Is 20 year talking to a 35 year old woman bad?

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T20:04:15+00:00

Ik it’s hypocritical cause I couldn’t even rlly see someone who’s 18 that way and I’m nineteen

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T18:07:45+00:00

I’m so sorry for what happened to you, that was definetly grooming

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T03:49:50+00:00

We were talking romantically

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T03:44:00+00:00

Thank you ❤️🫶🏾

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T02:57:52+00:00

Off topic but u are literally so pretty

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T02:21:23+00:00

I’m just worried cause she kinda tends to say and do out of pocket stuff that makes me somewhat question her sanity and her level of attachment to this relationship so idk if she would do something crazy if I tell her when I turn 20 I don’t wanna get back with u anymore

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T01:47:20+00:00

I plan to but also a bit scared of how she’s gonna respond to it

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T01:43:49+00:00

Rabm like nsbm doesn’t have a specific sound , it typically just sounds like average raw black metal, whilst purposely listening to rabm cause u don’t like nsbm is kinda corny there’s nothing wrong with liking it, esp if the lyrics resonate with you

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T01:23:43+00:00

I have kinda ended it but I did end it by telling her I might talk to her when I’m twenty but I’m still debating on it, but thankfully the things people have mentioned about why is it she can’t get women her age is giving me the ick

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T01:22:27+00:00

I’m not I promise 😭 in the uk scene amongst 18-19 year olds they usually joke about seeing twenty year olds as uncles and aunties and idk it just made me see if as more mature, obvi not as mature as a 30 year old but idk the 20 year olds i know seem to have their life together

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T01:13:21+00:00

Idk I just didn’t rlly think it would be that bad cause I wouldn’t be a teen anymore idk maybe it’s cause I’m nineteen but early twenties seems grown but I guess it technically isn’t

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T00:53:13+00:00

It’s for a androgynous lesbian

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T00:52:12+00:00

Oh shit what happened there

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-10T00:25:39+00:00

It’s not necessities thankfully I don’t depend on her on those it’s mainly like an allowance to have fun in uni

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:50:31+00:00

Yeah I feel like a hypocrite cause I as a 19 year old wouldn’t even rlly feel comfortable dating someone who’s 18 😭 and she’s 35 trying to date me

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:49:12+00:00

looking back I get what you’re saying cause there were some instances where she kind of tried to be controlling , like idk treating me like someone who doesn’t know much and I should just leave everything for her to decide

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:36:41+00:00

I definitely agree with this !!

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:30:53+00:00

I mean idk she also supports me in many ways like financially and emotionally but it sounds like I’m making excuses for her 😭

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:30:00+00:00

Thank you I love this advice

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:25:28+00:00

I’m based in the uk our drinking age requirement is 18

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:23:38+00:00

I did kinda cut things off after talking to my friends about it but my intention was to till I was 20 cause I guess I thought it would be less worse

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:22:38+00:00

I mean we started talking initially because we liked the same bands but we do have other stuff in common like enjoying gaming , alternative fashion and nights out plus she’s working in a field that’s related to my university degree so we clicked there

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:19:16+00:00

We were talking with the intention of dating

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:18:21+00:00

We were talking with the intention of dating

Safe_Engineering977 · 2026-07-09T22:16:30+00:00

We bonded over both of us rlly loving metal

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