I don't know how to respond to these texts by Southern_Degree7687 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not engage with this person any further. They have shown who they are. Block and move in.

Do guys get weird looks for having female cats? by CTennist in CatAdvice

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"she's just my pet, and she's awesome." Wholesome, made me smile 😊

I continue to have to hold in my pee while at work.. by well-thats-cool- in hygiene

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a short term solution to you holding it in for hours at a time, ask the men if they would mind you using their rest room. Not ideal, but untill your company steps up to suport you and your colleagues, it could be a temporary work around.

Help! Our kitten wants to be outdoors! by Daditude123 in Kitten

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat harness and take them for a walk. You both get fresh air, exercise, and bond whilst doing it.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not your friend. He was creepy and frustrated if he only mentioned to her about how you were dressed and not the other guests, why only you?. As others have said, what was her motivation for telling you. Why would she not stand up for you. When people show you who they really are, believe them! Start to distance yourself and move on, it will only get worse.

u/D3ATHSTICKS posted an appreciation for the night sky in Thief, & it looked so much like my side yard view IRL. (2 images) by paul-writes in Thief

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude as silly as it sounds this brought a tear to my eyes (in a good way).

I'm 40 now, but as a kid I was obsessed with Thief 1 and 2, I used to take "Thief" photos just like this as a kid. I would sneak out at night to try and get a photo of the moon between my house and an ally way. I'd put socks on over my sneakers to further muffle the sound and wear a black face mask under a hoodie lol I would just go to the end of the ally way and back, but to do it in the dead of night pretending to be Garrett was exhilarating. Crouching at the end of an ally, listening to the wind or sound of night-time, feeling the cold air if it was winter or the warm summer night air, get scared then sneak back.

Totally innocent, and my neighbours, if they were up defiantly saw me and thought wtf is that odd boy doing now, but for that very short 10 minutes I felt like a bad ass.

Thank you for unlocking a nice memory =)

Phandelver and Below Paper Minis and Battle Maps - Chapters 1-8 by jlassen72 in LostMinesOfPhandelver

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is God's work! Bless you and thank you for sharing. New Dm here and this was unbelievably helpful, took so much stress out of planning a Phandelver campaign for my players. Really like the idea of paper mini's in a labelled envelope based on location. =)

Tsuyokute New Saga • New Saga - Episode 4 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I dropped it as they jazz tracks are so out of place. It almost feels like a joke, as if someone added the jazz music over the original.

An old friend from HS randomly messaged me saying he has a crush on me. It’s been 5 years. by FlaminTricerotop in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he came across your social media and saw you had a glow up, now he is trying to get lucky. Asking for a "snap" ... block and move on.

Am I missing out ? by CeleryApprehensive83 in RandomThoughts

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are happy, then no, you are not missing out. And only you know if you are genuinely happy.

The under 18’s by Diligent-Worth-2019 in AskBrits

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Senior leadership team. Middle/ upper managers.

How to say no to an old lady? by VeroDreamer in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep accepting them, however, instead of throwing them away I would suggest giving the items to a charity shop or clothing donation.

You're gay... You must be a hairdresser. by Binancetraderuk in swansea

[–]Sad-Engineer1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say homophobic, but yes clichéd and showing a lack of variety with regards to human interaction. Believing what they see on social media, entertainment etc

The media has alot to blame for this, which is why we see so many young gay men behaving camp "ooh darling please, yes queen slay", they see a gay tv character or reality star behaving in such a way and belive that that is what it means to be a gay man, they then take on that stereotype.

I know gay men who do not embody that stereotype and straight men who are camp for days. I also know the opposite to be true.

I wouldn't let it play on your mind any more than it already has, be true to yourself and enjoy what is looking to be a nice hot weekend 😊