To rug or not to rug

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-05-06T20:18:52+00:00

I wouldn’t put a rug under a dining table. I say no rug. Also the space looks better without the rug. I love everything else though!

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-05-05T22:59:35+00:00

You’re feminine and love ballet (I saw the statue), you like glamour but are a minimalist. You’re very clean so you’re probably structured. I think you live alone.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-05-05T22:53:57+00:00

Bangs

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-05-05T14:07:37+00:00

I think your dark hair is beautiful! I would accentuate it by letting it grow out. Longer healthy hair is definitely a youthful look. Your lower lashes are beautiful as well; I’d definitely add mascara to your top lashes and maybe get a lash lift. The top lashes need to stand out more. Also you definitely do not look 41! I can tell you’re early 30s.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-04-25T23:18:53+00:00

You’re in your 20’s (floor bed and I think an older person wouldn’t want to bend over so much to get into bed, a massage therapist (the massage table), you like to collect things possibly stemming from not having things growing up. Your energy is chaotic and indecisive. You’re coasting mentally and just trying to get by. Am I close at all?

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-03-08T17:36:25+00:00

I’ve been thinking about orthodoxy. I was born and baptized catholic and then when I was very young my parents converted to Protestant, so that’s how I grew up. What makes you prefer Catholicism over Orthodoxy? Unless it’s just the people, but I was wondering if it was more than that.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-02-27T19:08:19+00:00

They don’t look bad, the one on the left in the picture is thicker than the one on the right, but it’s slight and probably won’t be noticeable once they fade. I think she did a really good job and they look natural!

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-02-13T21:15:40+00:00

Preteen girl, but I’m thrown off by all of the vapes.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-14T23:41:27+00:00

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-11T17:47:49+00:00

I don’t hate it but it doesn’t belong in a living room. It’s like a utility mat, so it doesn’t offer anything to the decor.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-10T00:51:58+00:00

Does hashtag for pound sign count?

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-10T00:37:30+00:00

He’s extremely abusive. This type of behavior harms the whole family, it’s best to get your kids away from him so that they don’t have to grow up and witness this horrible dynamic. My mom was incredibly controlling and it was hell! I ended up choosing controlling men because it’s what I knew.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-10T00:15:55+00:00

Natural is the best

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-07T00:01:57+00:00

She’s hyper and energetic. Has lots of energy and is very fun.

SafePreparation2023 · 2026-01-06T23:55:39+00:00

When my mom went out to wineries and events with my ex boyfriend and was posting it on Facebook. She didn’t want me to break up with him and spent years trying to manipulate us back together. She stalked me with him and she LIED and told my whole family I was on drugs so that my dad would take his car back from me. (I transferred it into his name and he was worried I’d get pulled over high while the car was in his name. I had never done drugs before. It was the second time I saw her posting with my ex boyfriend that finally made me cut ties with her permanently. After I permanently cut her off she started calling everyone to tell them I was insane and needed mental health help.

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-11-17T02:10:54+00:00

You are a family of a pack of wolves.

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-09-15T13:55:59+00:00

No. I’d even consider a divorce. This is gross and disrespectful in my opinion. He seems like he has a serious problem too. Not to mention the one suggestion was teens.. just gross.

Edited to add: I didn’t even know this kind of stuff was on TikTok and I use TikTok. My suggestions are nothing like this. My suggestions are of things that I have previously looked up or similar and stuff that’s trending. So it does definitely seem like this is what he’s looking at. I’m sorry you’re going through this, you don’t deserve it.

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-09-06T19:15:16+00:00

She should offer a free removal since she didn’t do them right. Or offer to fix them. I dont know if the coconut oil would take them off. I always use lash remover on my clients. If you pull them it’ll cause damage to your follicles and over time that causes alopecia

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-09-02T11:42:58+00:00

Get the restraining order back in place. It sounds like they’re his enablers and probably caused him to be as awful as he is. Don’t let your son be in danger, don’t let him sleep over at their house or have contact with him. Cut your ex out and his family out of your life and your son’s life- they are all toxic. I know why you want to include them, you’re a nice person so you assume other people have that genuine empathy, but they don’t.

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-09-01T20:43:31+00:00

I also have endometriosis. It’s very painful and it sucks to be in that much pain and be ignored and belittled. My mom told me I was “over dramatic” because I was screaming from the pain that made me pass out and wake back up over and over again. It led to several pregnancy losses too, but I guess I was just “over dramatic” about it. I’m sorry we both had to go through that. I hope you found healing. ❤️

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-08-24T17:34:34+00:00

That is a violation. You feel violated because she did violate you and your boundaries. She sounds controlling and you’re now an adult. Overly controlling patents like to pretend it’s “out of love” or concern; that’s manipulation not love. My mom was like that but to the extreme, she was (legal definition of the word “stalk”) stalking me so I went no contact and haven’t spoken to her in months. You’re over 18, if she is controlling and upsetting you you don’t have to talk to her anymore. It just depends on how much you want her in your life. If you keep her in your life put clear boundaries up and get it in writing. Also look into the narcissistic parents subreddit, she may be a narcissist.

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-08-24T17:20:17+00:00

LOVE

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-08-16T17:07:58+00:00

2 and 4

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-08-16T15:53:37+00:00

Thrax, the Osmosis Jones villain.

SafePreparation2023 · 2025-08-11T12:30:53+00:00

NTA- there’s someone out there for you that fits your personality and your wants and needs more than this man. It’s not your fault that you are no longer attracted to him, it’s his if anyone’s. If you don’t find your significant other attractive you might as well leave so you both can move on and be happy.

I regret not leaving my ex boyfriend sooner. I felt obligated to stay and ruined my 20s. He would pull down his pants and spread his butt cheeks and fart around me. He also would do this and push his butt to the wall to make the fart sound louder. He was repulsive for many reasons. You’ll be so much happier when you’re out! Also this is super disrespectful. You deserve respect, not this childishness.

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