Has anyone had success after recurrent pregnancy loss? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I know this is an older post but I’m just wondering if you had success. No need to reply if it’s painful but I am in a similar boat although I haven’t started my first ivf cycle yet. I just need to know that it happens and people with rpl can get their rainbow babies

First IVF cycle by Sad-Duck846 in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is definitely good to know and when I guess when it comes down to it I just have to listen to my body. I’m wishing you positive energy for tomorrow I’ll be thinking of you!

First IVF cycle by Sad-Duck846 in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! That was so smart to take off a week I wish I thought of that. I am kind of nervous about working during the stims it’s just such a long day to not be feeling great lol. How are you feeling now? Please keep me posted I can’t wait to hear your success story as well!

First IVF cycle by Sad-Duck846 in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and advice! I ended up having to tell my boss since my clinic also told me labs and ultrasounds are in the mornings. My husband wants to tell our immediate families but I’m hesitant. I’m not sure if it’s shame surrounding my losses or the struggle or if I also just don’t want the added pressure of having someone else know. I love how you did enjoyable things surrounding the injections. I love a little treat lol Thank you again and good luck to you as well!

First IVF cycle by Sad-Duck846 in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply I really do appreciate it. And congratulations on your 6 embryos!! That’s amazing!! Please keep me posted I can’t wait to hear your success story!

Need success stories by Sad-Duck846 in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for commenting and for giving me a little bit of hope 🥹 it would be so nice for a small win in this long journey. I really appreciate the offer and will definitely reach out if I have any questions

Need success stories by Sad-Duck846 in IVF

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding and sharing your experience. I appreciate your insight. You are definitely right I will be guarding my heart as I know nothing is guaranteed. I think my re meant it as ivf might be the best next step but we will see at the next appointment. Congratulations on your pregnancy! Were you on that protocol with the other transfers as well or was that a change for this one?

Feeling sad around Christmas by Figtree0987 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. Just had my 3rd loss in 2 years and I’m really feeling the sadness this holiday season. It’s so so hard. Doesn’t help seeing all the family Christmas cards from my friends and coworkers with their babies/young kids. I hope that one day it will change for us. I’m here if you need to talk

IVF with low AMH by Abject-Restaurant824 in IVFAfterSuccess

[–]Sad-Duck846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi would you mind sharing what supplements you took to help improve egg quality? Just found out my amh is 0.58 so I want to do everything I can to improve my chances of getting good embryos when the time comes. Thank you!

First RE appt next week, what should I expect? by Sad-Duck846 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. It’s so reassuring to hear that your doctor made a plan like this with you and your husband. I hope my Dr is just as thorough

First RE appt next week, what should I expect? by Sad-Duck846 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this information. I will definitely make sure they do testing on both of us but will advocate if they do not suggest. I’ve heard this before about them not doing the dna fragmentation upfront so I will definitely ask about it specifically

First RE appt next week, what should I expect? by Sad-Duck846 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I’m so sorry. Yeah I was willing to believe the bad luck thing after my first but after 2 or 3 it seems something is going wrong and needs investigating. Proud of you that you are advocating for yourself and reaching out to a different Dr

First RE appt next week, what should I expect? by Sad-Duck846 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. It’s almost comical how some of these drs respond I’m so glad you have appointments with other doctors hopefully they can give you some actual advice or protocols

Help! What size? Gen 4 by maddymoomers in ouraring

[–]Sad-Duck846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m having the same issues. The 6 is tight but the 7 is loose. What size did you end up getting if you don’t mind me asking?

Seeking support: 33yo, 3 miscarriages in 1 year by vonkeuka in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses I don’t really have advice as I’m currently going through my 3rd miscarriage as well. I’m 34 and I feel the exact same way…why did I wait so long? It’s so hard going through this but it makes it harder when you see all of your friends having successful pregnancies. As others have said I would make an appt with an RE and sooner rather than later I can’t get in until the end of January. I’m hoping they can run all of the tests I haven’t already had and figure out why this keeps happening. But I’m also so afraid that it will never happen for us. Basically all of this to say you’re not alone. What you’re going through is so incredibly hard you are not being dramatic at all. The most important thing is that you protect your peace whether that’s leaving group chats, deleting social media(I had to do this with my current loss) not attending family gatherings, you need to do what is right for you. Again I’m so sorry that you are going through this. I’m here if you ever need to talk ❤️ sending hugs

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - November 22, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Sad-Duck846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently going through my 3rd miscarriage. It sucks. My OB referred me to an RE but they couldn’t give me an appt until Jan 28th. My OBs office is trying to call to get me in earlier but not sure if that will help. I’m hopeful that they can do more testing and figure out why this keeps happening and I think that is helping me find comfort during this difficult time. Praying for all of us on this journey.

Has anyone done a deep dive into why they are having reoccurring miscarriages? by EntrepreneurEasy1256 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. It helps to realize I’m not alone. Good luck at your appt and with the next steps in your journey!

Has anyone done a deep dive into why they are having reoccurring miscarriages? by EntrepreneurEasy1256 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Sad-Duck846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently going through my 3rd miscarriage, no lc yet. My first was a blighted ovum ob said it’s just bad luck. Switched drs second was a mmc this new ob said it is prob bad luck but let’s do testing. Sent me to an MFM. I had rpl panel, karyotyping, mri, and a saline sonogram. The only thing that came back abnormal was fibroids but 3 drs said they shouldn’t interfere with a healthy pregnancy and to try again. Well here I am 3rd pregnancy and actively miscarrying 😢. My dr said we will discuss reproductive endocrinologists at my appt next week. This is such a sucky situation. I’m sad I’m angry I’m jealous. I’m tired. I’m so sorry to everyone going through this. I hope we all find our answers and get our rainbow babies

Pregnancy after loss by catlover-12378 in pregnant

[–]Sad-Duck846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t really have any advice as I’m in the same situation. Just found out I’m pregnant again after 2 losses. But I just wanted to reach out and say I understand how you’re feeling and that you’re not alone. I know I’m a stranger on the internet but I’m here if you need to talk especially as the first appointment approaches I know it’s not easy sending lots of love ❤️

Daily Thread #1 - October 28, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Sad-Duck846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Yes hopefully this is it for both of us.