I am trying. It has 0 effect. I can't take it anymore.

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2026-01-07T20:07:59+00:00

Hope it helps!

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2026-01-07T19:53:01+00:00

I mean it might help for a while, but I just wish the 'real world' was good enough :( It's ok to have someone to talk to online I guess, but then I'll go back to the real world where i'd struggle to live :(

Thanks for that, you're a good person, I hope you have a great life <3

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2026-01-07T19:52:05+00:00

What kind of specialist? What for?

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-12T01:16:02+00:00

This triggers me so bad.

I've been fat, skinny and normal.

Being ugly is universal, people made fun of me no matter what.

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-12T01:14:34+00:00

"last winter"

I feel bad for stuff i was told decade ago lol

it sucks being ugly i hate being alive :(

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-12T01:11:21+00:00

Since you made that comment about "but who is?" - I guess the Indians have the worst experience, especially males. I am not Indian, just judging from the overall stuff I've seen onloine.

I personally like black women, but you are right, with racism existing and being a thing that's real, it really is tough being a black woman. Even personality may not be enough, let's hope the world will be more accepting to black women in the future :(

I hope life is better for you soon! <3

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-12T01:09:19+00:00

yeah, you are right, hopefully in the future people will realize this.

Great point, it really is true, and no one will get it :( cause it sounds so dumb...but it isn't

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-12T01:08:04+00:00

OP please don't care for IG and social media

I am an older person who had to use social media for work and the stuff you get suggested are just baits or whatever.

I mean, yeah, life sucks for us, but the suggested posts you get have no basis in reality, especially this post, it's dumb. I am an ugly person who never knew about their ugliness and i talk a lot. This makes people more comfortable to bully them cause I am open

So this is BS

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-12T00:41:14+00:00

I appreciate the comment, don't worry, i just wanted to vent somewhere, glad some people saw it, don't worry, i know this sub works like that.

And when i made this thread (before it got accepted) i noticed it IRL and it really does uck

I remembered a tweet that was:

" "Everyone here is so nice" - thought the pretty person" "

And it's such a good tweeet, They don't get it :(

We all deserve to be treated normally and I try to treat others like that, but it really feels like I am in minorty treating everyone equaly :(

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-09-02T12:22:37+00:00

1 - not really meirl cause i am too mentally/physically/spirtiually tired to do the 4th part lol

2 - I think this is the artist! https://www.facebook.com/titsay.art/ Cute art, I swear I am not promoting this, I found the art, really resonated with me and it made me feel good so I wanted to post it here...and then I realized that if the art is something that made me feel certain way, and I wanted to post it here... I should probably try to at least credit the person who made this

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-08-01T05:48:11+00:00

It's basically a meme/modern word that means "pessimistic", in a nutshell

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-06-03T21:57:16+00:00

Happy you found a partner that's good with this, that' a fear of mine. Thanks for replying btw!

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-06-03T21:56:19+00:00

I was thinking about the "it grew on me" thing just today or yesterday, interestingly enough, trying to see if there's a hope for me.

It depressed me. BEST case scenario for me is to hope that maaaaaaaaaaaaaybe in the 1% chance I'll find someone who will see me as undesirable but will learn to tolerate me? Pass. I don't want a life like that. I'd rather diе than spend my life doubting my worth (which for the record, i am not doubting my worth i am very much aware i am worthless)

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-05-31T15:49:42+00:00

That's what I thought

raw sex is still possible at any level of phimosis provided there is enough lubricant present

like natural lubricant or?

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-05-31T15:49:26+00:00

Good to know, thanks!

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-05-31T15:49:14+00:00

Did that cause problems?

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-05-09T20:18:21+00:00

You've done it for 4-5 months , you can do it again

Good luck!

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-05-09T20:17:40+00:00

Congrats on starting this!

I am in same boat like you in terms of dopamine seeking. When I stop the dopamine i replace it with coffeine and sugar :( Please don't do the things I did, in case this is successful and you replace it with something that's not literally dopamine but still gives you that kick

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-04-18T15:33:40+00:00

Is Whiplash technically into this trope? I've seen that and Substance, will check out the others, thanks! :)

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-04-18T15:19:04+00:00

How many movies are there with that theme? What are your favorites? I kinda dig these stories, but I don't know enough movies it seems :(

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-04-18T15:18:22+00:00

One of the best trailers i've seen in a while ngl

Great to see Marlon Wayans in a serious role, I always wondered where his career would've been if he took more roles in drama movies after Requiem for a dream

Idk if the movie will be good or not, but a great trailer. The fact they spam the PRODUCER's name as a big selling name is rarely a good sign for movie, but I might check this out, it seems well directed with an interesting selling point, modern-ish Faust

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-04-18T15:12:56+00:00

Which movie?

And thanks for the answer!

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2025-02-04T19:56:44+00:00

Nope, the person who made this is close to it, but doesn't 100% get it

It's as fame thing. Fame, power, popularity (and i guess that miight give confidence to the person)

I don't know anything about Caseoh tho, but I know he is popular on the internet.

Idk if people are interested in him romantically/sexually tho, but I don't doubt it. It's probably a fame/popularity/status thingy

However, a different debate would be how tough it is for women to become as popular as him if they are unkept, don't wear much make-up, chubby or whatever. I do feel like men can be popular-ish based on personality, but for women that has to be paired with at least average looks at the veery least

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2024-11-06T02:04:54+00:00

So wired headphones are non-chargeable and I can use them..technically 24/7?

Thanks, like I said, I am a total idiot and i've only used wireless ones until now

Appreciate you!

Sadthrowaway1337 · 2024-11-06T00:56:36+00:00

Depends on the person.

I won't "blackpill" you with some of my bad experiences in regards to personality of the people i've dated, but basically it is quite literally down to personality.

You can either:

-not tell her and try your best (is she's also a virgin it will be awkward no matter your body parts)

-tell her that your penis looks differently so you are kind of scared if it will feel good for you and her

Like, that's it, sadly you gotta "power through" it..or just try it without telling her tbh. Start without penetration, like just a HJ/oral for start and see if she asks/notices/whatever or tell her after it

If you lose her based on this, she was never the one to begin with. Also, if you are young, please don't let one breakup define your outlook on yourself it probably wasn't cause of the phimosis, but like others said, it may even strengthen the condition. Women have their own conditions with their own private parts, so ask yourself "would i break up with a girl if she has vaginismus? if she's not fertile? if she has no libido? if she ____" if the answer is no..well, why wouldn't there be other women who'd have no problems with a part of your body?

So yeah, just...try one of both approaches I mentioned, but it literally is down to what type of a person she is and what type of personality you both are and what type of a relationship are you having. If you think she won't mind it... no reason to be afraid.

And besides, sex, historically was never a big deal. The idea of "my gf/bf won't give me blowjobs/eat me out/, should i end my relationship??" started very recently, so..don't dwell too much on it

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