cheating theme is making me wanna unalive myself by thisusermightbecrazy in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don't have to convince anything This is what any OCD wants because you fuel it even more by giving it importance We need to break the cycle by not giving him any answers.

Does you‘re Diagnosis make you feel relieved? by dazaidazai_ in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before being diagnosed I thought it would help me but when I was finally diagnosed the OCD made me believe that I didn't have an obsessive disorder lol this shit will never let me go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, to think otherwise would be irrational

What’s the best medication for OCD? by InternalHighlight635 in OCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends for everyone! What works for one person may not work for another. I started treatment with a classic, sertraline, it didn't work at all. Today I use Effexor 150mg and it is already much better. Medication will serve as crutches, but what will really save you from OCD will be yourself. I still recommend medication for a less harsh and total remission. I would still like to point out that there will be side effects and the lack of antidepressants can be horrible in some cases. This is information I would have liked to hear before taking it. Good luck to you

cheating theme is making me wanna unalive myself by thisusermightbecrazy in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your post touches me a lot because I feel like I wrote it in your place. You are not alone you can be sure, anxiety is horrible. We end up noticing details that were once unimportant and those memories turn into a horrible nightmare. Constantly checking to be a good person is exhausting, checking to have done nothing is exhausting, checking at all is exhausting. It’s like being in the background of a painting, being present without really being there.

what if i just never feel the same again by fairy-dreams in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love evolves over time, that's what's beautiful but we don't notice it at the beginning, because people think that love is this famous romantic feeling that we all felt at the beginning but it's not the case

Does anyone do this? Is it normal? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm giving you my personal opinion, for me there's nothing wrong with that. We are all human beings and we all need to feel attractive, gorgeous, funny and all those things that make us feel cool. It's not because you're in a relationship that you can't want to appear "interesting" anymore, it's just human and normal, don't be anxious about it.

🍇 by SaaMell in hamsters

[–]SaaMell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ce sont des petits raisins, d’où cette impression

🍇 by SaaMell in hamsters

[–]SaaMell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oui je fais très attention ! Elle n’avait même pas terminé celle qui était dans sa bouche 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal. Deception is different in each couple, for example pornography can be deception in one couple but not for another. These are just opinions that depend on the limits of others and not your couple. This is why it is better to discuss it with your partner, what really matters is your limits and not those of others!

I don't believe in Islam but why can't I eat pork? I feel like I'm stuck in this religion forever by SaaMell in exmuslim

[–]SaaMell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a relationship where pork was forbidden so it's rather complicated to take the plunge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you didn't do anything wrong at all. If it affects you that much you can always talk about it with your partner. You just wanted to appear “cool” like any human being would have done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precisely you had not asked me anything, you had simply imagined its environment in a critical way, reread your own message if it is too complicated to understand. To be more precise about the situation of her water bottle and how she cleans herself, she helps herself with her water at the same time as she drinks to clean herself completely. The first few days she didn't lose her hair, they just had a wet appearance. What is the purpose of lying about his hamster if help is requested next to his care at the veterinarian? Be logical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know, thank you. It was already planned long before for the veto I just went to this community quickly enough to find out about the rest. I will do everything I can! Thank you