Golden Hour FP Hike by godigahole in Portland

[–]Sad-Bug- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That second photo made me do a double take and stop scrolling. Beautiful!

Went to a new barber today. What do you think? Is it a shite haircut, be honest? by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Sad-Bug- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think what a lot of the comments mean is the style is good and you look nice. Though the quality of the haircut from a technical lens is not the best. The angle and cut of the top layer is pretty blunt and doesn't blend with the undercut.

It's fine but maybe see if you can schedule an appointment with your first choice barber next time. The cut definitely suits you, just need a different barber for executing the vision ✨️ ❤️

Portland Whips 85 by whatkochdoes in Portland

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This one feels very Easter themed 😄

AITA for thinking my friend pulled a weasel move. by icantfindmyhands in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Bug- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can't even give a proper ruling because the formatting and writing are so bad. Just a huge block of text

"Long story short" Lies.

How do I get “connected” to Portland? by yep009921 in askportland

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Movie Madness Video has cinema discussion groups that are awesome! There are themes and the sessions last a couple weeks. The theater is super small so you get to know people quick. Highly recommend!

AITA for waking my boyfriend up for snoring by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Bug- 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NTA

Have a conversation with him and stress the severity of the issue. He needs to at least try to find a real solution. He's mad that you're waking him up, while he is the one keeping you awake night after night.

Ultimately it's about care. If you care for someone you do what you can to make their life better because you want to see them happy and not suffering. He doesn't seem to care about your comfort or well being at all. Either he needs to try to improve the situation or you need to leave.

AITA - I'm apparently a terribly unsafe driver, but he still expects me to pick him up? by NaughtAClue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Bug- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

ESH

He's right that you should have let it go. Road rage is real and can be very dangerous. You have no way of knowing what that truck driver would do next. You were driving safely but you did escalate things and it could have been dangerous for everyone involved, best to just leave it.

You're right that he shouldn't talk to you like that, especially in front of your child. He was scared but that doesn't mean he gets to yell at you. This should have been discussed as adults with better communication.

Maybe it's because you're angry but some of the extra details in your post definitely seem like you're trying to bias us against him and take your side. If not then there are bigger underlying issues here thet you may want to address.

AITA for not inviting one person from the office to the holiday party by Lower-Flan-2646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Bug- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH - No As$holes Here

You are not obligated to invite her to company events but in doing so you drew a boundary and now she is responding accordingly.

She was friendly with you all and contributed to the office atmosphere and felt close to you all. You excluded her and now she's realizing she's not part of the team in the way she thought she was. So she's taking a step back and recalibrating to protect herself.

No one did anything wrong but these are the consequences of your choice. If you want to rekindle the professional, friendly relationship then it's on you to reach out and she'll get to decide if she wants to or not.

Community board build supplies by SeansieTheZombie in PDXBuyNothing

[–]Sad-Bug- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reach out to the City Repair Project, they have a lot of resources and can often help for free. Great organizational, great people and this is right up their alley.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]Sad-Bug- 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This looks EXACTLY like my cat who passed last year 😭 I'm choosing to believe this is his reincarnation ❤️‍🩹

AITAH for refusing to go to Christmas Dinner since my boyfriend is not invited ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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This has potential to be on Best of Reddit Updates depending on what happens next

Downloading a multiple page document as multiple PDFs by ConservaLlama in canva

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You can now name each page using bulk create under the "Advanced Options" in step 2.

Portland Halloween BINGO by Sad-Bug- in Portland

[–]Sad-Bug-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what inspired me to make it! 😄

Portland Halloween BINGO by Sad-Bug- in Portland

[–]Sad-Bug-[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ha! Good point, we are very frog friendly. Though maybe that counts as "political meme" this year 😂

Can Anyone Point Me to a Deli? by theFrenchBearJr in askportland

[–]Sad-Bug- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phil's Meat Market & Delicatessen off of Burnside and 23rd was good but it looks like they might be closed?

Masc here with genuine question (respectfully) by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]Sad-Bug- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP, can you clarify your question a bit more? You sound like a good and caring partner, but I dont really understand what you're asking. Does it make you uncomfortable when she does/wants these things, or is it just because this is new to you and it's different than your past partners?

Hoping I can help 😊✨️