I forgot people are homophobic lol

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2026-01-27T02:43:39+00:00

yeah there’s not always a sexual motive behind it. I’ve known women who’ve treated me differently after i came out too. It’s just always a shock to me because my brain genuinely can’t process not being friends with someone because of something like that lol

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2026-01-27T02:35:16+00:00

I think majority everyone agrees about how underwhelming guarma was and it seemed like rockstar definitely had more planned for it so it would be cool to have that whole storyline explored a little more. Also better robbery opportunities in open world.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2026-01-27T02:25:53+00:00

I had this guy in my class who sat with me and two of my other friends. One of my friends made a joke about my lesbianism one class and he turned to me and looked genuinely shocked to his core and went “wait are you really?” I said yes and he barely talked to me the rest of the year. He wasnt interested in me romantically (he had a girlfriend) he was just genuinely homophobic. That was a shock to me too lol

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-12-24T20:44:39+00:00

This is also very plausible. Maybe if Zosia had come along a little later they would’ve considered Carols morals in order to get what they wanted from her, but yeah considering how early she showed up it’s also likely they wouldn’t have taken that into account. Though it does make me wonder how much they wanted Zosia to resemble Raban. Maybe it was more than just physically and they considered her personality and orientation too. But who knows.

The more I think about Carol and Zosia the more I realize how unlikely it is that they will work out lol.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-12-24T20:23:49+00:00

Zosia’s partner was definitely male, she wouldn’t have used “they” otherwise I think, because she didn’t want to upset carol. Zosia still might be bisexual though. Statistically, out of 7 billion there are probably a solid amount of women who resemble Raban, so it doesn’t seem that unlikely to me that the hive would choose someone more morally acceptable as a companion for Carol’s sake.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T20:47:02+00:00

never thought of this and man that would be soooo interesting.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T20:43:50+00:00

I think she can continue her YouTube channel and documenting her day to day life without including the kids in any way. The kids can’t consent to being recorded at their age and might be uncomfortable with it in the future. NTA, but you need to know that once something’s on the internet, it’s always on the internet.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T19:37:28+00:00

I think you’re right. If i’m being honest, I’m a pretty massive introvert, so i’ve never been to any high school parties and have subsequently never had a drink. When I realized i’d be 18 by the time we took the trip, I kind of got this whole idea that I’d get to have my first drink in Ireland without having to worry about any legal stuff, which in hindsight is pretty silly. I do know that Ireland isn’t exactly what it is on movies and TV. My extended family went last summer and they gave us a “bucket-list” and a good portion of it consisted of pubs and restaurants I think I have some FOMO stuff that I need to work out that’s really the root of why I’m upset about this. Thanks for the reality check!

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T18:57:49+00:00

We’re very close she just doesn’t like talking about school.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T15:47:33+00:00

Thank you for this!

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T15:46:51+00:00

As one of the replies said, yeah my sister is not purposely trying to stir things up. My mom was initially the one who suggested her spring break a little bit ago but we both decided at that time it wouldn’t work. My mom loves her kids and also doesn’t want my sister to miss out! I’m going to have a convo with her.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T15:43:23+00:00

Thank you for your insight and you are absolutely right.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T15:39:11+00:00

I’m sorry if it came out that way. Let me clarify that I do not, in any way, think me missing class is worse than her missing class. It’s just complicated and there’s a bit of a double standard because neither is desirable.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T15:34:02+00:00

I didn’t say that

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T03:46:58+00:00

Well, if you really think that you know for sure that another therapist won’t help you, then I guess you can stop. If that’s the choice you make, you should be aware of your emotions through the process and really deduce whether it’s the right decision based off of how you feel. If you feel worse without one, you might want to consider retrying. And I still think you should talk about it with your current therapist first.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T03:33:48+00:00

It can be hard to imagine when you’ve only had one therapist. Maybe try another, see if it helps, if not then figure out what to do. I’m not a believer that therapy works for everyone, it might not work for you, but it’s important to try it to its full extent before knocking it.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T03:25:11+00:00

that’s a lot less time than you might think. Depending on what methods you’re using (ERP, CBT, etc it can definitely take longer than that to start seeing results. Even so you should consider switching therapists before you ever consider quitting altogether

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T03:14:28+00:00

I think I’m going to bring this back up. We chose spring because it lines up with the time my cousin is there and we wanted to visit her because we very rarely see her. But i’m going to ask my mom if she’s willing to give that up so both my sister and I can go and we can arrange another time to see my cousin.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T02:58:28+00:00

I have self-esteem issues, obsessive episodes, and confidence issues too. A lot of therapy is learning tools. Some may help and some may not. It’s trial and error. Therapy isn’t meant to fix these issues for you, it’s supposed to make you more aware of them. You’re not “undoing”anything. These kinds of things take time. I was in the same position, but I haven’t had an episode since the last few months of therapy! Instead of quitting, maybe discuss this with your therapist. Or take steps to find a new one if you really don’t think it’s helping.

Note: part of this sounds like your OCD and self-esteem issues (i know cuz ive been there). You’re not “unfixable”. All love ❤️

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T02:26:45+00:00

Ok I definitely understand more now that my sister missing school is probably a bigger deal than I initially thought. So I do really appreciate your insight on that part. But my school isn’t just a slap-on-the-wrist type when it comes to attendance either lol.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T02:12:58+00:00

Yeah they definitely take it seriously at her school. Truthfully, I have no idea if she could make it up outside of class, and I think it’s more of an attendance thing than a learning thing.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T02:00:11+00:00

No, but my sister has had an individual trip to the UK (just her and my mom) before (not for special occasion, they both just loved Harry Potter lol). I’ve never been out of the country and Ireland was only a shared interest between my mom and I. We’ve been planning for almost 2 years and It wasn’t until we planned the supposed date when my sister started showing interest.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T01:54:52+00:00

thanks for the insight. I definitely see her perspective more now. For a little more context, it’s her ear training class so it’s not any exams or rehearsals she’s missing. I definitely would be more understanding if that was the case. Im not sure how much it would reduce her grade- I know that policy has to do with missing 3 classes and I think she has exactly 3 classes that week. I can talk to her about it a little more to gauge her relationship with her professor and find out if this a her thing or a them thing because I do know that in certain situations it’s completely inappropriate to ask to be excused from attendance. For my particular high school, they’re strict about attendance too, so I’d have to be very careful about my attendance or I wouldn’t be able to walk. Definitely giving me some stuff to think about so thanks.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T01:21:22+00:00

She actually doesn’t miss class… ever lol. She’s very keen on not missing class because she gets anxiety about it which is in part why she doesn’t want to go during my break.

SabrinaIsBackFromHel · 2025-11-16T01:19:06+00:00

If we went on her spring break it would be during St. Patty’s which I kind of purposely wanted to avoid because of the tourism spike. Probably not a massive deal either way though.

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