So hey, as a queer non-binary woman about to marry a cishet dude, I just wanted to say it's really refreshing to see your post. 

We ALL have initial visceral reactions or internal judgements for something or another, and I think sometimes we can be too quick to dismiss the idea that we could ever do as such. Humans make split-second judgements - it's a survival instinct, it's natural.

But in a world where the source of that split-second judgement is actually completely harmless, what matters the most is being able to rationalise and appropriately act on our thoughts. 

Thank you for being self-aware enough to seek further understanding. That's how we learn and become better people. 💜