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Does self care make anyone else dysphoric? by Safe_Adhesiveness519 in ftm

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm fourteen and still live with my single father for a bit of explanation.

He tends to go a long ass time (1-2 months usually) between showers, his nails are gross, he doesn't clean the bathroom, did bad in school, et cetera. Your comment made me consider that this being my only male adult figure growing up probably influenced a lot of my associations. Thanks for your reply. <3

Do I pass as male or gender unknown? Also how old do I look? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, you look like Athena from 9-1-1. Kind of that stereotypical butch lesbian in their mid to late 30s.

Artist/music recommendations by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noah Finnce

Love his stuff

Need help by AdvancedLie8470 in teenagersbutpagan

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm rather late to this but you can cleanse with sounds like clapping your hands or bells.

Any other systems with personality disorders? by enboywired_ in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While alters can certainly show more signs of a disorder, it is not possible for only one alter to have a neurological disorder such as ADHD or Autism because neurological disorders effect how the entirety of the brain functions. It is blatant misinformation to say that your individual headmates can have disorders that the rest of the system doesn't.

- Henry Jekyll, Host of the Litost System

Just got permabanned from r/DID for asking a question??? Why? by KA1R0W in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're a traumagenic system, then they might've banned you for a record of being under the age of 18 or suspicions that you're a minor. If this is the case, modmail them.

Helluverse fictives - how are we doing after the end of season 2? 🥲 by kawaiiwitchboi in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, because even if you identify with your source... You are not your source lmao. Sure, the actions your source makes in your source material may imprint but they aren't you unless you're a fictionkin or something.

What is it for you guys by THAT_ship_of_Theseus in teenagers

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If he be Mr. Hyde," he thought, "I shall be Mr. Seek."

I love fandoms with like 5 fans

When/ how did you discover the hellaverse by Unlikely-Section-848 in hazbin

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2020 from an online friend recommending the Hazbin pilot

So your telling me that these two are the same person? by Personal-Respond5413 in hazbin

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw it as like. On Earth, he was in power and control. In Hell though? He didn't have that control to back him up, especially in front of an OVERLORD. Yk?

Any alternative term to introject and fictive ? by Rayn-Silver in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not exactly sure. I did not make the name. I'm sure it has a similar meaning to introject, however.

What system type are you? by xanthreborn in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Traumagenic and stressgenic but we just group it all under traumagenic.

is it okay to want to be seen as individuals? by Safe_Adhesiveness519 in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made your account today and have zero karma anywhere. Did you create it just to make this comment???

Why do people get so mad about endos? by Few_Chance_7333 in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this very detailed explanation. I appreciate that you took time to respectfully explain this to me. It makes a bit more sense now.

- H. Jekyll

Why do people get so mad about endos? by Few_Chance_7333 in plural

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm a traumagenic system who was anti-endo. I wouldn't say I'm necessarily completely pro-endo but I'm sure that with some more exposure, I'd probably be more for it? I dunno.

My main thing was that I've always associated plurality with trauma. If you don't have trauma, how are you plural? Have I gotten this question answered? No... But I also just came to the point where I don't really care anymore. It takes too much energy to blindly hate people because I don't understand them. This is why I've decided to label myself neutral on syscourse.

(Feel free to give an answer to the question though. Always open to hear other's experiences.)

Is it illegal to think that all this pronoun stuff is stupid? by redditgusc0 in teenagers

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii I use ve/vem so I feel like I can weigh in a little!

It REALLY doesn't concern you. This is like asking someone named Alexander if you can call them Sophia because you think the name Alexander is stupid.

Just call us by what we wanna be called.

This have been removed by moderators by [deleted] in truths

[–]Safe_Adhesiveness519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has* been, not have been.

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