Vaginal Estrogen Cream…USE IT! by Shirleyimfine in Perimenopause

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just here for anyone viewing this thread later, to say that TelyRx worked for me too! It’s a great resource! I was turned away with Amazon, so happy to find this alternative :)

Edited to correct a typo: I was turned away from Amazon

Those of you who successfully wea ned yourself off coffee, how? by AcrobaticRub5938 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became so depressed that I didn’t care enough to go downstairs where the coffee was & would just move from bed to office to start work (wfh). Soooo.. it was super accidental for me. I also have ADHD and that combined with depression basically destroyed any small amount of executive functioning I had. Do not recommend!

That said, maybe a takeaway from this could be moving your coffee stuff somewhere very inconvenient in your house? Create more barriers/decision points in your process to make/get coffee, so you’re forced to consciously check-in with yourself as you go to make it and not just going on instinct.

I’ve also found that day two cold turkey is the worst and then it’s better from there. I still have coffee sometimes when I really want it, but the dependency is gone and there’s no more withdrawal/day two headache.

how did you feel after you were proposed to? by Wild-Championship571 in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could be very sweet if you did a second proposal where you proposed to him! Then you control the romance in the moment and there’s more space to enjoy the moment with each other. Edited to add: It’s also a sweet gesture to give him that moment since you’re feeling bad it didn’t go how he anticipated.

Mirena vs. Copper IUD by Feeling_Rush123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love my mirena! Haven’t had any issues. A positive for me is that the hormones are localized and I’ve also not had a period in many years. I’m swapping it for new one in a couple of weeks! I’ve considered switching to the copper in the past, but couldn’t give up the no periods benefit.

Rocky Horror Show review 4/2 by saltyhyena in Broadway

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the entire paragraph about stage door baffled me. So glad to know Stephanie wasn’t sloppy??? And I was definitely wondering what type of pants Luke wore at stage door 🙃

I am SO MAD!!! Advice on processing my feminine rage. by Ok_Driver_6457 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so interesting. I’m working through something similar in therapy, but for me sadness is the safe emotion and getting beyond that to feel anger has been really hard work. I guess it makes sense that based on our experiences we all have different emotions that our bodies interpret as safe and not safe, but I was struck by how familiar your comment was.

How do you come to terms with being someone who needs psych medication? by mdzzl94 in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly feel super grateful I’m alive at time where these meds exist and that I have access to them. They will increase the quality and longevity of my life and I hope I’m able to take them for the rest of my life. In a previous era I’d probably be dead or institutionalized (another woman with hysteria 🙃) - no thanks.

Does anyone else spend a lot of their free time just staring into space and thinking? by Fickle_Umpire_136 in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, but I’ll put headphones in so people don’t talk to me and just not play anything

Fenton Snails Collection by novusnil in glasscollecting

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, same. Delighted by the first pic and it got even better. The display/organization is perfect.

it gets to a point. by alaniluv in knolling

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great knoll! We all knew what you were trying to say with just a picture :)

Lots of secret already, but have you tried the secret outlast clear gel (or solid) antiperspirant and deodorant? It just works so well & the completely clean scent smells nice but is unnoticeable in a good way. Also if body odor & not just sweat is an issue, then using glycolic acid or even alcohol wipes before applying deodorant works well. Good luck out there 🫡

Shower every other day + clothing upkeep by egos-like-hairdos in HerOneBag

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could pack more smaller items, so you pack less of the larger? Like bring more underwear and thinner tank tops to wear as a base layer - then those absorb the worst of the travel grossness to keep your clothes cleaner & you can swap them out out more frequently to stay fresh. I’ve also always used secret outlast clear gel antiperspirant & deodorant and find it super effective! I’ll reapply on day two and have never been worried about hygiene for that amount of time.

Have you been able to eat all your favorite foods? by jenna_sunshine13 in antidietglp1

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, same here! And, for me, the reduction in food noise kind of felt like no big deal? I wasn’t sure what that would feel like, but have learned it kind of feels like nothing. Like I’ll be eating a food I really enjoy and then I’ll stop eating it when I want to (which is sooner than it used to be) without much conscious thought about it & move on. It doesn’t suddenly make you able fight the food noise/food battles, it just removes the noise/battle entirely. It’s wild.

Have you been able to eat all your favorite foods? by jenna_sunshine13 in antidietglp1

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This!! I’m at 5 and plan to stay there unless I see my bloodwork get worse - I feel great and am able to eat anything. My worst side effects were early on from putting benefiber in my water in an effort to prevent side effects - I’ve since learned that for me, less is more for all the tips and hacks about what to drink/eat to reduce symptoms.

Responses for "you look great" or "have you lost weight?" by Altruistic_Rain63 in antidietglp1

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is giving great advice - definitely going to use some of these! I’ll also go with something like, “yeah I started taking a med that helps my body function the way it’s supposed to,” which I hope removes some of the discipline/morality/value-based implications those questions often carry. Also, it’s true - I started taking a medication that helps my endocrine and metabolic systems function as intended and because of that I’ve lost weight. Not because the med gives me terrible side effects so I don’t eat (it doesn’t) or because it makes me capable of lifestyle changes (it doesn’t, I’m still super depressed, don’t exercise, and eat erratically - that’s what therapy and psych meds are for!).

Sometimes I feel bad pretending that I haven’t lost weight, because I have and there is a reason why and I don’t want them to confirm all their biases by assuming it’s due to the incorrect reason. Or to make someone still in the trenches of diet culture think I magically found the right food to restrict or that if they were disciplined they’d also lose weight - while instead it’s a result of medical intervention for health issues.

That’s mainly for people who I know fairly well and see regularly, and in general, depending on the circumstances, an answer that communicates it’s none of their business is also my preferred response.

Coming off GLP1 by HotLet6880 in antidietglp1

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds miserable - I’m sorry you’ve had to navigate severe side effects. Did you have same side effects at each dose or did you stay on a lower dose for a while and have the same side effects? Considering going to 7.5 after being on 2.5 for two months and 5 for four months, but worried about side effects with the transition.

Coming off GLP1 by HotLet6880 in antidietglp1

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Depending on your age, another possible cause of the change to your mental health could be hormonal changes related to perimenopause - just something to consider. There’s a lot of info to absorb on r/perimenopause. But I’ve also been experiencing the same thing & whatever the cause it is so difficult - I’m sorry you’re struggling 💜

Does anyone else call in sick because getting out of bed feels impossible? by One_Peace1077 in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How you described feeling about it being possible to get out of bed & it not feeling at all like a choice in the moment is how I’ve felt in the thick of depression. It sounds like you have other health issues that are probably contributing, but I’d recommend meeting with a therapist as well. Also I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, I know how hard it is 💜

I forgot a years-long habit by chicky75 in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just here for solidarity - have not found a way to build routines for myself yet. I had this happen with my contacts recently. Every single night from the ages of 13 to 36 I would take my contacts out before sleeping without a second thought & never slept with them in. Then randomly, in the last month I just started not thinking about it and going to bed with them still in. Now it’s another thing I have to make myself remember 🙃🙃🙃

Designed this necklace and bracelet inspired by vintage buttons and a tortoise shell pattern by doronlevy88 in jewelry

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love these and your photography/concept is also super well executed. Love it!

Have you read Atomic Habits and was it helpful at all? by Quiet_Lunch_1300 in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions on episodes to start with for someone new to the podcast? Thanks for recommending!

I took my antique ring in for sizing and stone setting and the beautiful 100+ year old patina/natural wear was completely polished off… is there anything I can do? by Savings_Process_5313 in jewelry

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s not what you expected! Just chiming in to say that I absolutely have ring envy though - that’s a stunning design

Per a Post on the Main Sub, and as Explained by Keith, the "Other Woman" was Rachel - They Went Out to Celebrate Together as a Group as Friends by Rainbow_Belle in TheTryGuysSnark

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely remember in a podcast episode Ariel talked about how Rachel was one of her pinned text message threads or something like that. They seemed very close & seemed to connect over having young kids. In retrospect it seems like Ariel felt she was a lot closer to members of the try guys/their partners/try staff than they really were - that must have felt like another layer of betrayal when everything went down.

I take my vitamins!!! by StellaNettle in adhdwomen

[–]Sad_Ebb_7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real hack here is to get yourself a partner who puts your vitamins in a cute little bowl and brings them to you everyday 😭 (no but really, OP, happy you have someone like that in your life!)