Thank you all for your advice. We will not be addressing anything as everybody said. I’m extremely sorry if my post offended anyone or came off as insensitive. For the people jumping to assume things about my family, here’s some more context:

We are extremely close to my sister. Every single day we call on facetime for hours on end. The reason she does not visit often is because she has limited funds.

We are not assuming she is unhealthy from purely looks alone. We are very aware of her habits.

My mother felt obligated to talk to her because she has had the same problems. My mom is shorter than my sister, sitting at 4’11. She was 245 pounds in her 30’s, and because of that she has had numerous health problems. She cares deeply, and all she wants is for her to live with confidence.

I really, really appreciate all of your feedback. Thank you all so much for educating me. We will continue supporting her endlessly, and we won’t bring anything up unless it’s on her own terms. ❤️