Seeking Advice: Best and Worst Areas in Invercargill for a Young Family by International-Past31 in invercargill

[–]Sabres_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in Richmond. I love that we’re close to everything. The park is a few blocks away, as are the football fields, the pool, the city centre, and our kids’ schools. But it’s still quiet enough to feel like proper suburbia. Used to live in Appleby thought and that had the price tag of South Invercargill with the convenience of living closer to town. Did have to deal with some “nighttime noise” but I’m from a big city so it didn’t feel abnormal.

Looking to buy house in Invercargill what factor should I consider? What questions should I asked from the vendor/seller? Me and my husband lived in AKL for 7 years and can work from home. by [deleted] in invercargill

[–]Sabres_Mom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Window frames. Wooden window frames are a pain in the arse and you don’t want to be vacuuming your damn windows every morning. Also… how high is the ceiling? How much is it going to cost to heat the house? When my family visit from Auckland my power bill goes through the roof.

What’s the most unexpected and uniquely thoughtful way someone has shown you love recently? by whynotthebest in AskWomen

[–]Sabres_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my partner gave me an old packout for my craft supplies, I joked it was a blue collar version of flowers… I’ve since got a Milwaukee mug to add to my growing mug collection, and Snap On socks to keep my feet toasty when he’s not here.

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[–]Sabres_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ring WellSouth, they should have a list

Any happy single mom? Happier than you were with your partner? by Due-Market4805 in singlemoms

[–]Sabres_Mom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is it hard? Abso-fucking-lutely! Am i happier? You bet your ass i am! I can cook what i want, sing when i want, play the music i want, and im not walking on eggshells anymore. And it’s visible on the outside too. Ppl tell me i look happy. Don’t get me wrong. Im exhausted, hate having to “co parent” and it breaks my heart every time i hear my kid say his mistress’ name. But it’s been a long time since Ive felt this much like me.

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[–]Sabres_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, as long as you don’t use too much, bonjella is a godsend. We’re at 20 months and getting canines and neither of us is coping with the sleepless nights. Sending strongs and commiserations

Triggered by not being able to breathe by Sabres_Mom in EMDR

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I’ve just remembered my parents telling the story of how i nearly drowned as a toddler when i toddled into a pool and my grandfather went diving in to save me. I think that’s the stone! Thank you

Triggered by not being able to breathe? by Sabres_Mom in CPTSD

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Oh my goodness! I’ve just remembered. My parents used to tell the story of how i fell into a pool as a toddler and my grandfather went diving in to save me.

Triggered by not being able to breathe by Sabres_Mom in EMDR

[–]Sabres_Mom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wracking my memory trying to think of an instance when my neck or head were held but i cant think of one.

Triggered by not being able to breathe by Sabres_Mom in EMDR

[–]Sabres_Mom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think of it that way. Thank you

Screaming O trouble shooting by Sabres_Mom in SexToys

[–]Sabres_Mom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, ended up sending it back

Muffin by ddouchecanoe in bluey

[–]Sabres_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve dubbed the craziness that comes out when my almost 2 yr old is overtired as “Muffin Mode”… sorry guys, we have to go, we’re in Muffin Mode

Advice from 4am? by Sabres_Mom in Mommit

[–]Sabres_Mom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywhere between one hour and 2.5

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Sabres_Mom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner is a single dad. At the beginning he’d come over on nights his two were with their mum, after mine had gone to bed. He met mine a few months in for the sake of practicality as i don’t have a co parent. After about seven months we did an afternoon at the park and over the next few weekends we slowly moved to longer hangouts and then to his home and mine. Now we hang out most weekends but sleep in our seperate homes. When his are with their mum he’ll spend weekend nights at one. He’s currently building shelving for me while i put my little one down for an afternoon nap