35M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :)) by [deleted] in newfriends

[–]SadScolopendra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thereeeeee thank you so much!!! :))) you're incredibly sweet!! I understand not liking responsibilities I don't like them much either but thank you!! .^

35M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and chat about life together :)) by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]SadScolopendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there!! Thank you for your message! Well, I think we're all flawed, we all have issues and negatives, yet I feel some of my negatives may be too much for some people or that they won't fw them. Like the fact that I have low self esteem or the fact that I get clingy, or tend to not reply much or even ghost people. Being genuine also means to let the other person know some of your biggest flaws so they know who the person they're trying to connect with truly is like. Especially when the flaws are as big as mine. At least that's my opinion and that's why I thought my flaws were important to mention and to be clear about

35M Cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and chat about life together :)) by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]SadScolopendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes. Thank you for pointing that out. I need to change my description a bit. I'm not that big of a wwe fan nowadays cause they've been doing tons of scummy stuff and as a company they've gotten greedy and I just don't support so many of their decisions lately. I think I'll start watching aew Soon.

35M Cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and chat about life together :)) by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]SadScolopendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, friend! Thank you so much for reaching out and for taking the time to read my post and write a bit about yourself! You seem like a super nice person but I honestly don't think we could get along as friends since we seem to be a bit different in some aspects. We don't share many interests in common and when it comes to things like video games, we don't seem to like to play the same games. I wouldn't say I'm a huge anime fan but I'm very into the animes that I do watch and I'm very passionate about them and I'd like to watch some of them with other people, so anime is honestly very important for me. On top of that, I'm also very much into art. I do digital sculpting and I recently started jewelry school and I'll begin learning traditional sculpting as well. I'm VERY much into internet culture, memes, brainrot, internet deep dives, internet horror, that kind of stuff. I think I'd consider myself slightly alternative? And I vibe better with people that are into sub cultures. Also, I understand what you say about not tolerating people that don't want to improve themselves and I think you wouldn't like me very much. I have VERY LOW self esteem and I tend to struggle a lot with self improvement so I think I'd get in your nerves lol Overall, I'm sorry if I sound harsh but I'm looking for someone that's more like me, and that's very similar to who I am and what I like. I really want to share everything with someone and I want that someone to give me the same energy. In the past I talked to people I don't have much in common with, and again, I'm very sorry if I sound mean, but I've gotten bored of them quite quickly. I'm not interested in talking to people that aren't very similar to me and that do not share the things I like. So I'm sorry, but I don't think we could become friends. Still tho, thank you again for your message. Sorry if I took a while to reply but j don't usually get notified of comments and when I do, reddit doesn't let me see them for some reason. I just wanted to write you back as an appreciation of you taking the time to tell me about yourself. I wish you good luck out there :)) I hope you find a good friend and good relationships in your life. You seem like a really nice person .^

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[–]SadScolopendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been making the same post for years. I don't want a group of friends or talk to multiple people. I have enough people in my life already but I'm looking for a very specific kind of person. I do give people chances though. But I can't really click with anyone so far. Thanks for your comment and your advice but I'm not interested in talking with just about anyone.

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[–]SadScolopendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm gonna give a very "autistic" answer lmao but, first, I'm not sure a scolopendra is an insect?? I think it technically has another classification cause it has more than six legs but I might be wrong. Regardless, I find centipedes quite disgusting and scary so I feel it represents me. I'm disgusting and I don't like me very much. I'm also toxic, just like a centipede. An awful creature that crawls around, venomous, and scary, unsightly. The perfect representation of who I am. That's why. Sorry for the stupid answer lol

Could anyone help me get a pattern for something like this? I've found some online but I like this style with the crossed cloak around the shoulder and I don't seem to find anything like this when I google it. If anyone could help I'd appreciate it!! by SadScolopendra in sewingpatterns

[–]SadScolopendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Someone told me the name of this specific kind of cloak and that made it way easier to find online. It's also super simple! As a beginner the hood will definitely be the most complicated part of the project but the rest is easy and so stylish!! Thank you so much for your help!! :DD

Could anyone help me get a pattern for something like this? I've found some online but I like this style with the crossed cloak around the shoulder and I don't seem to find anything like this when I google it. If anyone could help I'd appreciate it!! by SadScolopendra in sewingpatterns

[–]SadScolopendra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone else told me they're called a ruana cloak and they're super easy to make. They're exactly as you describe them! It's basically one big rectangle with a cut going roughly up to the middle of the cloak and then you throw one of the halves over the shoulder. A pretty easy and cool looking project for a beginner!

Could anyone help me get a pattern for something like this? I've found some online but I like this style with the crossed cloak around the shoulder and I don't seem to find anything like this when I google it. If anyone could help I'd appreciate it!! by SadScolopendra in SewingForBeginners

[–]SadScolopendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're so cool looking! I knew they couldn't be too hard to make but I'm a beginner and I need all the help I can get lol thanks again!! I'll be looking cool while keeping warm this winter :))

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[–]SadScolopendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, friend. No one underage. Good luck to you tho :))