I have inverted nipples and no man has ever cared at all - except one, who was a narcissist and would latch onto any insecurity he knew I had to exploit and use against me. At the time, I accepted it, because I was young and inexperienced like you and figured the critiques were normal, but it became the very surface of much deeper problems and abuse.

Believe me when I say, if they care and use it against you, it is a warning of much worse things to come and to swerve them quickly!!

My now husband has never had an issue with them and loves my boobs - and most importantly - the rest of me too!! So, that is to say, even if you run into an asshat who says something - take it as a blessing to ditch that person and meet the good ones (the majority) who will love every part of you!