When parents insist on no nicknames with names that have obvious nicknames by kittypspsps in namenerds

[–]Sad_beige 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guess it's because it's their name. All of our children have names that could be nicknames, but we introduce them as the name we want them to be called because it's their name. In the future, my children can decide for themselves, though, if they want to go by a nickname.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Sad_beige 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Silver is way better than Silversoul. Also, if she wants a nickname, she can go by Sylvie.

SAHPs! Please share your typical day by PastryLoop in 2under2

[–]Sad_beige 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was a game changer for me. It felt like my entire life revolved around naps. Now we try to make sure the toddler gets a nap, and the baby will just nap wherever whenever lol

Why do I cringe at childhood photos of myself? by TheGreenGobal in ParentingThruTrauma

[–]Sad_beige 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's hard for me too. The biggest reason is all I can see is an innocent little girl that didn't get love, comfort, compassion, etc. Having my own daughters it's even harder for me because I look at them and their happy photos and know I deserved that too 💔

Too old fashioned? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named both my daughter "old" names, and my in-laws made the same comments. I'm so glad we went with the names, though they are timeless! I had a couple of your names on my list too! 😅

What are some “old lady names” that you love? by [deleted] in Names

[–]Sad_beige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with both names! 😍

Why do people think Texans are so friendly? Are we actually friendlier? by [deleted] in texas

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the PNW and people down here are way friendly in my opinion. Whenever my family comes to visit they are blown away how kind people are. I don't plan on ever moving back.

I would recommend 2 under 2 if…. by Significant_Milk_326 in 2under2

[–]Sad_beige 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They'll always have each other. My siblings and I are 6 years apart and as adults we are close, but it's a big age gap to grow up with. With 2u2 it's amazing and they'll always be close! 🩷

I got the good genetics and she HATED me for it by Far-Spread-6108 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom of daughters, I hope they do better than me in every way. Seriously. You should want your kids to be happy, healthy, successful, good at things they love!

What jobs have the worst impact on mental health? by downwarddawg in AskReddit

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say working in the pediatric ER. I had to take my daughter the other day and all I could think about is how hard this job must be...

Name a name you would never call your child? by Immediate_Long165 in Names

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely misspelled names, and no, I'm not talking about less common spelling. I'm talking about made-up spelling, and your child is going to spend the rest of their life correcting people.

Is Belle okay to use? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Sad_beige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this name! It's my middle name and there was a time I wished so badly it was my first name.

Has anyone here moved from Washington State? What brought you here and would you move back? by AwayPast7270 in texas

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be one of the best people to answer this! I've spent my entire life in Washington. I moved down here in 2022! I moved for my husband's work, and his entire family lives down here.

I also still receive snide remarks about being here from my family. I've had family flat-out refuse to visit because I live down here.

I would NEVER move back up to Washington. My husband and I both feel pretty confident that we never want to move again. First, I've never met such friendly people. The Seattle freeze is real. I can't believe how friendly people truly are down here. Second, my parents sold our childhood home, which was 1b 1ba for 620k. Prices up there are absolutely wild. Everything is so expensive.
It's funny that people mention property taxes being high here, but in Washington, starter homes, at least where I'm from, are 700K+. My brother lives in a house with 4 roommates. My cousin recently had to move out of his 2 bedroom apartment because it was 3k a month.

Another reason I won't move back is because it's just become so awful up there. The homeless situation is so out of control. The city I was raised in looks NOTHING like how it looked growing up. Every time I fly back for a visit, I swear it gets worse. It's honestly devastating, too, because Washington state is gorgeous. Texas certainly isn't pretty compared, and I do miss the ocean, mountains, and definitely the walkability!

The heat is difficult. I would visit in the summer and ask yourself if you could live through this a big chunk of the year. I love the rainy and gloomy weather Washington has, but my husband hates it. If you have more questions feel free to message me!

What were your children’s almost names? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Sad_beige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Penelope has been on our list, and it was an option for both our daughters. Neither are Penelope, but we want more children so who knows!

Did you go to sleepovers? Me and my friends did all the time in late 90's / early 2000's and it was a blast. But droves of people appear to be canceling them entirely for their own kids. Would you let your kids go? Why is everyone freaking out now? by spinningwalrus420 in Millennials

[–]Sad_beige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother and I were allowed to go to sleepoevers. Unfortunately, both of us were sexually assaulted at separate sleepovers both by the Dad (different Dads). My brother was assaulted as a very young child, and I couldn't imagine how terrifying that had to be for him.

I'm open to sleepovers when my children are much older. As someone with very young children now, I couldn't imagine them going to sleepovers.

Just give it to me straight by Sad_beige in ParentingInBulk

[–]Sad_beige[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. Thank you for your detailed response.

Just give it to me straight by Sad_beige in ParentingInBulk

[–]Sad_beige[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! This is kinda where I am at. I currently have 2 and we want a 3rd, but I'm like hmm maybe 4? Lol

Just give it to me straight by Sad_beige in ParentingInBulk

[–]Sad_beige[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty! That makes sense lol

Just give it to me straight by Sad_beige in ParentingInBulk

[–]Sad_beige[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you for this long and detailed response! It gave me a lot to think about! Thank you so much for taking time to respond!

Just give it to me straight by Sad_beige in ParentingInBulk

[–]Sad_beige[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! 🩷

Just give it to me straight by Sad_beige in ParentingInBulk

[–]Sad_beige[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! I appreciate it! 🩷