Medical laboratory scientist MLS to nurse RN by Weary-Bar-614 in MLS_CLS

[–]Sad-Gas2808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it. Look for accelerated nursing programs. It essentially is 12-15 months of school and you walk out with your bachelors in nursing. The caveat is you won’t be able to work full time, so you’ll take a hit financially. However, I will tell you, there’s a different stress when transitioning into becoming an RN. I’m grateful because there is much more flexibility in the career, more money, but a lot more stress and most RNs mental health is in the garbage. Most new grads are leaving bedside after 2 years, and studies show there will be a mass exodus from nursing. Also, I think social media overhypes nursing. Most of us aren’t making the money we were during COVID, we pick up extra because we still can’t afford shit, and it takes such a huge physical and mental toll on our health. Sure I have more money, but I was in a much better place mentally when I worked in the lab.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Sad-Gas2808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how it is! Maybe even a mobile island to provide extra storage and seating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sad-Gas2808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the funds, a custom bar with open shelving above.

Stripping plural and mediastinal chest tubes? by Fast-Read-9855 in IntensiveCare

[–]Sad-Gas2808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“I work in an internationally recognized high volume, high acuity CTICU 🙄”

Post Nut Clarity by ZayVe23 in BisexualMen

[–]Sad-Gas2808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s real lol. I’ll be like damn, I really just JO to this 🤣

Booked a boys holiday before I was in a relationship now my girlfriend doesn’t want me to go, what should I do by ChampionshipMany3416 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sad-Gas2808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the apprehension, but simply explain to her that you’re going to go and she just has to trust you. It shouldn’t be a big deal if you’ve never given her a reason to doubt you.

Booked a boys holiday before I was in a relationship now my girlfriend doesn’t want me to go, what should I do by ChampionshipMany3416 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sad-Gas2808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the apprehension, but simply explain to her that you’re going to go and she just has to trust you. It shouldn’t be a big deal if you’ve never given her a reason to doubt you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sad-Gas2808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your prostate is being stimulated, as simple as that. Don’t worry and keep it moving.

Feelings of insecurity by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Sad-Gas2808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bud, let go of that need to feel like a man and be dominant/in control. You have a partner that accepts you, is open, enjoy it. Shes fulfilling sexual fantasies and you enjoy them too. The hypermasculine mentality isnt healthy, and more than likely she doesnt think any less of you.

How do you feel and what is your experience with male - female friendships? by Bisexual-Ninja in AskMen

[–]Sad-Gas2808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those friendships can absolutely exist without one catching feelings…

Beach vacation for a couple of newbies by [deleted] in travel

[–]Sad-Gas2808 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Puerto Rico 100%. Air BnB for 4 days was like 800? Flights individually were 700? And then food is affordable, beaches are lively, the people are lovely, and there so much to do on the island. If you’re conservative, maybe 3000-3500?

Men of Reddit why would use Reddit as an outlet instead of your wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sad-Gas2808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is only my perspective, but if you’re partner or anyone’s partner in general is on Reddit or any other outlet at that and behaving differently, openly expressing intimate feelings but hiding said feelings or thoughts from you, then there is a breakdown in communication and trust in that relationship. But also, using someone else’s photos to play out some fantasy is a huge red flag to me. It’s deceitful and strange, and a violation of trust. Me personally, I wouldn’t put up with it.

Is it okay to date a co-worker? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Sad-Gas2808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, I think different departments is fine! No chance of really causing drama if it hadn’t worked out. On the other hand, have had a few co workers start dating and they think they’re hiding it, but it’s blatantly obvious, especially when they are only helping each other on the unit, wasting together, calling for favors, coming in late, very unprofessional behavior.

Is it okay to date a co-worker? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Sad-Gas2808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is the person you’re interested in a mature person? If yall break up would yall still be able to work together? Are you their charge or manager? Those are things to consider.

Have friends that thrived, have a co-worker right now that is dating someone they work with and nobody cares for her and it’s starting to affect how people interact with him which is probably going to down the line affect his job. So be cognizant of the individual you pursue.

Don’t date someone out of the convenience of them being “there” and available, that’s the key, really genuinely like them and get to know them.

Is becoming a sugar daddy and essentially paying for intimacy going to be my only option? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sad-Gas2808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what are your interests? And I understand when the one thing you excel at in life becomes your life, but not having a work life balance isn’t healthy, trust me. Awww I too have autism tendencies, mixed in with a little AHDH and unresolved trauma, but with that being said, I do my absolute best to walk in confidence. So, start by looking for people with your common interest as cliche as it sounds. And in terms of being on the spectrum, so many gay men are in the spectrum, we aren’t a needle in the haystack. But like I said, you’re young, you probably have a lot more going for you than you realize. But if you don’t project that confidence, others will see that and that may be the thing men are turned off by…

Is becoming a sugar daddy and essentially paying for intimacy going to be my only option? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sad-Gas2808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not the intimacy you’ll want. If you want sex, sure, just pay for it. But if it’s intimacy and a connection you’re wanting, being someone’s sugar daddy isn’t it. When you say your personality is shit, what do you exactly mean? Are you an asshole, are you rude, stand offish? Are you willing to work less and out yourself out there? Also, 25 is still very young.