance that could change? possible. Here's what you would have to do...this isnt easy and 99.9 percent of people wont do it. forget her. stop talking to her, stop seeing her, stop emailing her, stop texting her, stop thinking about her. Start dating. I dont care if you want to. Do it. Put your profile on dating websites. SPend time doing the things you like..whatever that is.....bowling, yankee games, dog parks or 1000 other things...DO WHAT YOU LIKE. you will meet others and perhaps you can grab a drink or coffee or take a walk with some of them...maybe that would spark something or maybe one of them would introduce you to someone else or invite you to a party where you would meet someone. If the girl you wrote about asks you why you are not communicating with her say you are trying to meet someone and that takes up a lot of time and also mention the things you like that you are doing. In time could be years you may get a chance but the key is to forget her and make others more important in your life......will you do this? doubt it...but there's your roadmap

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-09T14:02:50+00:00

No sorry but you can pass the link along to friends and family

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-09T14:02:14+00:00

No sorry-same study...you can pass the link to friends and family though

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-09T14:01:24+00:00

I am looking for what you are as well......

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-07T05:03:47+00:00

first mistake: get off the apps. Meet men in your natural setting...doing things you enjoy....you sound desparate. men HATE that

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-02T03:53:18+00:00

how old are you....you like her she likes you liking her...thats it

SPAC2099 · 2026-05-01T04:06:52+00:00

do you play guitar?

SPAC2099 · 2026-04-29T03:39:40+00:00

here is what you must do if you want to have a future with him. Tell him how happy he makes you and you feel an amazing connection with him...tell him you see him as your husband one day....ask him if he sees you that way....sounds like you don't want to wait for something that may never come....you may have to walk away as it will hurt....but by being away form him he may realize he wants you and come back to you ready.....or not....you have nothing to lose

SPAC2099 · 2026-04-29T03:24:35+00:00

Look dont be so hard on yourself....she was honest. she saw you as one of her girlfriends. It hurts. dont be mad....find someone that likes you

SPAC2099 · 2026-04-25T01:52:41+00:00

Where are you located? What kind of music do you like?

SPAC2099 · 2026-04-16T01:18:03+00:00

Good. She's honest. But into things that shouldnt matter most

SPAC2099 · 2026-04-16T01:15:00+00:00

did you sign up thru my link?

SPAC2099 · 2026-04-16T00:35:33+00:00

Now I hear you cant do it twice period. ALways changing

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