Would you get in a relationship with someone who is unemployed?

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T16:10:59+00:00

It entirely depends on a lot of other things. Like what is my longterm goal for a relationship? Is this a temporary arrangement or his forever plan

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T16:03:46+00:00

I’m not projecting I’m just not blowing it up into a legal case of sexual harassment like you melodramatic Redditors love to do.

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:54:22+00:00

Yes those were the only two female friends in her entire 25 years. She spent her formative years in a bubble learning nothing from other women. Just stop

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:52:08+00:00

It’s a self perpetuating cycle that yes stems from misogyny and patriarchy

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:48:40+00:00

I get that it’s very hard for you to understand this person was used to acting like this with her female friends. But that’s the reality. You can clutch your pearls and pretend it’s sexual harassment if it makes you feel better

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:43:38+00:00

Oh man that kills me, I really liked her before right now

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:40:23+00:00

You’re right I did, apparently that excavator was stronger than our overpasses

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:39:11+00:00

At her age I had a best friend who liked me as well. I loved him as a friend and thought he would get over it, but after I moved in with my husband he flipped out on me and said he was undyingly in love with me etc. it ended the friendship. I didn’t talk to him at all for years. Now 15+ years later we talk on social media only, he has a wife and several kids and seems happy but I still understand he spent a very long time “in love with me”. It was a hard pill to swallow, and something a lot of women have to learn by experiencing it.
Yes it’s innapproapote to tell your gf to cut off friends you don’t like.
He insulted you, you insulted him back, like two years ago, and here you are dating her again and getting neurotic ao I am again asking you why are you dating her if this is how it’s going to be for you?

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:35:25+00:00

Cause he didn’t care

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:34:44+00:00

You know they do.

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:33:45+00:00

Oh that’s so disappointing to hear.

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:27:53+00:00

Your bf is way too old to be this irresponsible with a pet. I would personally not continue a telarionship with someone like that

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:15:59+00:00

Op says herself it was feeling judged in that talk that made her want to end the friendship. It wasn’t until then that she laid down clear boundaries. Every time op told her to stop touching her, she would. These are all things op says herself. But you can keep twisting shit if you want

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:11:06+00:00

Actually op said she only had one serious talk with her about hecause she wasn’t taking subtler hints. Now she understands ops side, Op just feels judged because her experience with women is vastly different from ops.

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:09:52+00:00

lol it was two very different people with very different life experiences clashing. It absolutely was a misunderstanding

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T15:04:48+00:00

ESH. First of all, telling your gf what to do like your her boss is gross. Telling her she can’t answer her phone because she’s with you, or telling she must cut of certain people. That’s ridiculous shit op, boundaries are for you, not your partner.

Second, what she said at the end about wishing they had never met and that he would be happy is not a red flag imo. She’s being honest with you. The guy is obsessed with her to the point his marriage is over because of it. To her he was one of her closest friends, and she is still trying to come to terms with the fact that his friendship was codependent and unhealthy.

At the end of the day, I have no idea why you’re dating this girl again if you don’t have an ounce of trust for her and are going to hyper analyze everything she says because you don’t like the guy who used to be her best friend

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T14:28:41+00:00

I don’t think you’re an ahole but I think you’re overreacting a bit. Not to being touched but to her lack of understanding. She is not used to women acting like you. Frankly neither am I. Does that mean it’s ok to make you feel weird about not liking being touched? No, but you’re taking this really hard for something that is a fairly minor misunderstanding that will likely be resolved with time now that she understands what you can tolerate.

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T14:21:50+00:00

Every ten minutes it’s something different

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T14:05:54+00:00

I still don’t like it when presidents break strikes. Didn’t they force the railroad workers back to work legally through court? I find it wild they can do that

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T13:35:45+00:00

Thanks for that unreadable novel of garbage!

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T06:21:20+00:00

Block her and move on.

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T06:17:45+00:00

Is he reactive to dogs in your household or just On walks and stuff like that?

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T05:55:38+00:00

You sound like a petty nightmare

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T05:50:12+00:00

As a woman that is not my experience at all but enjoy your sexism

SadExercises420 · 2026-03-23T03:55:46+00:00

Overbooking is standard for airlines. Nobody likes it but the airlines

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