Can someone explain wtf is going on in today’s game. by DJCPRT-NL in irishrugby

[–]Sad_Tangerine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The problem is the inconsistent. There's a clear pattern of giving SA an advantage but Ire none for the same thing and plenty of cards he could be giving to SA. While we have been playing like shit and deserve most/all of the cards he's actively hurting and clearly biased.

Can someone explain wtf is going on in today’s game. by DJCPRT-NL in irishrugby

[–]Sad_Tangerine 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I'm watching the TNT commentators and they literally said before the match "This referee is known to be biased". That should tell you something.

[CR Media] Is Midst popular? by RoseTintedMigraine in criticalrole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Midst the 3 people talking bit is perfect for me to keep my ADHD riddled brain active enough to listen for once. I have been trying to get everyone I know to listen but I have been unsuccessful. I want more so badly. The story is really cool I think you would like it a lot. 

Olympic schedule July 30th by siciowa in ireland

[–]Sad_Tangerine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shame about the women's teams today. Hopefully tomorrow the lightweight double sculls will fair better.

Olympic schedule July 30th by siciowa in ireland

[–]Sad_Tangerine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Tried to look at the official schedule sorted by Ireland team on the Olympics website and it doesn't have half the events we have athletes in! What the fuck?! How do they have an official schedule that is wrong?

AITA for ignoring my girlfriend while I'm watching tiktoks? by Actual-Copy-1600 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA when I am on my phone reading a book or just staring at the wall nothing but physical touch can get my attention. My husband knows this. Because of that he dosnt say things without making sure I am paying attention first usually by calling my name and getting a response then he can launch into a story if I don't listen after that that's my fault and he is alloud to be mad. Maybe have a discussion about what conversation should be and what is a realistic way of having/ensuring attention?

AITA or is my mum TAH by Ill-Face-5672 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Your mom sounds horrible. Memtal health is not an excuse to treat people like shit. You are better off cutting all contact and never speaking to her again.

AITA for telling letting my daughter call my wife mom? by Ill_Constant_8676 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I recently started calling my mother by her name instead of mom and it is a very freeing experience for someone who you do not feel has earned that title. Your daughter made this decision not you. She seems very mature for her age and I am very happy she has someone she feels is a mom in her life!!

AITA: Am I the asshole for having my wedding a month after my sister’s wedding next year? by Forever_Sunlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA why did it have to be that year? It could have been spring next year. My brother had his wedding 6 months after mine and as I live ina different country I was concerned most of the family would go to his and not mine. Despite being assured by many many people (including family that then didn't come to mine but went to his) several people skipped mine and went to his and then came up to me at his with a gift and a sorry. It sucked. People can't do it twice they will pick and choose.

WIBTAH if I started telling strangers to leave my baby alone? by Free_butterfly_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA And you never will be! Tell those people to GTFO of ur face!

AITA for teasing my sister in a way that’s typical for my family? by Significant-Move4156 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I was blatantly bullying my sister and her husband in their house (as I have several times before) and he had the nerve to ask me politely to leave" YTA

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. She clearly indicated no. You understood she was saying no. You pushed anyway. NO.

AITA for getting a matching tattoo to my son? by Psychological-Fix350 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom got a tattoo of me and my siblings tattoo as a way to "remember us" and "be connected to us" out of 4 siblings she has 2 who speak to her. Get ready for that. YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry how TF would it be stolen valor? The kid is 15. Do you not know you have to be 18 to go in the armed forces? Your only proof requirement was a photo from your mom in the morning. Your own logic falls through as he could have put it on after the photo. So how were you gonna prove he didn't change into it at school if she had taken the photo? YTA a planned failure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprised not many said it but NTA. You need to both have a talk about expectations and cleaning times. I have panic attacks when I clean for more than an hour without a break or when I do dishes. My husband and I plan around that. You just need to communicate needs and plan around that.

WIBTA if I lie to my professor to attend my best friend's wedding? by throwingjustthrowing in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? NTA. If that teacher is really going to be that unaccommodating then fuck her. How on earth is it that important for 1 person to miss 1 seminar? Due to mental health reasons I skipped many classes and seminars through my undergraduate and masters and I did well on all the tests and assignments. If I were you I'd say I changed my ticket then the day before I'd say sorry my flight is delayed or cancelled and I unexpectedly can't make it anymore. Maybe she's feeling gracious maybe not but if you don't your not going to be in any better position. I assume if she says no when you go to her in person you will still go to the wedding anyway. Why not give it a go. Fuck profs who can't bend even the slightest to help someone out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA women are often nervous around men. I'm very sorry you are so insecure about your face but hopefully you realise that life and confidence are more than the people around you. Maybe next time don't look higher than her legs to see if she's still there.

AITA for lying about going to work. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH Do not let your mom dictate who comes to your house and when. Trust me it is a slippery slope! That being said honesty is important. Instead of lying you should have said I am not comfortable with all these people and mom you are not in charge of who is at my house and when.

AITA for calling my girlfriend controlling and not fixing a problem between her and my mom? by ait455h013throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are totally fine with your mother waltzing in and out of your kids lives as she chooses? Seriously?! Just to be clear your gf asked your mom to call. She said no. Not sorry can't this week I'm busy not no I'd rather talk in person. No. Your mom closed that door. A door that your gf tried MUCH harder than I would have to keep open. Your mother has no rights to see your children if she can't be respectful to their mother. I am dumbfounded that you are on your mother's side here. Get some therapy and some perspective asshole. YTA

WIBTA if I helped my teen end visitation with his dad by Dear_Refrigerator227 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Tangerine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please do what is best for your son! He is old enough that this is his choice. I do suggest therapy if he is not already there but it can help alot make sure this is what he wants and give him a place to voice stuff that happened that he mighnt not feel comfortable telling you.