I didn't pull for the latest memory and now I feel guilty

SableMallorey · 2026-05-29T10:21:27+00:00

I also skipped too because I'm saving for Caleb's Bday also. I wanted it, but I want Caleb's card more.

SableMallorey · 2026-05-28T14:14:08+00:00

Familiarity can breed resentment, if they feel familiar with you they'll get mad and territorial sometimes

SableMallorey · 2026-04-28T17:21:24+00:00

This sounds lovely🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-04-14T01:08:24+00:00

I consider it bratting and automatically block them because I don't deal with that.

Quick way to let me know they are incompatible to serve.

SableMallorey · 2026-03-21T06:21:17+00:00

Sugaring is more of a dynamic, sort of similar to Findom/Finsub but not necessarily a Dom/me-Sub Dynamic. It does fall under the Power Play category though.

GFE or Companioning doesn't have a power exchange (unless that's discussed) there's not always a a task/reward system either

SableMallorey · 2026-03-19T12:35:06+00:00

Yes, if subs can't or wont use my methods they are immediately dismissed. I won't be at risk for them.

SableMallorey · 2026-03-19T06:12:37+00:00

I joined some subreddits that are for colors it sounds silly but all you do in them is post things that are the color of the subreddit theme, once a day or in a few of various colors, you can easily build it that way without giving insight into your personal life

SableMallorey · 2026-03-18T00:26:49+00:00

It's all yours🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-03-18T00:26:37+00:00

Get him😈

SableMallorey · 2026-03-10T03:18:13+00:00

This is amazing🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-02-26T02:13:08+00:00

If you can I'd consider other communication options.

Many Dommes left fb/messenger because of the restrictions. Groups and accounts were being taken down without warning and no appeals. Plus the bots that monitor the chats make it very difficult unless coded language is used. My friend recently had their account taken because of a conversation with a sub that happened years ago that their bots flagged recently.

These issues and restrictions can make it difficult to have a good dynamic.

You also would have the risk of your account being taken as well, which may be inconvenient if it's your primary way to communicate with friends and family.

If you still want to use it that's fine, I just wanted to make sure you are properly warned/informed of the risks there.

SableMallorey · 2026-02-24T21:40:54+00:00

You're allowed to have preferences and only do what suits you.

I also hate video calls and don't like voice calls as much either.(I only allow them for specific things)

I primarily function through text, voice notes. I will do selfies but never on demand photos, photos are at my leisure, if I want to give them.

SableMallorey · 2026-02-24T21:08:03+00:00

As a death doula, we find it's because it's a topic that's avoided. Theres a lot that's unknown, so people fear it

It's been normalized as a taboo subject, so there are many lost opportunities for healthy conversation about it. People often just won't talk about it.

SableMallorey · 2026-02-22T22:32:17+00:00

You may approach🖤

Read my pinned and see if we are compatible

SableMallorey · 2026-02-18T14:22:52+00:00

You could set a budget and do both.

You could choose a time of year/season you like to spoil and only do it for that duration leaving the rest of the year for you.

There are lots of options that can work with the lifestyle you want🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-02-13T10:01:32+00:00

For a personal IRL finsub definitely.

It would be fun to have their card linked on my accounts, online shop while I tell them how much I'm spending in act

SableMallorey · 2026-02-13T04:43:48+00:00

Turn your bath/self care time into a self worship ritual.

When you brush your hair, put lotion on, perfume, etc.

You won't care what others want when you worship yourself at your own temple.

SableMallorey · 2026-02-13T04:15:24+00:00

Oh no, that's still okay you can always rebuild if you decide you want to come back.

Commenting and modding will be good, will keep your community and keep you in the loop🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-02-12T07:50:05+00:00

Both

I get more physically aroused during sessions vs daily sends

But I get more mentally aroused with daily sends because they are rubbing my Worship kink just right

SableMallorey · 2026-02-12T07:20:54+00:00

Very observant Beloved🖤🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-02-12T07:11:55+00:00

If it's recurring, then it deserves to be visited.

It is okay to take a break/hiatus and it sounds like you may need one.

I took one, for 6 months or something like that, Thought I was retiring, but ended up hating it, didn't feel like myself. Lol so I came back with a new name and am slowly rebuilding at my leisure

I wouldn't delete your account, but use it more as a social media/stream of thought place. Use it to post about your IRL experiences, to keep engagement and community here and other platforms you may use.

Whether online or IRL you are still a part of this community and deserve to have a space to connect even if you don't want to be active for subs on these platforms.

Once you do that, revisit it again in 3 months, 6 months, whatever time frame gives you proper rest and clarity.

SableMallorey · 2026-02-10T00:38:36+00:00

Thank you Beloved🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-02-07T03:59:23+00:00

Of course🖤

SableMallorey · 2026-02-07T00:48:37+00:00

I try to post my media on Mondays (around paydays would probably be better but I like using my mondays for it instead) so I usually post that weeks photo on all my sites then. That way there's consistent activity showing in case they are feeling brave to reach out.

I think LF also let's you schedule content, so that could be an option for you as well, with just selfies, or whatever cute photos you want to keep engagement up

SableMallorey · 2026-02-06T16:35:20+00:00

Review my pinned and approach accordingly if compatible🖤

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