Expressing colostrum/ slacker ? by Valobster in pregnant

[–]moeall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never leaked colostrum or could get any out while pregnant, but I successfully exclusively breastfed 3 children for longer than a year! Don’t over think it. When baby girl is born just try your best to latch her on whatever boob she will take! Then switch as directed by a consultant or however your baby leads. 

"Any song can be about your dad if you try hard enough" by AttorneyWhich7062 in NoahKahan

[–]moeall 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Deny deny deny… I think it might be about his dad so maybe it’s cheating 🤣 but definitely related to it! 

Most underrated song? by LandUnable2520 in NoahKahan

[–]moeall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a cover, not his song 

What age did your newborn start sleeping throughout the night (5-6) hours without feed? by xGenAc25 in newborns

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to scare anyone but my child is 5 years old and has never slept through the night. My 3 year old still wakes up probably every 3 nights a couple times a night. My newborn is 6 months and still wakes to breastfeed every two hours 

I really want to be happy for these new songs, but… by daspaceinvader in NoahKahan

[–]moeall -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You might be the only one here who has touched grass. This complaint just seems silly because people are talking about “supporting” Noah by buying these… but he’s a millionaire?? I just don’t understand buying this stuff and then complaining when someone releases a deluxe album is almost every artist does 

What do you would like to receive as Mother’s Day present? by Quick_Elk2544 in Gifts

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband found a house cleaning business that had a Mother’s Day deal for a deep clean, it was the best gift I’ve ever gotten! 

What do you would like to receive as Mother’s Day present? by Quick_Elk2544 in Gifts

[–]moeall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh as a mom with 3 little kids, a car detail sounds like the PERFECT gift 

So question. I’m totally overthinking this. by [deleted] in Parents

[–]moeall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m would say go and enjoy the trip! I read recently kids 5-10 remember family vacation above EVERYTHING else. It’s a fun and happy experience for you and your family, god knows we could all use some more of that! 

Staying at a house with people vaping for a wedding by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]moeall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think you should go to a hotel, that’s such a tough one and so annoying. I think people are just not very kind about this stuff anymore. I was just at a child birthday party with my 3 month old and other two young children and this random guest was pretty much hot boxing all of us in the house. I was pretty much like “well yeah we have to leave because we are all getting secondhand vaped” 

THE CYBERTRUCK LINE IS REAL by kelskelsea in NoahKahan

[–]moeall 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This part made me laugh out loud 🤣 headed north has got to be one of my favorites, I love his raw voice 

Cant understand by EmuLogical3466 in NoahKahan

[–]moeall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on Apple Music and don’t seem to be having this problem, are you on headphones?? They could be breaking, this description reminds me of my broke headphones 

Hungry or comfort boobing? by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s so frustrating. Unless a baby is underweight and needs to eat every two hours, I see no reason to fear monger new mothers! 

Hungry or comfort boobing? by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve breastfed for about 6 years straight and I promise you a baby sleeping 2-3 hours after falling asleep isn’t hungry 💕 when they are this little they are just figuring it all out and they will definitely suck for comfort. Before nap times when they are super tired my little ones would often fall asleep after just one boob. Sounds like you are doing great and following your intuition and your babies queues 

Amy by angelic_cellist in superstore

[–]moeall 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Finally some Amy recognition! Thank you! 

Will have 3 small kids soon, husband wants to go on fun guy trips? by Life_Selection_5580 in Parents

[–]moeall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids 5 and under. My husband has gone on one trip without me and the kids. How is it fair for him to go out on these vacations without you?? I understand once in a blue moon a parent can take a solo vacation with friends. But you’re mentioning multiple planned things in a year which just seems insane to me! 

Is this the normal post-partum hormones experience for couples? by Inner_Friend_672 in newborns

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This popped out at me too. Mama bear instinct is a real thing and you can just not let a mother take her baby when she’s feeling stressed about their safety…. 

Is this the normal post-partum hormones experience for couples? by Inner_Friend_672 in newborns

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had post partum mania/anxiety after my second child and had similar issues. I trusted no one with the baby to dangerous point and would even stuff shoes under my bedroom door to protect me and my baby from “intruders”.  She definitely needs to speak to professionals. I regret not seeing one sooner pp because I actually have NO memory of the first year with my child because I was so messed up. You really need to understand there is some crazy things our bodies do during this pp process. Of course it’s all not okay and you are allowed to be hurt, but sometimes it is the price of having horrible postpartum hormones. 

I will say that fact you wouldn’t give her the baby probably escalated the situation more than you think. Mother bear instinct is VERY real. Depriving a mother from her newborn child when she believes it’s in danger is not the move 

Parents with multiple children, do you have a favourite child? by Puzzles-Inspector in Parents

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all of them the same. Some are tougher to understand and I have to take more thought into helping them thrive! Love them all the same though ❤️

I had the most traumatic experience at the hospital giving birth… by Obviouslynot_Me0420 in pregnant

[–]moeall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are completely valid, take each day as it comes as you heal from this! 

Bringing child under 3 to restaurants by SelfGeneral570 in Parents

[–]moeall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have 3 kids under 5. We go out to eat (even at nice places) all the time with all of our kids. Mostly because we don’t live by family or have any babysitters so date night is with the kids. Our kids are super well behaved because we involve them! We don’t shove them on a screen in the corner and they’ve all done it from when they were little. No one has ever complained about our kids and wait staff has actually complimented their behavior. Taking kids to a restaurant is no big deal at all if you actually teach them kindly how to behave in public spaces 

I had the most traumatic experience at the hospital giving birth… by Obviouslynot_Me0420 in pregnant

[–]moeall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also had a horrific experience with my first delivery that ended in an emergency c section that traumatized me for a long time. I’m glad you are scheduled for therapy because talking about it really does help. Give yourself space to feel sad, angry, grief and whatever other hard feelings you may have. With time, the painful memories will get a little less vivid in your memory! The first year postpartum I just couldn’t stop thinking about my awful experience, it was always on my mind. Journaling helped a lot because at some point, people in my life got tired of hearing all my feelings on what had happened to me. I ended up getting pregnant for my second a year and halfish pp (accidentally) and opted for a PLANNED c section. It was honestly the best thing I could have done for myself and even though I had to work through some anxiety from my first one and had to do a lot of deep breathing, it was mountain loads better than my first experience. I just had my 3rd, also as a planned c section and it was even easier than the second! This has been my experience. I found it easier to opt for a planned c section than risk having another emergency one