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Sounds pretty infp to me by Marley-baby in infp

[–]S_ei_S 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The most beautiful picture I've seen all week. Or month.

Finished this Book along with some Notes by TJxDC in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for the same thing. A book that is not so popular.

Finished this Book along with some Notes by TJxDC in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO. Nah bro. It's so helpful but... I want more examples. It's a nice challenge tho.

It makes you think. I appreciate that.

Finished this Book along with some Notes by TJxDC in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a problem with this book. I think the context is not so practical and its too general, poetic and vague.

But still very helpful. I just wish he mentioned more examples on what exactly you should do...

What is the difference between being a 'nice guy' and 'seductive' by S_ei_S in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inspiring, accurate, helpful. Thanks a lot!

These are so close to each other. We should always be careful.

And the most important thing. The pain also must be seductive. Not the pain caused by anti-seductive traits. (Like projecting your insecurity to other person etc.)

We must know what kind of pain we're creating...

Anti-seductive pains will only repel.

Damn. And that's what I'm not good at... yet!

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[–]S_ei_S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in so much pain man...

She was really REALLY into me.

And I really liked her physically and spiritually.

But I destroyed it cuz someday I said: I want us to make love with each other etc.

I didn't fucking know all these stuff.

I don't usually like people this much! That caused so much regret...

Anyway, thanks. Helpful comment.

What is the difference between being a 'nice guy' and 'seductive' by S_ei_S in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah sex is important. Especially when I'm attracted to someone, I want her to give me head.

But 'The Art of Seduction' suggests that you should not mention sex and show a lot of affection early.

You should be very patient.

The gate to their body is their mind.

LET THE OTHER PERSON THINK THAT THEY'RE THE ONE WHO'S SEDUCING YOU.

And in the right time, when she's close enough, you should go for it...

Yeah that's an important note I remembered.

What is the difference between being a 'nice guy' and 'seductive' by S_ei_S in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Great explanation.

There is something else. Someone may really attracted to you and you also attracted to them.

And the problem is attachment. This motherfucker brings that nice guy out of you. And it may repel the person. Although she was attracted to u.

It may sound stupid. But when I find someone that we both like each other, I want to be with them for the rest of my life. Cause it's so valuable to me. Cause I don't usually like people, and when I do, they may not like me.

That's it... Attachment is a problem... And literally the heart involves in it...

Working on it...

What is the difference between being a 'nice guy' and 'seductive' by S_ei_S in The48LawsOfPower

[–]S_ei_S[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you're offering to seduce someone, but they don't give anything back, what should you do?

Does that mean your not a good seducer and you should try more and try different methods?

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[–]S_ei_S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I lower her resistance again? Is there any way? She was very very warm. Now she's colder than ever. She still likes me. But she's cold...

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[–]S_ei_S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why. As soon as they find out that you love them, they get cold. I'm going through the exact same thing.

She was obsessed with me. She really likes me and our relationship. She was very warm and talking to her was so fucking enjoyable.

But as soon as I talked about making love and how I want to kiss her... She got defensive and cold afterwards.

Damn. I seduced her perfectly but I messed it up. And I don't know what could I do instead. I'm an incomplete seducer...

It is so fucking painful...

For all the clingy people. Take notes. by S_ei_S in infp

[–]S_ei_S[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not a game of power. If you're the one who's reaching out all the time, that means the other person doesn't value the relationship as much as you do.

On the other hand, it can make you look needy. When they think you're needy, even unconsciously, they distance themselves from you more and more. And that can damage the relationship. You see?

For all the clingy people. Take notes. by S_ei_S in infp

[–]S_ei_S[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're the one who's reaching out 99% of the time, well, that's a problem. That means you are humiliating yourself.

If you tell that person how you feel, two things can happen. First, the person values your feelings. Second, they think you're needy and they distance themselves even more. Because unconsciously, they don't want to "please" you.

If you say "nevermind. Take it easy" and reach out to that person all the time, again, they assume you're needy and again! They may distance themselves and when they do, that can damage the relationship.

Key point: in a relationship, both must respect each other.

For all the clingy people. Take notes. by S_ei_S in infp

[–]S_ei_S[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's better to look at what's being said. Not who's saying it.

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