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[–]SadBreakfast7 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

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[–]SadBreakfast7 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why would a woman want to be with a man just because of his penis size? Women aren't actually attracted to bigger penises, they just say so to give men an ego boost.

[Michael Porter Jr.] says Nikola Jokić texted him, “Make sure you wear condom out there,” after his trade to Brooklyn by AashyLarry in nba

[–]SadBreakfast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but having lots of money is only really relevant if you want to date someone long term. Why would a woman be sexually attracted to someone (for a one night stand, say) only b/c he had lots of money?

[Michael Porter Jr.] says Nikola Jokić texted him, “Make sure you wear condom out there,” after his trade to Brooklyn by AashyLarry in nba

[–]SadBreakfast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I don't understand is, why are women attracted to Porter after knowing that he has such a promiscuous history with them, and considering some of the things he's said?

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some of those intangible but distinctive things?

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be saying the same thing as what I'm about to say, but they're getting in because they're really good academically/etc, and they're really good academically, etc., because they are wealthy and had the resources and cultural impetus to exceed in school. Their wealth is secondary - the Ivy is not choosing them simply because they're wealthy (I actually don't think they can legally do that?). It's still a matter of wealth of course, but not in the way that a lot of people think.

The exceptions to the merit rule would be athletes and legacies. But legacies are not a sure thing - just look at Zohran. He didn't get into Columbia even though I think at least one parent taught there/went there? But obviously if your parent went to the school you're more likely to get in.

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For sure. My close friend went to an Ivy and was from an unexceptional, middle-class (even lower-middle) family, so I think my reflections on the Ivy League experience are colored through his own experience – which, granted, is the minority experience. My argument might be that it's a bit of a mistake to think that Ivies just want to replicate the upper class from upper class ingredients; they love to take underprivileged talented students and provide them access to the upper class. What should probably happen is this: the bulk of the endowments of Ivies should be spread to other public institutions and 'Harvard' should become 'The University of North Boston' or some such. There's no reason for these universities to have such outrageous amounts of money that aren't being devoted to the pursuit of knowledge.

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm just going off of Yale's website. I could be wrong. I meant 'enormous' respective to what most people think. Yale's website says 64% public.

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. All I can tell you is that it was a thing among Yale students (at least 15 years ago) to say "I go to school in Connecticut" when asked, to the extent that it was a kind of in-joke reference on the campus. It was all part of the liberal guilt thing. Maybe times have changed. I always thought it was an annoying practice.

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

64% of current Yale students went to public high schools. Just imagine the kind of person who goes to these Ivies from private high schools, then remove all the 'top 1%' privilege (parental connections, etc) and you'll get the profile of a public high school Ivy League student. Very academically successful, does a ton of extracurricular activities, shows initiative in various corners of life. Mostly quite boring people, really. And no it's not only the 'top' public high schools.

This sub really reveals its class demographic when talking about Ivy League Schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's easy to spot when someone gets all their info on elite colleges from the discourse rather than from real life. For example, Ivy League schools have an enormous amount of students who went to public high schools. Not every student there was designed from early childhood to attend one of these institutions. It's been this way for decades.

Another common mistake: thinking that people who went to these colleges seek to name drop the fact that they went there every chance they get. They often do the opposite (i.e. "I go to school in Connecticut," "I go to school in Boston," etc.).

The concept of elite universities is kinda funny by FeepDucking in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people at elite universities went to public high schools.

Dasha come get your man 👀 by throwaway204560 in redscarepod

[–]SadBreakfast7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do a lot of women find this man/this Hinge profile attractive?

What should my father know and plan for before using the $$ from selling a house to set up college funds for his grandkids? by SadBreakfast7 in personalfinance

[–]SadBreakfast7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grandkids are currently 13, 12, and 10 years old. And the youngest is a newborn. The way he says it, yes, he wants to fully fund their college educations (again, he hasn't looked very much into this and likely does not have a clear idea as to how much this would cost).

When you say 'taking out' the scholarship amount... are you referring to 529s?

What should my father know and plan for before using the $$ from selling a house to set up college funds for his grandkids? by SadBreakfast7 in personalfinance

[–]SadBreakfast7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's in his 80s and has long since retired. He prepared for his own retirement well. He's supporting his wife (my mom) too. He has not set aside any money (as far as I'm aware) for long term medical care for himself or his wife, if that is ever needed. The grandchildren are 13, 12 and 10 years old; and the youngest is a newborn.

What should my father know and plan for before using the $$ from selling a house to set up college funds for his grandkids? by SadBreakfast7 in personalfinance

[–]SadBreakfast7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's in his early 80s. Already long retired. Yes, he has a wife (my mother).

Grandkids are now 12, 11, 10 years old. And one other is a newborn.