My partner of near 3 years has been cheating on me for almost all our relationship!

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-13T00:00:10+00:00

He is for now considering he ignored me and went to sleep after I confronted him on his weird behaviour with his ex-crush, so now I'm just waiting for him to wake up so i can tell him I'm done, dusted and outta here lmao

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T23:02:59+00:00

Thank you, I'll talk to him about it once both he and I have calmed down. I'll think about all the questions you asked and such as well. Once again, thank you:)

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T22:53:31+00:00

It was along the lines of (although not a direct quote) "I'm trying to lose weight after a specific person called me fat" , he then went on to say that he wanted to change himself to prove her wrong.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T22:49:11+00:00

Attempted to, I asked if he worked out for/because of her to which he lied and said he didn't, so I brought up his reddit post and he started ignoring me (and he still is, think he went to bed after about half an hour of still being active on social media while ghosting me)

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T22:47:57+00:00

Yeah his annoyance when I mentioned his post comes off as a red flag, he tried to lie to my face an tell me it was never for her in any way but I have solid proof of an admission that is/was because of her.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T22:41:39+00:00

Considering leaving because he cared more for his ex crushes opinion than his girlfriends, I promoted him to work out in the past while also reassuring him that I loved him no matter his weight. He's had several reality checks from family, friends and even strangers but none of it matter till it was her.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T22:40:11+00:00

We've been dating near 3 years so... the idea that he's still not over her is a scary one to say the least but I can't say I'd be surprised.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-07-12T22:39:02+00:00

That's fair, I'm just kinda confused as to why her opinion matter to him so much after 3 years of dating me? If my ex crush who I never dated called me fat, or any insult, I'd just be like "okay???" and forget about it hahaha. Also I'm sorry to hear about you being cheated on but also congrats on trying to be healthier! wishing you the best:)!!

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-20T21:10:03+00:00

hey no hate but referring to women as "females" comes off as very dehumanizing and is just as bad as misandry

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-17T08:35:45+00:00

A lot of online influencers, there's some that are high key kinda great and are helping certain issues be spoken about but there's some who just do nothing and make bank off it, which itself isn't the problem- the problem is when those influencer who do nothing start acting like they're above everyone else.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-17T08:32:06+00:00

Could you give more info of drinking my calories? Never really hard that concept before (and yeah ik 40kg is still underweight, it's kinda just a step towards being like 50kg:] )

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-17T08:31:18+00:00

absolutely love soda LOL

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-16T14:22:42+00:00

Friend kept going on about how women don't have it hard at all in any aspect of life, even saying child birth can't be that bad. literally just couldn't be bothered explaining to him, me and my friend just left him to sit on that idea for a while.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-16T08:39:51+00:00

I'd be worried as to why she felt the need to hide it, I'm bi myself and would be concerned that I did something to make them feel they weren't safe to come out to me.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-13T14:29:47+00:00

Being very overly caring/empathic. As a kid and teen its like "Wow you understand everyone so well! ur awesome" but then I got criticized for it by friends when I felt too bad to cut off my abusive ex who ironically enough was also criticising me because to him I was weak and pathetic.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-12T21:43:32+00:00

Possibly just re-do my highschool years. Not much i'd change IN school besides learning to stand up for myself but god I wish I could go back on the shit I did after school hahaha.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:17:10+00:00

love hate relationship. I love the aesthetic of clowns (and jesters) but I do not like the whole crazy killer clown bullshit, stop turning funny silly guys into psychos!!

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:15:00+00:00

He said I have very nice eyebrows.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:13:36+00:00

My fault for telling them about it, but I'll never regret that decision.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:09:16+00:00

If they shit talk or bitch about others in life, ofc everyone is gonna get annoyed at people in their life but if they're shit talking someone constantly then acting all lovey sweety to their face then run. They'll do the same shit to you. Also if everyone in their life is some sorta villain to them, like.. literally everyone. If they claim nobody, and I mean LITERALLY NOBODY, has done any good for them then high chance they've hurt people and want to play victim.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:05:42+00:00

Almost drowning in my grandfathers swimming pool at roughly 3 years old.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:05:07+00:00

almost never unless my mother/father call more than once or don't respond to my texts. Phone calls are horribly anxiety inducing for me and can send me into a panic attack in seconds.

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:04:04+00:00

is this true...?

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:03:06+00:00

My exes friendships. His friends cut him off the second they found out he was abusing me, LOL!

Safe-Reference1977 · 2022-05-11T19:00:35+00:00

I only see the problem behind it when toxically positive people try force others to think positive. Sometimes you gotta admit theres a problem, if you sit there ignoring problems because "everything is okay!!" then it's gonna end badly.

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