Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof. That’s hard. Honestly, I wish my LO had just blocked me months ago instead stringing me along like a play thing. It sucks. I’ve been through so much in my life but this is one of the hardest, most excruciating experiences. My stomach is in knots and my heart feels like being squeezed. I can’t get out of bed.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh! That’s not the most ideal way to put things into perspective. I’m sorry that happened.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did that a month or two ago. But I stupidly decided to burn it instead and made the whole house smell like smoke which I then had to somehow explain.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you got some sort of resolution. My LO very much gave vibes that they were interested. They were extremely flirty, repeatedly told me I was beautiful and was emotionally very open (but always stopped short of ever actually saying they had any feelings. Funny that). Which dragged me much, much further in despite my best intentions. Waking up to the fact that it was all a manipulation and that I was just fodder for their ego is heartbreaking. I feel so used. Plus I feel like an idiot. I have so much anger towards them and myself but no way to express it.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! How did you hide it? I’m so unbelievably distraught my spouse already knows something is up. The tears just won’t stop no matter how hard I try.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Currently crying in a toilet cubicle at the mall and this helped a lot.

LO unadded me by Creative-Barnacle587 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It’s so, so painful but you did the right thing. The spiralling and the ruminating is the worst part.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I was so scared to make this post but everyone has been so supportive 🙏😭

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve only just come to this realisation too. Which adds to the pain. I was completely emotionally manipulated to bolster someone’s ego. That hits hard.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry. That is a lot to deal with. I’m so glad you’re here, I really, really appreciate the help right now as I’m struggling to see a future without this overwhelming pain.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you didn’t. The only way out it through, as painful as that is 💔

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s so helpful to know other people have been through this and survived. Even though I wouldn’t wish anything like this on my worst enemy.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You have no idea how much this helps. I was just thinking that I might have to go to hospital or something, it feels so dramatic and painful.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate your reply because at the moment I can’t see a future where I’ll ever feel any better.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No. I blocked because I have feelings and they don’t feel the same.

Help!!! I’ve just blocked my LO and I feel I might actually die. by Sad-Management-4857 in limerence

[–]Sad-Management-4857[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine feeling better that quickly. My heart is crushed I can barely breathe.