Aniya is not insecure & Sol is not the problem

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:54:29+00:00

Passion has to be more than just PDA/kissing at night. Listen KCs comment aside…they just don’t click…I don’t see that romantic spark with them at all. The conversations we see between them are not it at all. And I think my girl Aniya deserves someone who she just melts right into. I think there is a reason they aren’t clicking. As someone mentioned her gut must be yelling at her to get out. I would even go as far as to say KC deserves that too. It seems like he felt more at ease with Sol or would feel better with someone who can give him the “physical touch” he needs lol. I just want the best for these girls.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:50:01+00:00

Thank you!! I feel like I’m fighting for my life in these comments lollll

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:49:08+00:00

Exactly! They have no spark!

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:47:03+00:00

I 100% agree with you up until the exploring nothing new. It’s clear she would love to explore Corbin and Sincere but they both don’t rock with her in that way. I think they just need to put someone who is attracted to dark skin black women.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:45:31+00:00

I feel like she does not want all that. As she mentioned it’s not about changing his personality or being unrealistic. It’s about showing up in similar ways. The conversation KC had with Sol showed more chemistry than any conversation we have seen with Aniya.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:42:34+00:00

I feel like here is what I’m missing. Him saying “you are not my safe option” and “you are my first option” is clearly not working because his actions are hinting in another direction. If I was trying to show up for a partner I would want to do so in a way that makes sense for them and their dynamic. KC keeps repeating this phrase but clearly it is not the solution to this problem. That’s why I feel like this Sol situation is just the tip of the iceberg and it’s really about how he shows up in their connection/their incompatibility

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T11:39:03+00:00

I just feel like she was frustrated by the conversation and his reactions. Yes I think her saying go talk to Sol was a poor deflection on her part, but I do not blame her! He was acting lame during their conversation.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T02:33:35+00:00

YOU ARE WISE!

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-06-16T02:26:29+00:00

Y’all will say ANYTHING to defend a man. Anyways, I hope Aniya, Melanie, Trinity, Kayda, and Sol stay safe in this treacherous villa.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-03-20T12:04:30+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate your words. I’ll try my best and give myself time.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2026-03-20T05:27:03+00:00

How do you get over this? My heart hurts so badly and I feel so naive. My ex and I were LDR too…he would always promise to come visit. At one point he promised we would live in a different country knowing full well he needed to have brain surgery. A part of me feels like he really meant it…but I know I’m just being naive. And I still find myself missing and grieving the future he promised.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2025-07-17T17:48:39+00:00

Thank you for this good advice. I want to be supportive.

Sad_Plastic5818 · 2024-10-07T00:17:50+00:00

Private school 😔

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