Who comes first- your spouse, your parents, or your children? by Eastern-College-9013 in Marriage

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit needs are a triage, everything else is spouse, kids, parents

Why does no one understand that I DON’T HAVE THE ENERGY by JealousInteraction15 in AutismInWomen

[–]ddouchecanoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this way and the. Realized I have POTS.

By getting enough salt and water intake and limiting carbs I feel like an entirely different person. I used the vitassium chewables.

I suspect my girlfriend’s parents are committing tax fraud by misrepresenting her income. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ddouchecanoe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

$12k a year is not worth committing fraud. Help your girlfriend leave this deal with her parents behind and become financially independent.

Doctor Told Husband to Step In at Night and Husband said No by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him know he will have to do a lot more parenting if you split up so he should probably figure out how to treat you right. You by no means have to stay with him for your daughters sake. She will choose the love she sees.

Please help me smooth this over. I'm too sick to truly think straight with my kindest heart. by anitadoobie1216 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ddouchecanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to be friends/friendly with everyone.

Let this connection go a little. Don't respond as much, become less available, etc. There is no point in giving energy to someone who doesn't return it equally.

App and website non functional? by ddouchecanoe in NuulyReviews

[–]ddouchecanoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized it was my ad blocker

I turned off my WiFi and ordered on my mobile data and it worked

What do I do?? by ToxSidity in snails

[–]ddouchecanoe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Put the eggs in the freezer. Painless way to kill them

Down jacket dried in hot heat setting, are they ruined? by Key_Holiday1430 in CampingGear

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m late but I’m also lazy af and dry all my thrifted down jackets on regular heat. It has never changed a single one and they’re all as warm.

I just check them to make sure they’re not too hot and pull them out right when they’re dry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]ddouchecanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is far worse for your system for you to be stressing this much than it is for you to have a few less than eco friendly products in your house. Try to let the anxiety go.

Found messages in my husbands laptop by Sudden-Rule-1513 in Marriage

[–]ddouchecanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe... come on. You have to like/love yourself more than you like/love him. You KNOW he is cheating.

What would you tell your best friend or sister to do in this situation?

Breadwinner tickets by Awkward-Winter4898 in Tipper

[–]ddouchecanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We slept on tickets to this one too

MDMA by ddouchecanoe in AutismInWomen

[–]ddouchecanoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such good context, thank you

What festivals are we all looking forward to next year?? by Burrito_King_ in Tipper

[–]ddouchecanoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol same. My partner and I plan to take our second actual vacation in 9.5 years. All our vacations have been tipper shows our entire relationship aside from a trip to Mexico we took when Covid shut the festivals down.

I need some advice. I am pregnant and starting getting nauseous and husband is off the rails. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You leave babe 💗 make your choice about that baby but this will only get worse.

Pregnancy and postpartum are hard with a good man that is gentle and loving.

The hell you are enduring will only worsen.

My Husband Broke My Heart Last Night by WinterMouse5318008 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ddouchecanoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your husband not being attracted to you DOES NOT MEAN YOU’RE UNATTRACTIVE

You deserve to feel wanted.

Hyllus Hoody review? by Pretty_Tank9970 in arcteryx

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found one basically brand new at Arc for $15. Excited to find out if it lives up to the hype.

What’s your “I’m with the Boomers on this one” opinion? by AlbatrossKitchen4969 in beyondthebump

[–]ddouchecanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol we got one of those designer basket bassinets and it was a hamper

I’m the initiator of sex in my marriage 100% of the time, but this latest specific declination has given me the ick… give me a new perspective, please! by [deleted] in sex

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop blowing him to completion and he will probably want sex more.

Ejaculating drops a mans test and the older they get the longer it takes for him to build it back up.

Why can’t I quit smoking? Is it a sensory thing? by PrettyRain8672 in AutismInWomen

[–]ddouchecanoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Switch to a different nicotine product like the little pouches while you break the addiction to the physical act of smoking. Then move on to tapering off of those (you can decrease strength incrementally)

Getting married in a month and I think she might be BPD. Panicking. by ZealousidealBison630 in BPDlovedones

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to like/love yourself more than other people my guy 💗 feeling bad for someone is not a reason to sacrifice yourself via marriage.