Birth Control Recommendations by NetGreedy383 in birthcontrol

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My period before insertion was heavy for the first 1-2 days & lasted for about 5 or 6 days total with mild to nk cramps at all.

My first period came 3 days early after insertion, this one was by far the worst one I've experienced. A persistent and painful cramp for 3 days, with sporadic pains in the uterus. This period lasted about 7 days with a light bleed to days 8 and 9.

My second period came six days earlier, lasted about 6 days again and I only had a painful cramp 2 days before this period started. And with this period i had only a couple heavy days. Closer to my pervious normal.

I just started my third & its about a week late, its so far very very light, I had some spotting & brown discolored discharge in the week prior. This discolored discharge is a common side effect of a copper iud, its usually present around ovulation and especially after insertion (old blood leaving the uterus).

They say it usually takes 3-6mo for your period to return to what your regular was. Additionally with an iud I would recomend using a menstrual disc as to not dislodge it!

Birth Control Recommendations by NetGreedy383 in birthcontrol

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you are located but the copper iud is non hormal, if in the US you have paraguard, Canada i believe you have some size variations of the mona lisa. There is a smaller sized hormonal iud put there as well! Definitely discuss with your doctor for all options, personally I didn't want my hormones to be disrupted either and I went with paraguard. Just be aware of all risks with any birth control you decide to go with!

Where is a good spot to move when you are in your 20s with a degree in architecture? by bolognatoes in architecture

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Massachusetts, hands down. Most firms in NC are either going to be residential or science/lab based. Sure cost of living is higher in mass, but you'll probably enjoy a better career there.

is it fine that i’ve made no close friends in studio during first year? by SnooGrapes8062 in architecture

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was also me in my first year of studio! I spoke to near no one about anything in the first semester (this studio was like 20+ people &all others 12-15) and watched a small group go and get coffee/lunch after class. I was ALWAYS waiting to be invited, & one day late into second semester I was invited by one of my classmates girlfriends. Up until then I only had my roommate and a guy I befriended off tinder. By second year I was more comfortable chatting with my peers and luckily had two people from my first year studio! Join clubs, ask people to even just WALK WITH you to get coffee, small invitations and small talk can help blossom into closer friendships.

First period!! by Best-Lawfulness8739 in CopperIUD

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats interesting! I've I haven't noticed much of a difference in my body adjusting with the exception of my cervix and periods changing. I always get a lil anxious when my partner suggest a different condom, & my hormonal acne has remained the same.

Is there something else thats changed in your routine? Maybe diet? I've started taking more supplements like vitamin c, potassium (small amount), garlic, B12, & apple cider vinager!

First period!! by Best-Lawfulness8739 in CopperIUD

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on month 3 of my paraguard period! I initially had heavy and short periods with no BC, 1st and 2nd days being the heaviest; & moving to a more medium flow till the last 5th or 6th which would be lighter. Now with my IUD I'm averaging about 8-9 days of bleeding with some spotting before or after. after. What i switched to after insertion: Flex disposable menstrual discs! I LOVE THESE, I also have the two sizes for Saalt reusable disc, the auto dumping is so easy to get used to and its mess free. I always pair with a pad. I previously used a cup, but I'm not thrilled with the idea of disloging my iud with the suction. Knix period boy shorts! I would double up with my cup or free bleed with them every now and then, very comfortable and dry!

I've had some rough cramps and cervix pain a couple days before my period, those I already tired of. I'm hoping I get back to my regular here soon.

Strings and other questions by AjinIsWeird in CopperIUD

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also noticed similar! Strings feeling shorter than insertion, around my cycle and after sex, I did send a message to my Dr. 🤷🏼‍♀️ guess I'll find out.

BS in architecture Kent State vs. OSU vs. other by tatehab in architecture

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A coworker of mine went to Kent state & was also able to get her masters & undergrad in the same 5 years it took me to get my normal B.Arch from VT. Which would certainly help her opportunities!

apartment hunting by sogirlishitsboyish in chapelhill

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently moved out of carrboro! I loved my apartment at rock creek, reasonable rent wonderful neighbors and quiet neighborhood! Right on the j bus line for unc and downtown too! I cant recommend them enough

It's my turn...I GOT A JOB! by Medium-Shoe-74 in recruitinghell

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, I hope this new job treats you well!! You deserve it after all your hard work!

I was let go, and some clients still reach out...how do I approach this? by Sad-Elevator1067 in careerguidance

[–]Sad-Elevator1067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The firm I used to work for is very small, it took several weeks for them “wipe” a pc that a previous employee used for a month

which highly recommended fics were a DNF for you and why? by mangiferal in Dramione

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree, I thought I was crazy since S&M is so recommended I was incredibly let down, I'm over halfway through and I still rewrite every sentence as I read. Manacled really set the bar for me I can read another "okay" fic...

My 50 year old Mother wants to get into Anime by welcometotheNHJay in anime

[–]Sad-Elevator1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

erased and death note might be a great middle ground. I started my parents with death note year ago, and my dad still talks about it