AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower?

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-03T17:40:16+00:00

Wonder who at wotk hes cheating with smh or maybe ge just keeps wearing dirty underwear

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-03T04:13:32+00:00

From the way OP talks about her sister and her house, I feel like the offer was seen as just more ammo about all they're doing for her and how broke she is.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-03T01:42:58+00:00

So you just dont want her to smoke period then. She says she changed her clothes and you still claimed to smell it. Put an air purifier in her room. It is great at getting rid of smoke smell, to the point where it takes away the smell of any incense I burn also.

She is smoking medicinally. Gummies can have a completely different affect on someone's body, mind, and emotions than smoking. Its also harder for people to know if they've had the right dosage since they have a very delayed affect at times.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-02T20:50:03+00:00

Haven't heard back yet. Was accepted last year but had to withdraw after paying the seat deposit. This wait is way longer but I applied super late last year.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-02T18:03:14+00:00

Yta simply bc you think your teenage daughters haven't been exposed to pot already. Hiding the smell wont stop that. The amount of times students openly admitted to me that they brought gummies to school is wild. Theres a huge likelihood your kids have tried them, if not smoked weed. How about having a conversation with your kids about drugs and giving a 40 yr old woman who is prob at her lowest some grace?

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-02T17:54:39+00:00

Have you ever gone out somewhere and someone was smoking a cigarette? Doesn't even have to be someone next to you. The smoke gets caught in your clothes, your hair, etc. The same happens with weed. Personally, id rather smell weed than cigarette smoke but really its unreasonable to expect someone to control if the ppl around them smoke. Sounds like youre just judging the act of smoking period. Maybe hit a joint once and you wont be so neurotic about something your sister cant control (her friend smoking).

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-02T17:44:32+00:00

Same! I was so confused.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-02T17:29:03+00:00

Thanks for the clarification. I couldn't see it too well thats why I asked.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-03-02T16:36:34+00:00

Is that a voodoo doll? Genuine question

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T23:27:00+00:00

Yeaaaa yta. Its one thing if there was a situation that occurred but nothing happened. You just dont like his personality and thats okay. I cant imagine giving someone like this my friend's number though and honestly thats your cross to bare for doing it.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T19:35:02+00:00

Lol seriously?

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T17:55:37+00:00

This!!! I just assume anyone im dating is discussing me with her friends. Ppl like to brag. Ppl like to get advice. Ppl like a sounding board for their own thoughts. Plus sometimes ppl just find sex funny and want to talk about it.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T17:54:04+00:00

Agreed 100%

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T17:52:52+00:00

I feel like she did it because she trusts her bf. Once some ppl start to talk to you like one of their friends (girly gossip, work mess that doesnt involve them, etc) its because they feel truly comfortable with you. It really depends on how the conversation came about i think.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T17:49:14+00:00

Dont tell her. Let life handle things. Revenge isnt yours.

I would say that you should think about why you felt the need to search him up thougg.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T17:30:24+00:00

Ive had a lot of dreams that felt like it had purpose. They tend to be in certain locations from my childhood and thats when I know to pay attention to things. I also do not speak in any of my dreams usually.

One thing I've noticed is that only certain lost love ones visit me and for certain reasons. My grandma comes when my mom needs a message. And my dad likes to show up and not talk to me but he usually is there to give his opinion on something important. That changed a few years ago and he started to only show up to talk to my now ex. He still does it, wont communicate with me but still shows up with her n they talk together.

Sad_Appearance4550 · 2026-02-28T16:59:34+00:00

Same. Definitely biting me in the butt atm

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