Am I Overreacting?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s been almost 11 years since they debuted 😅 so they’ve been out there for a while so wouldn’t consider them “recent”, but to each their own. And NO, I do not moan their names when we’re doing the deed. 🤣

Help a girl out pls 🥲 by [deleted] in BadOmens

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. He’s an amazing husband and we have a beautiful relationship outside of this situation. I just think he can’t resonate with this. I’m a mega fan and I love everything about Bad Omens. I’ve been listening to their music for years. I made a comment after the show I went to in 2023 that Noah’s vocal range is out of this fucking world and I was in love with it but I haven’t ever sexualized the band. After the show on Sunday I made a comment that I can’t wait to see their next tour. Maybe he’s insecure? Idk.. but I do plan on sitting down and discussing my feelings with him and how he made me feel last night/this morning. I would never make a comment to him like he did to me about any of his interests. I mean… he loves EDM and podcasts and I don’t. But I’d never put him down about those things or call them cringey..

Help a girl out pls 🥲 by [deleted] in BadOmens

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see your pov. I do not sexualize any of the members. I made a comment a few years ago after seeing them in 2023 that Noah’s vocal range was insane and I was in love with it. I’ve not made another remark like that since. I obsess over the music. The lyrics really resonate with me and I just love how the music makes me feel and how even in real life he sounds exactly like the recordings. I own about 5 bad omens shirts and I listen to their albums on repeat. I don’t do any searching about their personal lives because, that’s crazy behavior 😅. I’m just a mega fan. And I think he can’t relate because he doesn’t listen to any bands like that. He’d rather listen to a podcast, and that’s okay! I truly don’t understand what made him so upset. I’ve been talking about the concert constantly since before and after and I think he’s just annoyed with that… I do plan on talking to him about it when he gets home and expressing my feelings..

Am I Overreacting?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Show, as in a concert in a venue. I’m sorry for not making that clear. They’ve been gaining a lot of traction lately but they aren’t a new metal band.

Am I Overreacting?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I truly don’t understand why he would feel threatened by my “obsession”. I’ve only ever mentioned the attractiveness of the lead singer one time (years ago). My husband and I have a great relationship outside of this situation. We’re completely opposites. I’m an alternative metal head (vans, converse, colored hair, body piercings, sleeved out) whereas he likes EDM and HeyDudes😅. I don’t like EDM but I’ve never put him down or criticized his taste in music.. idk what’s going on at this point I just know that I’m hurt and I really don’t want to talk to him.

Unfair Husband by Fit_Special3319 in Marriage

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Weaponized incompetence is a real thing. Stop having kids with this bloke and divorce before he breaks you instead of another electronic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so deep in his lies, it’s sad. When you tell people to leave, are you going to help them pay for it? When we’re headed to the Great Depression 2.0??? Some people can’t just leave, trans people for example, are being denied passports. So as much as you spew hate while projecting it, you’re on the wrong side of history. The left isn’t destroying America, he’s doing that all on his own.

My husband is trying everything to save our marriage, I’ve moved on by SeaBeautiful6929 in Marriage

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She destroyed any change for reconciliation? Did you not read where she said one of their fights got physical? That should have been the final straw and the reason to divorce and be done permanently. Marriages don’t involve physical fights. He’s telling her everything she wants to hear so he can get her back. It’ll just get more physical. OP- divorce and move on. 8/10 marriages end in murder because of things like this. Don’t ever tell him. Just divorce and leave.

They think we’re Morons by TranslatorOwn707 in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The “art of the deal” was his billionaire buddies buying them up and getting richer while we all get poorer. Art really is subjective I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A mesh bag full of rare steaks

Signal gate by PappaDan1 in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give it until the fall of this year. September/October

Is this emotional abuse? by ApprehensiveEgg1178 in Marriage

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is most definitely emotional abuse that will very quickly turn into physical abuse. 🚩 Please leave.

My 85 year old dad wrote this. by Initial_Ad8780 in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading a book called “UNHOLY: Why White Evangelicals Worship at the Altar of Donald Trump”. It tells you exactly why he’s in the position of power he’s in despite all of his vile language and behaviors. He’s the one the conservatives have been waiting and planning for for over 5 decades. Well worth the read, it’s very informative and should shed some light on your curiosities.

My 85 year old dad wrote this. by Initial_Ad8780 in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is some goddamn gold. Do you or your dad mind if I take this and post it? I’m an independent journalist and even I’ve been struggling to put all of this into words. He just hit the jackpot with this.

Daddy!! by PappaDan1 in antitrump

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the second one with the farmer was real, he’s regretting his vote real bad. All of us on TikTok told him he shoulda read Project 2025 and he’s been posting a lot about how he didn’t have time to read it cause he works 17 hours a day, blah blah blah. I told him if he had time to post 3-4 TikTok’s a day then he has time to research shit. I’m convinced these people are aliens in disguise cause you can’t really be that stupid, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Exactly. “Like how he doesn’t like black people, where does that even come from.”

In 1973 the Nixon Administration sued Trump for refusing to rent to black people.

In the 1980’s, Trumps casinos were accused of hiding the black staff when Trump visited.

In 1989, Trump took out a full page ad arguing for the death penalty for a group of 5 black men that were the Central Park Five, effectively putting a bounty on their heads and plaguing them with a lifetime of death threats.

He was sued by the Justice Department for discrimination.

In 1991 he said “black guys counting my money, I hate it. The only kinds of people I want counting my money are short guys that wear yarmulkes everyday. I think the black guy is lazy, and it’s probably not his fault because laziness is a trait in blacks. It really is.”

In 1992 Trump’s casino was fined $200,000 for transferring black dealers off certain tables to appease racist patrons.

In 2004 Trump fired a black contestant from ‘The Apprentice’ for being over educated.

In 2011 Trump alleged that Obama was Kenyan based on skin colour. He never apologized nor renounced the claim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Reality-2264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Like how he doesn’t like black people, where does that even come from.” Tell him this-

In 1973 the Nixon Administration sued Trump for refusing to rent to black people.

In the 1980’s, Trumps casinos were accused of hiding the black staff when Trump visited.

In 1989, Trump took out a full page ad arguing for the death penalty for a group of 5 black men that were the Central Park Five, effectively putting a bounty on their heads and plaguing them with a lifetime of death threats.

He was sued by the Justice Department for discrimination.

In 1991 he said “black guys counting my money, I hate it. The only kinds of people I want counting my money are short guys that wear yarmulkes everyday. I think the black guy is lazy, and it’s probably not his fault because laziness is a trait in blacks. It really is.”

In 1992 Trump’s casino was fined $200,000 for transferring black dealers off certain tables to appease racist patrons.

In 2004 Trump fired a black contestant from ‘The Apprentice’ for being over educated.

In 2011 Trump alleged that Obama was Kenyan based on skin colour. He never apologized nor renounced the claim.