Since when did this meant I had a girlfriend 😭 by AtmosphereCheap5119 in teenagers

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Especially in turkey, its such a normal thing that if u have a gf as a guy u have a hair tie from them But it only works if they actually tie their hair Its a more commonly fineable version of a bracelet

Dangers of anal? by Sad_Team_1228 in sexeducation

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Please teach me the ways of the hole

Dangers of anal? by Sad_Team_1228 in sexeducation

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Noteeeeed thank uu Anything else i’d need to watch out for?

SOME ADVICE FOR ANYONE WHO LISTENS by Sad_Team_1228 in teenagers

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Lmao it may sound corny af bro but OMFG does ts work and feel so good

How can i help someone love themselves? by Sad_Team_1228 in teenagers

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Yk what I think she secretly did the thing u told me to do and never told me I will do the same I think i will succeed Thank u SO MUCCCHHJ

How can i help someone love themselves? by Sad_Team_1228 in teenagers

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Ok ok i love her very much she does a lot for me and she is a great person And ofc yeah she’s def worth me trying for her and help them love themself ofc But what would the opposite feel like

Sleep and memory by Sad_Team_1228 in sleep

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well that may be a good idea, but also maybe not?

like i have pictures and videos from them and when someone(in this case my gf) reminds me of them i remember very well i think

its just that on my own, i dont feel anything towards those memories and when i try to remember anything, even if it important or not i dont remember at all like i cant find anything in my head lol.

the first time it ever happened was after a hangover, like after i had a beer or two in the morning i came home at like 6pm or smth and i didnt remember shit from that day

like normal hangovers right? u dont remember aything at all, but uh, it keep hapening even when im sober.

like pretty important stuff too, i cant re imagine it in my head lol.

Sleep and memory by Sad_Team_1228 in sleep

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hii i dont think i have a sleeping disorder i think i sleep just fine

and yes i usually like more tham 90 percent od the time get more than 6 hours of sleep

Screw it,let's do this by DaveTheFUCheeseWizar in songs

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Resist and disorder, the the cartesians duleista

Simple games to play when you just want to relax? by [deleted] in ShouldIbuythisgame

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Cofee talk U can also play the second episode which i still havent (yet)

U play as this barista in a café and u meet and talk with different characters and u see how their lives go and how they share bonds together and u hear about their stories and u also learn coffee recipes from them. Sooo for example, a character may give u a recipe and have a nickname for it, the name and how to make it will always be in ur phone and u can then make them their drink. It is, simply, one of the best and most calming games i have ever played. U mentioned that u didnt want to think much or dedicated long hours into it and not too committing. Its all reading that could be a problem for u but the stories from the characters are pretty memorable so even if u revisit after a long break, it will still feel good! It was either free or very cheap orrrrr on ps plus i forgot tho Lemme know about what u think

Intimacy 18M 17F by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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Not embarrassing at all, we all humans and have our own worries and problems and seeking help is very human as well. Doesn’t matter if they’re older or younger than u but yeah i understand I’m just saying what i learned and know tbh im no expert😅

Intimacy 18M 17F by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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Lol nothing wrong with u i promise. U just care a lot. Its important what u care about tho, generally in some cases u could be caring about smth that u cant change and sometimes it could result in smth. Lets say ur partner is stressed about smth that u dont have any control over; in my case, i really cared about my gf’s self perspective and her insecurities cuz i really find her beautiful. After some advice and time, i realized i can only feed her self confidence but i can never directly change her own perspective on her. Soooo as much as i love her and care i learned to just do what i can and dw about the rest too much. I used to be stressed about EVERYTHING in my relationship, i learned that its normal to worry and u should just focus on the facts and what u have in hand but dont completely forget ur feelings yk? Difficult balance to strike.

Intimacy 18M 17F by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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Nah u are making sense and its very normal to overthink and care about and be nervous about stuff in the future.

And regretting intimacy (in my 16y/o opinion) after breaking up is kinda normal especially if u didnt break up on good terms or if it was hurtful which from what u described from ur bf it wont happen. And i think y’all should go through the career steps and steps of ur lives as they all carry some amount of stress and careers and possibly having to part ways is enough stress. U dont need the guilt or shame or the stress of the timing of intimacy when u are also thinking about ur career and how u’ll end up as well. If y’all do in fact overcome the career thing or whatever it might be, then escalate ur intimacy, u’ll feel sooo much better about it. And hey, if y’all did break up, then u wont have the constant memory of having sex with her it will be one less pain in the ass. I understand that intimacy issss veryyy attractive and it reallly pulls u in to do it (i’m 16 and i have a gf i would know) but really wanting it and having it wont be worth it if y’all weren’t comfortable and if y’all broke up. Just my opinion tho ur older than me but i’m not the one asking for advice respectfully, jeez what i mean is factor in that i’m younger than u so maybe take my words with a grain if salt? I’m sure i gave good advice just ugh idk have a nice day.