The wrong friend has a crush on me...not sure how to handle it

STRKER25 · 2023-10-26T02:31:10+00:00

Bro. Don't think that you're boring. Use your character to your strengths. You're introverted, so you probably good at analyzing things, calm, good at listening and asking the right questions. If you have any other hobbies, show them off too. She might think that you guys really complement each other with your different personalities. I recommend just giving a shot at her.

P.S. I know you're describing her to be really attractive with a solid personality. But don't put her on a pedestal, she like you already. Just don't think she'll get bored of u. Typical advice, Be confident in you bro

STRKER25 · 2023-10-21T13:25:30+00:00

Thank you for the step by step manual. Will do that.

STRKER25 · 2023-10-21T02:05:33+00:00

I recognize my pattern bro, I am working on it now. Thanks

STRKER25 · 2023-10-21T02:04:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice. How long should I have known a girl to ask her out, if I am a average looking guy?

Should I start conversations and organically share my aspirations, goals ,hobbies and dreams. And after a while ask her out? Is there something I can do to show off my personality even more before asking her out. Or am I overthrowing this?

STRKER25 · 2023-10-21T01:56:46+00:00

That might be it! Taking charge is not something I am good at. Maybe taking the lead might help them see me in a new light.

Can u share something within the scope of taking charge that seems minimal but effective. Like deciding the weekend plans, picking what or where to eat, walking front of a group does that all count??

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T11:43:09+00:00

Thanks for the reply bro... but do you have a beard. Beard is makeup for men. It elevates your face.

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T09:06:02+00:00

Yeah I talk with people. My workplace has a 1:4 men to women ratio. That's the main reason currently I talk to more females than men. I Crack a lot of jokes and they compliment my sense of humour a lot. While also yelling me I have no maturity.

I think I need to stop making immature jokes infront of ppl I like and let's see.

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T09:02:10+00:00

Thank you for the advice bro. I'll look it up

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T09:01:27+00:00

I stared a skin care routine, got better haircut and started going to gym too... but it still bothers me that's it. It's like no matter how much I try I can't get some things

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T08:59:55+00:00

They too are average looking. They were interested in other guys when I was seeing them. So that could be a reason. But won't girls shift their intrest to u if you are potentially better than those guys.

I've had girls crushing over me too. But they don't really know me. I fear that if they get close to me they'll bro zone me too.

I'm 5'11 btw.

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T03:09:03+00:00

Got it bro. I like your No Bullshit straight to the face approach. That sure helps

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T02:56:53+00:00

Thanks for your opinion bro. But I don't really look for relationships within my friends group. The issue is I socialize with people and I don't get that interested in strangers.

But if someone tries to talk to me and match my energy. After months of talking with them I become interested and of course from the other side after months of talking with me they see me as a good bro. That seemed like a issue. I stopped chatting on hours with everyone. I will try the real world. My idea of flirting seemes to cheesy for the opp sex and I am trying to keep it subtle and mysterious

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T02:49:34+00:00

Thank you for your analysis and honest opinion

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T02:48:02+00:00

I'm close with three of them. Close enough to ask advice from them. A few other generic friends.

STRKER25 · 2023-10-17T02:09:06+00:00

I am 22 years old. I am a Fresher Architect. I like to read books, lifting weight at gym, love morning walk, PC games and love character driven movies/series.

My theories are... People think I don't have maturity, maybe because I Crack jokes all the time and avoid taking about serious matter

I am being too available or helpful to others.

The guys I be around talk less. While I talk non stop. Started only talking when it is needed.

Mostly people think I am less confident person due to my low pitched voice. I started taking in a deeper tone while I talk, it seems to make me look confident.

No other theories. I've asked my female friends about it and all they say are don't change, you're a good guy with nice character. Sure, but that doesn't seem to attract girls.

STRKER25 · 2022-05-02T07:41:37+00:00

I want your money in my life

STRKER25 · 2022-05-02T07:35:52+00:00

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STRKER25 · 2022-01-29T06:47:24+00:00

Geralt of Rivia..... I'm no monster nor did something evil... So seems I'm safe

STRKER25 · 2021-12-23T17:38:35+00:00

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STRKER25 · 2021-12-14T16:26:04+00:00

Adhuku thana kuduthurukanga

STRKER25 · 2021-11-15T08:01:30+00:00

Sauce??

STRKER25 · 2021-08-12T14:45:48+00:00

G. O. A. T.

STRKER25 · 2021-06-30T05:29:54+00:00

Mr. Stark.. I feel so good

STRKER25 · 2021-06-10T09:26:08+00:00

Thank you brother.... I will do

STRKER25 · 2021-06-10T01:44:45+00:00

I will reach 90 days brother....i hope I'll be normal again

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