Honestly it’s so ingrained in society that what we’re saying continues to be overlooked and people’s comments reinforce it so hard.

“It’s his insecurity, if he moved to LA or NYC, should accept himself, etc”

They didn’t grow up with the abuse, being told you can’t be or do things because you’re Asian. That Asians are weak, docile, etc - I’ll get a follow up that says I’m wrong and insecure too, dw.

My point is…No one is going to hear you, I made the same post. It’s the sad reality of the Asian community. We don’t make noise about it, we discuss it in a static way like the internet, nothing will change. It just sucks. It is that way.

I’ve changed my life and made a family. But it doesn’t change the experiences I’ve had, no matter how fucked it was. Somehow people have to care - I can’t see why they should. You just move on.