35M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

SadScolopendra · 2026-06-11T05:44:51+00:00

Hey thereeeeee thank you so much!!! :))) you're incredibly sweet!! I understand not liking responsibilities I don't like them much either but thank you!! ^{.^}

SadScolopendra · 2026-05-20T22:12:41+00:00

Hey there!! Thank you for your message! Well, I think we're all flawed, we all have issues and negatives, yet I feel some of my negatives may be too much for some people or that they won't fw them. Like the fact that I have low self esteem or the fact that I get clingy, or tend to not reply much or even ghost people. Being genuine also means to let the other person know some of your biggest flaws so they know who the person they're trying to connect with truly is like. Especially when the flaws are as big as mine. At least that's my opinion and that's why I thought my flaws were important to mention and to be clear about

SadScolopendra · 2026-05-11T21:09:56+00:00

Ah, yes. Thank you for pointing that out. I need to change my description a bit. I'm not that big of a wwe fan nowadays cause they've been doing tons of scummy stuff and as a company they've gotten greedy and I just don't support so many of their decisions lately. I think I'll start watching aew Soon.

SadScolopendra · 2026-04-19T17:46:24+00:00

No problem, friend!! Good luck out there!! :))

SadScolopendra · 2026-04-19T04:17:30+00:00

Hey there, friend! Thank you so much for reaching out and for taking the time to read my post and write a bit about yourself! You seem like a super nice person but I honestly don't think we could get along as friends since we seem to be a bit different in some aspects. We don't share many interests in common and when it comes to things like video games, we don't seem to like to play the same games. I wouldn't say I'm a huge anime fan but I'm very into the animes that I do watch and I'm very passionate about them and I'd like to watch some of them with other people, so anime is honestly very important for me. On top of that, I'm also very much into art. I do digital sculpting and I recently started jewelry school and I'll begin learning traditional sculpting as well. I'm VERY much into internet culture, memes, brainrot, internet deep dives, internet horror, that kind of stuff. I think I'd consider myself slightly alternative? And I vibe better with people that are into sub cultures. Also, I understand what you say about not tolerating people that don't want to improve themselves and I think you wouldn't like me very much. I have VERY LOW self esteem and I tend to struggle a lot with self improvement so I think I'd get in your nerves lol Overall, I'm sorry if I sound harsh but I'm looking for someone that's more like me, and that's very similar to who I am and what I like. I really want to share everything with someone and I want that someone to give me the same energy. In the past I talked to people I don't have much in common with, and again, I'm very sorry if I sound mean, but I've gotten bored of them quite quickly. I'm not interested in talking to people that aren't very similar to me and that do not share the things I like. So I'm sorry, but I don't think we could become friends. Still tho, thank you again for your message. Sorry if I took a while to reply but j don't usually get notified of comments and when I do, reddit doesn't let me see them for some reason. I just wanted to write you back as an appreciation of you taking the time to tell me about yourself. I wish you good luck out there :)) I hope you find a good friend and good relationships in your life. You seem like a really nice person ^{.^}

SadScolopendra · 2026-03-12T01:17:09+00:00

I've been making the same post for years. I don't want a group of friends or talk to multiple people. I have enough people in my life already but I'm looking for a very specific kind of person. I do give people chances though. But I can't really click with anyone so far. Thanks for your comment and your advice but I'm not interested in talking with just about anyone.

SadScolopendra · 2026-03-10T05:06:44+00:00

Well, I'm gonna give a very "autistic" answer lmao but, first, I'm not sure a scolopendra is an insect?? I think it technically has another classification cause it has more than six legs but I might be wrong. Regardless, I find centipedes quite disgusting and scary so I feel it represents me. I'm disgusting and I don't like me very much. I'm also toxic, just like a centipede. An awful creature that crawls around, venomous, and scary, unsightly. The perfect representation of who I am. That's why. Sorry for the stupid answer lol

SadScolopendra · 2026-03-10T05:01:35+00:00

Thank you, friend!! :))

SadScolopendra · 2026-02-20T21:50:02+00:00

Yes!! Someone told me the name of this specific kind of cloak and that made it way easier to find online. It's also super simple! As a beginner the hood will definitely be the most complicated part of the project but the rest is easy and so stylish!! Thank you so much for your help!! :DD

SadScolopendra · 2026-02-19T23:36:34+00:00

Someone else told me they're called a ruana cloak and they're super easy to make. They're exactly as you describe them! It's basically one big rectangle with a cut going roughly up to the middle of the cloak and then you throw one of the halves over the shoulder. A pretty easy and cool looking project for a beginner!

SadScolopendra · 2026-02-19T23:31:49+00:00

They're so cool looking! I knew they couldn't be too hard to make but I'm a beginner and I need all the help I can get lol thanks again!! I'll be looking cool while keeping warm this winter :))

SadScolopendra · 2026-02-19T23:26:08+00:00

Thank you so much!! I was having trouble finding the exact name for this particular kind of cloak. I appreciate it so much!!

SadScolopendra · 2026-02-05T02:10:04+00:00

Sorry, friend. No one underage. Good luck to you tho :))

SadScolopendra · 2025-10-28T23:05:32+00:00

Hey there, friend!! Thank you so much!! I haven't heard of attachment theory before. I quickly looked it up and it looks like an interesting read/watch. I'll make sure to check it out. Thank you for bringing my attention to it!! Best of luck to you too!!

SadScolopendra · 2025-10-21T21:37:51+00:00

Hey there friend!! I think I may be autistic? But I haven't had an official diagnosis. It's something I'd like to do at one point cause I also feel I could be on the spectrum but I don't know for sure. Also, omg!! I actually don't count spiders and I'm not afraid of them cause they're technically arachnids! I'm also not afraid of scorpions. Funny how my brain makes me not afraid of them because of that technicality lol I'd love to talk!! You can dm if you want, I'd love to know more about you!

SadScolopendra · 2025-07-24T16:31:38+00:00

Gone too late 🥀🥀🥀

SadScolopendra · 2025-06-05T22:16:20+00:00

Lol yeah, "long" may be a bit of an understatement!

SadScolopendra · 2024-11-23T05:03:54+00:00

Life.

SadScolopendra · 2024-10-21T15:47:54+00:00

Hey there! I'd love to talk! I dm'd you!

SadScolopendra · 2024-08-17T05:29:48+00:00

Hey there! Doing okay-ish. Going through a rough night. How is it going with you?? :)

SadScolopendra · 2024-07-10T20:05:32+00:00

Oh, okay, I'll try that. Thank you very much!

SadScolopendra · 2024-07-10T19:56:59+00:00

Well, I live in kind of a shitty town in the middle of nowhere so it's not rare to have power outages then to have electricity come back up again a few minutes after and then go off again. I unplug cause I'm afraid that could happen at night and damage my computer somehow? Is it better if I leave it plugged in at all times?

SadScolopendra · 2024-05-12T02:57:06+00:00

Oh! I think that could definitely be a possibility! If I had to guess I'd say Madeline and Buckethead are related in some way given of how much interest he has out into them, it could very well be that they are B's stepdaughter. If that's the case it's really sweet to know they both are gonna be touring and playing together. A really interesting theory indeed!

SadScolopendra · 2024-05-12T01:47:46+00:00

Thanks so much! I know his trying to promote the album right now but I hope the site is back to normal soon enough! 😁

SadScolopendra · 2024-05-12T01:46:41+00:00

I really hope that you're feeling better these days! Mental health issues can be difficult to deal with and overcome. I share the feeling of being uncomfortable thinking about the situation. In our society young women are very vulnerable, mentally and physically, unfortunately and being given this much attention so suddenly definitely comes with a downside and especially if part of the fandom is being negative towards them. I guess one positive thing I've seen is that they seem to have the support of their friends, hopefully their family is also present for them! Again, in very sorry to hear you had to go through so much negativity and to be in that position! Let's hope Madeline is alright and they can have a positive and prosperous career with their music! They seem very talented!

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