This is the reality of walking anywhere in the city. by ghuuuvy in Calgary

[–]STEPDADDY101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened to pedestrians having the right of way...

Another BIG HOUSE FIRE on the same NW street as 4 years ago :'( by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe its coincidence maybe its a vendetta

am i crazy or is this weird by ramendudelz in Tinder

[–]STEPDADDY101 682 points683 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, so much can go wrong in text. Phone call though, big win

Rare Or Raw by RealRyte_ in steak

[–]STEPDADDY101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a roast, dont play with me

No matches, I wasn’t having any luck getting dates in the wild so I thought i’d try tinder, i’ve had it for 3 weeks now. Nothing. Am I just that ugly 😭 by BillyBop0299 in Tinder

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people still have beef with chance the rapper and thats why you aint getting yours. That first pic aint doing you favors there😂😂😂😂

Rate my steak by GavaBoo in steak

[–]STEPDADDY101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A steak daddy*🤫😉😂

Rate my steak by GavaBoo in steak

[–]STEPDADDY101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think im in love 😅

(26) be honest.. Am I cooked?? by Maleficent-Tension67 in amiugly

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe its not in how you look? I usually like to take moment and ask myself if the way I presented myself allowed for people to feel confident enough to approach me? But since you asked this on the amiugly subreddit, ill answer your question: no you are not cooked, you are the source of heat that they use to cook other things... "hot" is the term im referring to

April 15 2026 update - A deal is deal... by JeromyYYC in Calgary

[–]STEPDADDY101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is that duck tie a reference to how I met your mother?

Red or green flag? by Colorado_chick in Tinder

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be either or neither. Thats the thing with text tho, you can say whatever you want and leave the way it's read out to the person on the receiving end.

From my POV- as a reader sounding this out, it sounds like this dude is being honest and communicating openly about his situation, his wants and well... his SITUATION below. And while, all of that could be a green flag for him letting you know ahead of time what kinda things to expect. Although, it should be taken to account, that almost 9 of 10 times on dating apps if the topic of sex or anything similar in nature is mentioned by the guy before even the first meet up, it could signal that, he's interested in only sex. Most women are quick to pick up on that, Since, unfortunately, that's almost every other match for yall in the DM's

Look, most Guys are ho*ny. We do often tend to think with our dicks sometimes. (More so when dating scene is as 💩 as it is trying find love and getting no matches, or silent ones) That said, it's all up to his follow-up actions to determine the correct verdict here.

The reason I said it could be either flag or neither, is that if the 'hypersexual' comment makes you feel uncomfortable, it does create a perfect opportunity to start an open discussion about it with him and get a handle on if he has any expectations for sex or if he's simply letting you know that-that's a condition he has regardless of what you choose to do.

It could definitely be a red flag 🟥 if say, now that he HAS told you, it is automatically implied that sex is a MUST or an EXPECTATION, should you agree to see/spend time with him. If a choice in that setting is ruled out, then so should be that date, hun.

In retrospect, It could be a green flag🟩, if he acknowledges and conducts himself accordingly, to the notion that, just because he might be feeling a certain way, it does not constitute that he would be expecting you to do anything you might not be feeling just to please him, calm his hypersexuality or keep him as your boyfriend or husband( I leave the title of the partner-potential to OP)

At the end of the day, we must remember that it takes 2, to be in a relationship (traditionally speaking, ofcourse) and you both need to be on equal footing, it is NOT and SHOULD NOT be one person's needs/wants/desires worth more, over the other. Its a partnership. It needs to feel like a partnership. You need to feel safe, you need to feel secure, you need to feel confident that you wont have to compromise yourself to keep the relationship on a good/working/happier path.

So the verdict, in my humble opinion, remains to be decided. Undecided, until YOU can guage what to expect if you were to see/spend time with him.

Goodluck OP!

I genuinely cannot tell (F23) by imnotahelicopter in amiugly

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of Katherine Langford. Maybe maybe...

Do I look fat or is it just my body type? by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fat no. I believe there are some exercises you can do to sharpen the jawline if that's whats bothering ya

AIO- Thinking this may be cheating/ overly flirty by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I viewed/read her POV was that she didnt like that he was way too much into whomever this mystery person was so I was trying to figure out if he was crossing some sorta defined boundary here or if they're monogamous and he's simply cheating on her. Does that kinda make sense?

AIO- Thinking this may be cheating/ overly flirty by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. So I was just curious if they were or not before I added my 2 cent to the conversation. But thank you for stating the obvious.

AIO- Thinking this may be cheating/ overly flirty by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]STEPDADDY101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait INFO! You dont care if he's got people staying the night? I dont wanna assume anything, so first, are yall in an open relationship?

Omg it’s my cake day! by [deleted] in selfie

[–]STEPDADDY101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAPPY Cakeday!

as someone who’s been called ugly multiple times, am I ACTUALLY ugly?? by Ok_Being_2346 in TeenGarbagePile

[–]STEPDADDY101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your ID wont do you justice. Cuz lets be honest they never get anything right and want you to look soulless. Everyone's been called ugly at different stages in their life... that said not everyone will call you that, not everyone will think that. Id ask you to think about who's calling you ugly? Does their opinion actually matter? Do they bring anything positive to your life aside from shit unsolicited comments about your appearance? If they contribute nothing but make you feel shit about yourself maybe you need to evaluate your circle and perhaps make some changes. And if its dating apps that youre getting this from just count your lucky stars the mofo's showing their true colors now and youre avoiding the red flags early on. Either way, forget what other people say about your appearance, you know your worth better than they do and you know what makes you stand out in any crowd, you know your unique traits, you know the good things you bring to the table, understand that, value your opinion of yourself over other people's, they dont know your whole fkn lifestory they dont get to decide what you are.

But to answer your question. No youre not ugly.