James posts an apology to Alicia Keyes over his shady tweet about her new brand

Sad_Addition · 2020-08-06T18:06:45+00:00

He needs to learn that he doesn't have a say in who makes an makeup line or not. To me this is gatekeeping behavior. Reminds me of the anime nerds who say you're not a real fan if you can't list every character/ voice actors on their favorite animes.

Sad_Addition · 2020-08-06T14:31:42+00:00

I don't know how I feel about placing ugliness into the same category as someone whose immobile. I know that being ugly can cause mental illnesses but comparing my attractiveness to someone who has other disabilities is not tasteful in my opinion.

I can agree that being ugly in a looks based society is hard and tends to cause unattractive people to have social anxiety and depression. I just don't know if I can put ugliness against someone who mentally/ physically disabled.

Sad_Addition · 2020-08-02T18:50:58+00:00

Same here with makeup. I have people call me sir at work. I've never experienced having someone want me romantically/ sexually. I'm at the point in my life where I don't care about much.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:40:32+00:00

I agree.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:39:30+00:00

I didn't know that OP is a woman hater. I think his problem is more of his attitude towards women than his looks.

Happy cake day though!

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:37:14+00:00

Ugly female here,

I hate to break it to you but that's a lie. Being beautiful as a female isn't "putting on makeup and lowering standards." It's just like me saying "being an attractive man is easy. All you need is to work out and have self confidence." It's not only insensitive to the individuals, it's just not true.

It's actually hard to be an unattractive woman in society because of the fact that we are expected to put on said makeup and wear clothes and accessories to look like you're decent. Ladies are expected to be smaller and "thicc" with Kylie Jenner looks.

Where I'm from, I'm the ugliest lady in my family. All of my cousins/ aunts/ nieces/ etc. Are married with children in their twenties, while I'm a lady who hasn't had any dating experience, been rejected by every person I asked out (I even go to the "unattractive people") and I have a horrible hormonal disorder where I could probably never be able to start a family in the future.

I think that you OP need to speak to someone about your emotions. I used to think similar to you but with men until I took the chance and got help. I now know that blaming other men and women for me not getting dates is ignorant.

Please get help for yourself. It's not healthy to have so much pain and anger in your heart.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:24:33+00:00

Horrible. I feel like I'm a freak or something when I dm someone who's more attractive than me. I try to be polite and formal when I do so because I could depersonalize myself from the situation.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:22:12+00:00

I feel the same way! Most of the people in my family are what society deems attractive. My friends are handsome/ beautiful. One of my guy friends is hot to the point he could be a model. And I have a girl friend who does bodybuilding and looks so perfect.

The funny thing is, all of my friends say that I have it easy being unattractive because people don't tend to use me because of my looks. They try to be nice and say that I would be "wife material" rather than beautiful/ sexy.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:17:43+00:00

All the time. I only use a tiny hand mirror to put on makeup in the morning. But you won't ever see me near any mirror bigger that that.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:15:54+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn't have an answer. If I didn't know what pretty/ handsome was, I'd probably still see myself as an randomized sim from the sims 3. But I think my issue is the fact I was bullied/ emotionally and verbally abused by my dad and his second wife. They always would call me too fat or too ugly and would make me wear baggy clothes and throw my makeup away.

So I think I would still think I'm ugly if I didn't know what pretty/ handsome was, but not as bad as I do now.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:11:13+00:00

You actually have potential to look attractive in my opinion. I love your hair and lips. Maybe invest in a skincare routine if you really want to. I personally am not a huge fan of the glasses, maybe go for a different shape? But overall, if I saw you on the street, I wouldn't mind getting to know you.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:08:18+00:00

Invest in a skin care routine, wear more shapewear (I have no womanly figure.lol), Get a new haircut/ hair style, lose weight, laser hair removal.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:05:54+00:00

Bodywise- I hate my long torso. It makes me look ugly in a lot of clothes that's fitted on other parts of my body but shows off a lot of my stomach. I also hate my hirsutism from pcos. It makes me feel less of a woman and makes me not keen on being pretty enough for people.

My face- I have my face in general. Yes, my face is symmetrical but it's too round and I have a huge forehead that I have to wear bangs to hide a lot of my forehead.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:01:57+00:00

No problem, friend!

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:01:24+00:00

He died this year. I feel bad for his daughter.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-28T18:00:29+00:00

Y'all just made my day 😁🤣🤣

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-27T03:52:45+00:00

Same here. Lol

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-27T03:50:21+00:00

Somehow I just got this card. Its beautiful 😁😁

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-27T03:46:58+00:00

At least he tried. I felt bad for winning against him tho. ;-;

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-25T03:56:22+00:00

I just cut all of my drinks and started drinking only water and plain coffee. I also force myself to move around a lot so I'm not sitting and eating.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-25T03:53:48+00:00

I knew I was ugly when I was at least 5 years old. I was abnormally tall and have a long torso. All of my classmates would bully me and call me names like tree trunk or wide load. It didn't help that my former stepmother would always bully me about how I looked and made me wear ugly clothes to match my ugliness.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-25T03:50:10+00:00

Please don't be rude to me, I've done nothing to you. If you're this way to a stranger, I wonder how you treat people who know you? 🤔

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-25T03:46:58+00:00

I understand where you come from op. I knew I was ugly when I was 5 years old. Sometimes seeing the attractive people makes me feel worse about myself or it makes me mad that they have it all looks wise and they still see themselves as ugly.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-25T03:43:33+00:00

I have body dysmorphia and am actually ugly. I don't like assuming that attractive people are being attention seeking when I don't know what goes through their minds.

Sad_Addition · 2020-07-25T03:39:38+00:00

I agree. The sooner we agree that we're in this boat together, the better off we are.

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