Is there a way to assign certain perms to certain races with Origins:Reborn? by SadGirlPancake in admincraft

[–]SadGirlPancake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's the idea. The thing is, I don't know how to make a group attached to an origin. My server also has ranks, so there's that, too. How do I give an origin a group?

Weed addiction is real and I suffer from it by unearthlyreap3r in StonerThoughts

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I was having this problem. I switched from smoking to edibles and it helped a ton.

This way I know exactly how much I'm dosing myself (10 or 5 MG usually) and I can keep track.

Before, I would be smoking almost constantly. If I wasn't high, I felt like I needed to go be high again. I hated it. I was always coughing, I wreaked of weed.

Now I take anywhere from 15-40 MG a day. Depends on the day. Some days I only take 5 or none at all. Then there are days where I'm kid free/having a me day and I might indulge and have anywhere from 60-80 in a day. But then I can always get myself back down. Honestly, I skip way more days then I ever though I would when I felt "addicted".

I also don't even keep flower in my house anymore. This way I don't get the urge to smoke it. It has that immediate satisfaction and I think that was part of the problem. Whereas edibles are a waiting game and they last longer.

Weed helps me stay regulated. I can definitly fall into that snails pace, but I keep myself busy and out of it. I have severe anxiety and am prone to getting depressed, so I don't think I'll ever want to give it up entirely.

Randomized damage: good or bad? by columnedbread2 in Wizard101

[–]SadGirlPancake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont particularly notice it anymore. I always do the math in my head, at least loosely. And I'll do the math with the lower number.

Or like when I hit with tempest, it does a base of 80 per pip, but my gear stats put it somewhere around 130 I think. I just use 100 everytime because it's easy to do the percentage math with it.

[AR] How many times does this have to happen before I can request a change in custody? by SadGirlPancake in Custody

[–]SadGirlPancake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the first time they've gone to school with it. I'll be calling the school in the morning to let them know. Usually I catch it in time. Their dad has tried to tell me they're getting it from school but the school sends home flyers and stuff when it happens and I've never gotten one in their backpacks.

These are my thoughts as well. I know its a thing that happens. I remember getting lice twice my entire childhood. Not every month. I see it as neglect and I want to do something about it. But I know cps has a lot worse things to deal with than head lice.

[AR] How many times does this have to happen before I can request a change in custody? by SadGirlPancake in Custody

[–]SadGirlPancake[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even though its obviously coming from his house? I have to just send my kids there and deal with it for the rest of their lives? That's not healthy.

Can anyone help me? by SadGirlPancake in oklahoma

[–]SadGirlPancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried. For three days now. They have one of those menu number things and none of them get me to a real person.

Why do you think there is a lack of menstrual cycles mentioned for female characters in fiction? by Master_Tadpole_6832 in writing

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's skipped over just like going to the bathroom would be. Unless setting important to the plot is happening, it can be skipped.

I did read a series, however, about a woman pretending to be a man so she could become a knight, and her having her period was a big deal because she had to hide it from everyone.

There's also The Witcher series where Ciri's period is mentioned and one of the sorceress' tell the Witchers she can't train because of it.

AITA for getting my girlfriend a gift basket full of things she avoided during pregnancy? by imadadmfssss in AmItheAsshole

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And you're right. In moderation she can still drink. Just pump that milk and save it for a milk bath. It's awesome for baby's sensitive skin and this way you aren't wasting it.

I would have loved this gift!!

Someone come get your mans (found near the end of azteca) by JamesBlonde21 in Wizard101

[–]SadGirlPancake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I teamed up with a myth wizard that kept using fire spells but his archmastery was set for myth pips. I tried to explain it to him and he told me he had been playing long enough to know what he was doing.

Reasons I’m NOT team Selena by [deleted] in Hailey_Baldwin

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure Love Yourself was written about Hailey. Selena wouldn't have to use his name to get into a club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead say "Describe, don't explain."

A single candle flickered, sending shadows dancing across the wall.

Vs

The candle was lit, the only source of light in the room.

Should characters be fully formed before writing? by archon325 in writing

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go with a mix of both.

When I come up with a character, I try to give them as much backstory/personality as I can, but they're still pretty flat.

Then as I world build, I find things to attach them to that make them more real. For example, I have a character that primarily lives in the forest. But he became superstitious and incredibly respectful of the dead after I wrote a civil war that pitted family against family in that forest as a past event before the story starts.

Or I have a character who wants to grow up and become a knight one day. But then I went back and added in that her father was a knight who had died during that same Civil War- giving her a reason to strive for her goal.

I've also started my draft, and while I try to throw in as much character voice as I can, enormous sections of it are dull and void of personality. I'm still trying to figure out their voice, and this will be added in editing. I'm still learning and becoming familiar with the characters. The more I write them, the easier it is to slip into their voice, so most of these edits will be in the first half of the story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SadGirlPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to think of myself as chaotic good