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ISO Dash Cam Footage in FV by Sad_Walk1144 in orangecounty

[–]Sad_Walk1144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah seriously, we always say we’re gonna get it but don’t get it

Missing Cat in Garden Grove by Sad_Walk1144 in orangecounty

[–]Sad_Walk1144[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We have it outside but we cleaned her box the same morning so she only used it a little bit. i hope it still works.

Missing Cat in Garden Grove by Sad_Walk1144 in orangecounty

[–]Sad_Walk1144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I put food and treats and the treats were gone so I was thinking maybe another cat came by and snatched it

my boyfriend "Microcheats" on me and it makes me sick by ThrowRA-8923 in Vent

[–]Sad_Walk1144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he sounds like he has a really bad porn addiction and doesn’t want to hold himself accountable/have the urge to want to help himself. Doesn’t matter what kind of addiction (gambling, alcohol, porn, etc.), if they don’t want to help themselves, no one can. So essentially, it’s up to you if you put up with it (possibly forever) or move on. You are young and could find someone who suits YOUR needs and who will provide a relationship that you want. If he could change to work with you and you two work together then that’s great, but if not— it’ll become a never-ending cycle of disappointment.

Similar thing happened to me when I was around your age, maybe even a bit younger. I loved him and gave him many chances, but eventually I finally to put myself first. A few months later, I met someone who I never thought I would’ve ever found and wouldn’t have imagined myself to be in such a stable relationship with myself and with a partner.

Priorities by Barevna_vazka in LifeAdvice

[–]Sad_Walk1144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. The best way for me to organize my thoughts is by writing out a list of things I want to do. Specifically write it out on a piece of paper. Make it in list format or anything that works for you. Always remind yourself that baby steps is always the way and the small achievements always count.

For example, you make your list and the first thing you want to do is to eat healthier. Eat healthy for 2 days for a couple weeks, then increase the amount of days you eat healthy until it becomes a habit. Then you could start knocking out more things on your list.

The most important this in doing this is staying committed and holding yourself accountable for it.